I know this is just common sense, but arrive at a topless club after ll pm or even later. How does this save you money? If you arrive early, say after 7-8 p.m., you will spend a lot of money on drinks, table dances, etc. To pick up topless dancers, you need to arrive after 11 p.m. and close to closing time. So, arriving late can save you money and increase your chances of scoring. Around closing time the dancers may be loaded and easier to take advantage of.
Don't Push
Now, this isn't something you ALWAYS do. If a girl is out with her friends you don't want to impose, in fact, for that reason you should always set a time limit when you've started talking with a woman. I have to get back to my friends in a few minutes, but before that or I have to leave soon.
If the lady you like seems ready to follow, then you can say I'm going to xxx, it's a good spot, you should come. SOMEONE needs to teach you what this city has to offer. (By the way, this is a KILLER line if you're not a local.)
Oftentimes the woman won't be able to join you for whatever reason could be she's got plans already, maybe she doesn't want her girlfriends gossiping, she might just be shy. That's ok. You can still meet her but here's how you do it.
Don't Be Ordinary
Don't ask her to dinner. If possible, don't even ask her in advance. A spontaneous meeting at a coffee shop or going shopping in an eclectic neighborhood with built-in conversation is great.
Your call should sound something like this: What are you doing right now? I'm about to hit Java Joe's, you should come and entertain me.I'm shopping for some clothes, and I'd like a woman's opinion. What are you doing now?
Make sure you're going somewhere fun. The kind of place with strange knick-knacks all around so you're conversation can naturally flow from your surroundings. Why do extra work when you can let the atmosphere help you
Dating Tips to Succeed with Women
This is one of the main reasons for the failure of your relationships with your wives and your girlfriends: if you look backward there was a moment where you started to feel:"This is not fair, I am more powerful, I should raise her at my level".
Soon after you wondered why you get absolutely no "thank you" from her and why she seems to want more and more and more out of you.
Guys tell me the truth: each one of you has been in his marriage or relationship with a woman in the point where he has to ask from himself:"What the hell is going on here? The more I give to her the more she takes!"
This process went on until.. you were made weaker and she went out of the relationship with you with half of your property.
Or until you had to stop her from doing that in a pretty rough way.
No matter how balanced and sexy a woman is, no matter how great you and she get along she will have to be reminded not to be selfish. She is incapable of what you guys call "altruistic" behavior toward her same-age partner.
She can only be "altruistic" toward her children.
That doesn't mean you can't teach her how to behave to relate with you in a different way. What you need to take out of your mind is that you will be able at a certain point to have her internalize fairness. That will never happen.
When a male perceives himself in a situation in which he is taking advantage of the other person, he tends to feel guilty
He either constructs psychological defenses that allow himself to continue in the one-sided business in which he gains at the other person's expense or, he somehow goes about increasing the gain for the other person while reducing his own until that point at which he feels things are "fair" or "equal" again.
In other words, he somehow tries to build an altruistic balance.
When a female, on the other hand, perceives herself to be involved somehow in a one-way relationship, she recognizes it as such but then doesn't take the next step. Instead, her typical response is to attempt to perpetuate the situation, cause it to continue, figure out how to make sure she continues to get that stuff.
It isn't nasty behavior from her; it is, simply, her own instinct to preserve herself. When her children get messed up she sacrifices herself; but not before that time. Well maybe some modern women not even when their children get messed up.. but those are extreme cases.
So if you set yourself in a relationship with a woman in the position of being "fair" to her in everything she will take out of you everything, even the last penny. Instead the position you need to take towards her is the one of constantly teaching her how to give you things in return for what you are giving to her. You have to teach her that whatever you give to her is not for free. You need to teach her fairness and altruism.
When you do this you achieve her respect: you are showing her that you can hunt around and also hunt her.
How you do that on daily basis? Like this:
- Your leadership over a woman is not for free. Every time you lead her you need to communicate / sub-communicate that you do that only if you are treated well and get something in return. If she stops giving you stop leading. Verbalize this at need.
- Be specific in asking things from her. Women like to take care of you. You can be specific about how you want her to make love with you, in which way you want to be touched, tell her openly what pleases you sexually.
- You can be specific in regard on how you want her to behave socially, how you want her to dress, how you want her to come close to you, of which subjects you want her to talk with you and so on.
When you teach her to give things back to you in return for your existence in her life you are behaving with her like her Prince. Women love to be devoted to Princes because they are usually the best hunters.
Instead if you get into the downward spiral of giving her all what you have for the sake of fairness you will be taken into a black hole, her attraction and respect for you will go down and you will finally lose her.
She will think that you are pleasing her because you want to rest and stop hunting and will behave accordingly by taking all what remains of your prey out of you. An alpha male cannot rest. That is an illusion. If you are alpha you know that you can rest only in your grave.
Put your energy into business, pick-up, seduction and never enter a relationship where you are being made weaker !
To be able to understand the deep differences in psychology between you and women is a very important skill.
If you are a single man willing to seduce women to get a wonderful girlfriend.
Or a husband willing to make his own wife happy in the relationship.
Or a playboy willing to have a lot of fun.
Impressing Women for Dinner Dates
Let me give you some great tips that will help you score a lot of points with women. When a woman invites you over to cook you dinner, be sure to:
1. Ask her if you need to bring something like wine, bread, covered dish, beverages, champagne, desert, etc. This is a very thoughtful gesture on your part.
2. Offer to set the table.
3. Before you sit down to eat, pull out her chair for her and give her a soft and gentle kiss on the cheek and say thank you for the dinner.
4. After you have finished eating offer to help her clean up, put the food away, and clean the dishes.
And don't worry about coming across as a sissy for doing this. Forget about being a macho man. Doing these things are going to make a very favorable impression on her and that's the whole ball game here, to score points and don't worry about your masculinity.
How to Get Over Setbacks in Dating
Pick Up Lines to Use in the Summer
The summer is coming to an end and you need to think about some good pick up lines to use when trying to meet girls at the beach or swimming pool. Here are some good ones to use:
How to Buy Table Dances from Topless Dancers
Here's a tip to save you from wasting your money on a bad table dance. Always ask a topless dancer when you first meet her, "How long have you been dancing?" If she hasn't been dancing very long, she will be inexperienced and it will show. It may not be very sexually stimulating and seductive. Also, she may feel very uncomfortable or shy about giving a table dance and this will show, too.
If you want to get your moneys worth, buy your table dance from an experienced dancer. Watch the dancers giving other guys table dances. If you see one that really turns you on, buy a dance from her. At least you'll know what you're getting.
Here's another tip. Don't buy a blind table dance. What I mean by blind is buying a dance from a dancer without seeing her body first. You may be attracted to her pretty face but once you see her body, you may be disappointed and feel you threw your money away. She may have some features that turn you off such as stretch marks, sagging breasts, flat chested, too many tattoos, cellulite, big ass, etc. It's better to see a dancer naked first before you buy a dance so you won't be disappointed.
