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Dreams of Finding Love
Here's some food for thought: So, guys what are your current dreams and desires for finding a girlfriend for love and romance? Maybe you've had this same dream and goal in the past and things did not work out like you had planned. So, maybe you just threw in the towel and put that dream on hold.
We all have had setbacks and failures in the romance department. It's all a part of the dating game until you find the right person for you.
Take this perspective - Today is a new day. I challenge you to dig deep and revive that dream of finding someone special. So what if your old dream of finding someone died. Well, just dream another dream. Don't just settle for being lonely and not having someone to love.
Dare to believe someone new is coming into your life soon.
Cheating Before and After Marriage
Marriage Infidelity Tips To Help You Save Your Marriage Before And After
Marriage infidelity is often the biggest reason that marriages end. Truth is, there have probably been problems in the marriage long before an affair occurred, but often the affair can turn out to be the breaking point. The key then is to deal with problems within the marriage as they arise and not leave them to the point where an affair happens.
To avoid marriage infidelity make sure that you and your spouse deal with any situation that is causing ructions within the marriage. The worst possible thing that many couples do is to ignore what is staring them in the face. Hiding from your problems will only make them fester and grow, get in there and tackle what is wrong head on!
Because the truth is that the affair is usually a symptom of marital problems. If there was emotional distance between you and your spouse, then within that distance there is the chance for an affair to begin. Sit down with your spouse and discuss how you feel. If you genuinely feel that your marriage is not how it should be then you have to be upfront and honest.
If you believe that you need to spend more time with your spouse then say so. Schedules need to be looked at and plans need to be made for when the two of you can spend some quality time together. Spending time together is a classic way to defeat distance in a relationship.
Another classic reason for marriage infidelity is money! Financial problems are without a doubt common reasons that people look for what they need outside of marriage. If you are struggling under the weight of trying to make ends meet financially, of coping with debt, or you're worried about your job security, then again you have to talk to your spouse. Trying to cope with this on your own will only make things more difficult. Looking outside your marriage for comfort from a third person will only hurt your marriage.
If you've got to a point where marriage infidelity is already a reality and you want to save your marriage, then you will then have to put out some fires and put them up pretty quickly. First of all end the relationship with the third person. Make sure that your spouse knows that you have ended it. Apologize for your mistake and explain to your spouse why you think you made the mistake. Any reasonable person can, IN TIME, forgive. What will erode forgiveness over time is lie after lie and betrayal after betrayal. So clearly and honestly explain your mistake, detail to your spouse what you are doing to prevent making that mistake again and live up to your promise!
How to Handle Being Rejected by Women
How to Handle Rejection
Understanding and handling rejection is the key to the whole subject of confidence. If you knew you would never be rejected, your confidence would be supreme. And if you had such wonderful confidence, you would, in turn, tend not to be rejected. Success feeds on success. This is the theory behind positive thinking, and there is much merit in it.
But there is a great flaw in the theory as applied to picking up girls. The flaw is that you will get rejections, no matter how good you are. As we have already mentioned, half the girls you approach may not even be available. Others just may not be impressed by your type of person. Tastes do vary and you can't change that. So, you will get rejections, plenty of them. You have to get used to the idea.
But remember, don't take rejections easily; they may not be real. Be persistent.
Sometimes you will be rejected after you have talked to a girl for a long time, even hours or days after you meet her. What should you do about rejection? You should take the salesman's approach. He knows that if he tries to sell to a number of prospects, a certain percentage will buy, and the rest will reject his sales pitch. So he takes the rejections cheerfully and enjoys his profits. The rejections are a little unpleasant, of course. But he was expecting them and after a few rejections, he gets used to them. Desensitized. The profit was well worth the slight unpleasantness. He shrugs each rejection off and moves on to the next prospect.
You should take the same attitude. You should not fear your rejections, particularly if the rejections were not because of any fault of yours. It is really not such a big deal. You should not place so high a value on your ego that you can't accept a few reverses. You are simply playing a game of chance and you lose a few plays. Just hang in there and keep trying.
How to Communicate with Women Using Email
Internet Dating Advice - Communicating By Email
Men, internet dating advice isn't hard to come by. Whether you're just getting started in the modern online dating scene or you want to brush up some rusty skills, here are some tips that can help you out.
Your main way of interacting on the internet will be through email. For those of you who aren't used to relating this way, you need to realize that much more thought and effort needs to be put into and email than say a phone conversation, for example. This is because what is read on the other end could be interpreted completely differently than what you intended.
