Frame of Mind with Women

Get Your Mind Right

Your Frame of Mind

To make a comparison with a football coach and his team, the "technical" moves we have just discussed are like the plays and tactics the coach shows his team on a blackboard. But the coach would also insist that you have to be mentally prepared. So, we now must work on your frame of mind. YOU MUST GET UP FOR THE GAME.

We have already discussed that you should decide if you really want to pick-up a girl. Any fears of complications should be examined and a definite decision made. Feelings of indecision are very distracting and may spoil your whole operation. If you decide to do it, then decide to really go through with the whole plan, with no second thoughts.

You Need to be Self-Confident with Women

Self-Confidence with Women

Self-confidence is the most important factor in a man's courtship of a woman. It is important in all phases of courtship, regardless of how the couple meets. They may have begun with an introduction by a friend, by a contact through their work, a pick-up, or any other way. But self-confidence is always the most important asset a man can have when with a woman.

The lack of self-confidence is the reason many men sit at home and watch TV or spend their leisure time with old friends, when they would really like to be with a girl. If you are one of these men, it is time to do something about it.

Using Body Language to Attract Women

Intimate Body Language

There are a number of body language moves, which are preliminary to, and part of, suggestions of sexual activity. The first is moving into intimate distance; your face is 18 inches, or closer, to hers. The second is physical contact, such as touching hands. A very effective signal of intimate interest is to lean close to the girl, look her in the eyes, and reach out and squeeze her hand.

Other less intimate gestures, which also tend toward intimacy are: affectionate nudges, squeezing her arm, and patting her hand to emphasize a point while you are talking. Stroking her hair, rubbing her hand, neck or arms are, of course, more intimate. Then, as you all know, there is kissing, which in turn leads up to petting. We shall stop the obvious progression at this point, since this is not a book on making love, only the communications leading up to it.

Topless Dancer Tips for Men

Topless Dancer Tips

Can you touch her while she's giving you a private dance? This is a big "No, No." There are laws governing how close their private parts can be to you while she's performing her dance. The rule is usually from six to twelve inches. If she blatantly violates this law, she can be arrested for lewd dancing and it's not uncommon to get arrested. The police monitor the clubs from time to time to see if there's any lewd dancing going on. That's why I recommend getting dances in a private dark corner of the club away from the prying eyes of any cops. It's easy for her to keep from getting caught if nobody can see what's going on. This is a bonus for you too, because if she really likes you she may put her breasts right in your face or show you her bush.

Always ask a dancer upon first meeting her, how long she has been dancing. If she's new at it, most likely you won't get a very good dance out of her, versus a experienced dancer with all the right moves. Also, if you're going to buy a dance make damn sure you've already seen her with her clothes off. You do this by observing her when she's on a stage or by watching her as she's doing a dance for another guy.

Some Effective Conversation Starters to Use on Women

Some Good Conversation Starters

Moneymaking is always an interesting subject. You might ask this question: "Do you intend to be wealthy? What do you think of wealth, is it important to you?" and "What kind of job would you have if you could; do you put money ahead of everything?" If the answer is "No" then ask what other things are more important. Things like friendships, personal satisfaction, ecology, etc. might be mentioned. Also, ambitious persons might speculate on ways to make money. This topic usually sets up an interesting conversation.

Your ambition and career activities are a good topic (if they are interesting). You can be prepared to do a brief review of your life and activities (past, present and future). Try to give the impression of being in the midst of a lot of interesting activity. The girl should feel that she is being invited into your life and activities for a visit.

Do you believe in reincarnation? Many people do, and it is a fascinating topic of conversation. Fortune telling, tea cup reading, palmistry and astrology may seem a bit far fetched, but in Oriental countries they are enormously popular. They offer wonderful advantages for conversation with newfound friends, especially since they give you some opportunities for a closer personal contact, such as holding hands, etc. Your attitude when handling these subjects can range from serious belief to humorous skepticism.

How to Date Beautiful Women

Tips for Average Guys Dating Beautiful Women

Can you believe that she accepted a date with you? Dating beautiful women can be a challenge because men put them on a pedestal.

Dating beautiful women is a real ego-booster to most men. They not only make you feel good about yourself, but they increase your status in the eyes of other men. Ironically, they also increase your desirability in the eyes of other women too!

Highly attractive women have a lot of opportunities to date rich, powerful, and attractive men. As a result, as a group, they tend to develop some bad habits that make them less desirable as long term partners. For instance, they are likely to be vain, high maintenance, and manipulative.

If you happen to be dating beautiful women and aren’t very wealthy or particularly attractive, you have some challenges to deal with. Here’s some advice about how to handle dating beautiful women.

1.) Be different. When every man is fawning over a woman, they begin to look alike to her. You stand out by being different.

2.) Treat her badly. If every man is treating her like a goddess, there is nothing you can do to differentiate yourself. But if you ignore her, act unaffected by her good looks, and avoid looking lustful, she is likely to want to pursue you. You have become the guy who didn’t knock himself out for her – and that’s attractive to her.

3.) Ignore her. When you see a beautiful woman with her plain sidekick (and she will have one), focus in on her friend. The beautiful woman will get insanely jealous because she can’t stand any other female getting attention (hence, her plain friend) and she will begin to pursue you. This is how you start dating beautiful women.

4.) Tease her. Most men who want to date a particularly beautiful woman will suck up with complements. Instead, take the route of teasing her. Point out her flaws in a lighthearted way. That way, she’ll want to work to get you.

5.) See her as a complex woman. Most men dating beautiful women look at them as pretty packages. Go deeper. Talk about her hobbies and interests. Make her comfortable by talking about the things which engage her mind.

6.) Wait to call her. If you get her number, don’t call the next day. Wait a few days to call her. She expects you to be panting for her and will respect you more if you don’t seem desperate.

7.) Don’t push for sex. Okay, the ultimate reason for dating beautiful women is because you are sexually attracted to her. But, she knows that every guy is hot to get her into bed. But “playing hard to get,” you pique her interest in you.

Dating beautiful is not for the feint of heart. But, even if you don’t have the wealth of Bill Gates or the power of Henry Kissinger, you may find that treating an extremely attractive woman with some distance may be the ultimate aphrodisiac.

What Not to Talk About on a Date

Do Not Talk About This on a Date

Topics To Avoid

You should try to keep the conversation in areas that are exciting and interesting. Certain uninteresting subjects should be avoided -for example:

1. Your health and sicknesses. No one really wants to hear about that.
2. Your family. Maybe your brother is a good football player or your father is ninety years old. Details of these things are important to you, but quite boring to someone who doesn't know them.
3. Your work. (If it is routine and ordinary.)
4. Any technical subject. (Unless the girl shows a definite interest in it.)
5. Obvious subjects. If the girl says she is from a certain place, or involved in a certain type of work, do not think that you are obliged to keep on that subject (unless she seems to want to). She may want to talk about otherthings, so be ready to open up a fresh subject.
6. Your past love affairs. (Bragging about these is a very pointed attempt to influence the girl, and is sure to be resented.)