Overlooking Women

Don't Overlook Women

Don't Assume She Wouldn't Be Interested

Often you will see a pretty girl at a party or other social activity (or at work) who seems to be very happy and involved with other men in conversation and enjoyable activities. You, as an outsider, may be inclined to assume she would not be interested in you, since she has plenty of interesting friends already.

This is a faulty line of reasoning. She may be only partially satisfied with her other friends. When she meets you, she may like you much more than them.

If you are attracted to a girl you should make a play for her.

Courage with Women

Courage with Women

She Will Admire Your Courage

If you think that by coming up uninvited and talking to a girl, you are making yourself look bad to her, you are dead wrong. It is exactly the opposite. It is quite an impressive act to her. You have shown courage and initiative.

 

She may still reject you for a number of other reasons ranging from her own self-consciousness to the fact she was involved with someone else, but your approaching her would be an actual plus in your favor.

Frame of Mind with Women

Get Your Mind Right

Your Frame of Mind

To make a comparison with a football coach and his team, the "technical" moves we have just discussed are like the plays and tactics the coach shows his team on a blackboard. But the coach would also insist that you have to be mentally prepared. So, we now must work on your frame of mind. YOU MUST GET UP FOR THE GAME.

We have already discussed that you should decide if you really want to pick-up a girl. Any fears of complications should be examined and a definite decision made. Feelings of indecision are very distracting and may spoil your whole operation. If you decide to do it, then decide to really go through with the whole plan, with no second thoughts.

You Need to be Self-Confident with Women

Self-Confidence with Women

Self-confidence is the most important factor in a man's courtship of a woman. It is important in all phases of courtship, regardless of how the couple meets. They may have begun with an introduction by a friend, by a contact through their work, a pick-up, or any other way. But self-confidence is always the most important asset a man can have when with a woman.

The lack of self-confidence is the reason many men sit at home and watch TV or spend their leisure time with old friends, when they would really like to be with a girl. If you are one of these men, it is time to do something about it.

Using Body Language to Attract Women

Intimate Body Language

There are a number of body language moves, which are preliminary to, and part of, suggestions of sexual activity. The first is moving into intimate distance; your face is 18 inches, or closer, to hers. The second is physical contact, such as touching hands. A very effective signal of intimate interest is to lean close to the girl, look her in the eyes, and reach out and squeeze her hand.

Other less intimate gestures, which also tend toward intimacy are: affectionate nudges, squeezing her arm, and patting her hand to emphasize a point while you are talking. Stroking her hair, rubbing her hand, neck or arms are, of course, more intimate. Then, as you all know, there is kissing, which in turn leads up to petting. We shall stop the obvious progression at this point, since this is not a book on making love, only the communications leading up to it.

Topless Dancer Tips for Men

Topless Dancer Tips

Can you touch her while she's giving you a private dance? This is a big "No, No." There are laws governing how close their private parts can be to you while she's performing her dance. The rule is usually from six to twelve inches. If she blatantly violates this law, she can be arrested for lewd dancing and it's not uncommon to get arrested. The police monitor the clubs from time to time to see if there's any lewd dancing going on. That's why I recommend getting dances in a private dark corner of the club away from the prying eyes of any cops. It's easy for her to keep from getting caught if nobody can see what's going on. This is a bonus for you too, because if she really likes you she may put her breasts right in your face or show you her bush.

Always ask a dancer upon first meeting her, how long she has been dancing. If she's new at it, most likely you won't get a very good dance out of her, versus a experienced dancer with all the right moves. Also, if you're going to buy a dance make damn sure you've already seen her with her clothes off. You do this by observing her when she's on a stage or by watching her as she's doing a dance for another guy.

Some Effective Conversation Starters to Use on Women

Some Good Conversation Starters

Moneymaking is always an interesting subject. You might ask this question: "Do you intend to be wealthy? What do you think of wealth, is it important to you?" and "What kind of job would you have if you could; do you put money ahead of everything?" If the answer is "No" then ask what other things are more important. Things like friendships, personal satisfaction, ecology, etc. might be mentioned. Also, ambitious persons might speculate on ways to make money. This topic usually sets up an interesting conversation.

Your ambition and career activities are a good topic (if they are interesting). You can be prepared to do a brief review of your life and activities (past, present and future). Try to give the impression of being in the midst of a lot of interesting activity. The girl should feel that she is being invited into your life and activities for a visit.

Do you believe in reincarnation? Many people do, and it is a fascinating topic of conversation. Fortune telling, tea cup reading, palmistry and astrology may seem a bit far fetched, but in Oriental countries they are enormously popular. They offer wonderful advantages for conversation with newfound friends, especially since they give you some opportunities for a closer personal contact, such as holding hands, etc. Your attitude when handling these subjects can range from serious belief to humorous skepticism.