So make sure you are clear and consise, not confusing. Also, when corresponding by email, don't go on and on and on about yourself and your life story. This is a big turn-off.
Instead, keep your emails short and ask her a lot of questions about herself. If she asks you a question, answer it briefly. The truth of the matter is, women want to do all of the talking (writing). And they want you to do the listening (reading).
A good rule of thumb is to keep all your e-mail replies less than three sentences long. Use the first two sentences to answer a question and the last sentence to ask her a question. If she hasn't asked you anything, just write a one-line question. Asking questions keeps your discussion going and shows her that you are thoughtful and interested.
Also, don't send too many email messages or instant messages. This only shows a woman that you have nothing better to do and makes you appear needy.
Another important rule to keep in mind is to stay away from any sex talk. . .unless she brings it up. And even then, don't go overboard. She may be testing you so feel out the situation before responding.
And perhaps the hardest men internet dating advice to follow is don't lie to impress a woman. It's tempting at first because you don't know these women and they aren't sitting right in front of you. That makes it extremely easy to beef yourself up a little bit. But what if you end up really liking a woman that you've been dating for a while and you'd like to get serious with her? Those lies will eventually catch up with you.
Finally, try not to get involved with too many women at one time. Although that situation may seem ideal to you now, it may backfire. You'll end up mixing up conversations, calling women by the wrong name and generally just gaining a bad reputation. So, when you do get a lot of replies to your personal ad, be very choosy about who you answer back.
Hopefully this men internet dating advice about how to communicate by email will help you in your online dating endeavors.
Older Women Dating Younger Men
Do you have any idea how many older women dating younger men there are? An AARP survey showed that one-third of women over the age of 40 are dating a man younger than she is. This trend of older women dating younger men is growing and if you find yourself in such a relationship, you’re not alone.
Older women who date younger men have collectively become known as “cougars.” The trend may be a result of the divorce rates in American families.
If a 50 year old woman gets a divorce after 25 years of marriage, she’s unlikely to rush into the arms of a still older man. She may want to sow her oats with a sexy younger guy.
Because she is not considering having children with the new man, his age may be unimportant. Further, women are likely to have stronger sexual needs at this point in their lives than their male counterparts. A younger man fits the bill.
Younger men, on the other hand, may find that the confidence an older woman brings to the bedroom to be quite sexy. Used to always having to take the lead, younger men can have their sexual needs indulged.
Younger men may also like the fact that successful career women do not expect them to be the primary breadwinner in the relationship. This gives the younger man time and space to finish graduate school, become a concert pianist, or start a business.
One of the problems in older women dating younger men relationships is that the men may feel a need to father children at some point. Because the woman is probably not able to bear children at this point in her life, the man may start to look elsewhere if he wants a family of his own.
Still, celebrities like Demi Moore and Susan Serandon have shown that older women can successfully pull off relationships with younger men.
What is some advice for younger men who find themselves in love with an older woman?
1.) Date an older woman for the right reasons. The age of your date should be the least important thing about her. You should look for shared interests and values.
2.) Understand that there is a generational difference. You have to balance “being yourself” with her expectations of how a gentleman behaves.
3.) Appreciate her career. Too many men her own age have rigid stereotypes about a woman’s place in the workplace hierarchy. But if your cougar has achieved a significant leadership position in her job, be supportive. She’ll love you for it.
There is a growing trend of older women dating younger men. If you are part of the wave, enjoy the many opportunities you have to find the woman of your dreams.
Are You Doing Something Wrong with Women
Fear of Doing Something Wrong with Women
You Are Not Doing Anything Wrong
The biggest hang-up men have when they consider picking up a girl is that they are doing something wrong, and they feel guilty about it. Get that idea out of your head right away. It is not wrong. When was the last time you heard of someone being arrested for simply talking, in a friendly way, to a girl? Most of our feelings of guilt are built up in our own minds and are out of all proportion with reality.
If you still feel it is wrong, consider the positions reversed. Change places with the girl. Imagine you are walking along and an attractive girl stops and talks to you. Would you be offended? Of course not. Then, she should not be either.
You might try an approach to a girl while thinking of the reversed positions, and remember to act quite casually, as if you had every right to talk to her -because you really have. Most girls will talk right back to you. A few might be self-conscious and uncomfortable. Some may even be un- friendly or uninterested because they are already committed elsewhere. But none should be offended. Quite the contrary, they should be flattered by the attention; even if some of them don't show it.
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