Conversation Advice for Men
Talking to Women Tips
Another, subtler form of challenge, if you don't totally agree, is to greet her statement with a studied silence rather than the customary nod, or murmur of agreement. This indicates that you don't agree with her yet, and you are still thinking about what she said.
I do not suggest these challenging tactics as a form of gamesmanship, but as a sign that you are giving her remarks a genuine appraisal. No one places much value on the integrity of a person who agrees with them all the time. This makes the person seem weak.
Throughout your conversation you should always be positive and decisive about any suggestions you make. You should never say "Maybe we could..." You should say, "'Come on, let's..." Always make it quite clear what you want to do. If the girl doesn't want the same thing she can tell you. Most girls prefer men to be the leaders.