Romantic Gestures to Seduce Women

Perfect the Small Romantic Gesture

Grand gestures are great in the movies. But, in the real world with kids, bills, jobs and housework, everyday romance is better than any single gesture of love. Romance starts with the little things. Until you get that ironed down, all the sweeping gestures will fall flat. That is not to say they will not work. A fat, 10 carat, pink diamond will give the relationship a boost. But, unless you play for the NBA and are prepared to pull out your black card every few months, it is best to iron down the basics.

Small, romantic gestures can be more powerful than their expensive counterparts. A way to a woman's heart is through her feelings. She needs an emotional connection to make everything feel right. The little things that show you consider her happiness and well-being make her feel appreciated, loved and adored. And that, my friend, is romance.

Is the concept still foggy? Here are a few ideas to try out:

Everyday Intimacies

Praise her regularly. Women love to give and receive compliments. It doesn't matter if you compliment the sparkle in their eyes when they laugh, or a new spice in the meatloaf. Just make it as specific and sincere as possible.

Touch her lovingly during everyday situations. Lay your hand on her lap under the dinner table or put your arm around her when watching television. Physical touch, without expectation, builds a connection and is the epitome of romance.

Call her by a pet name. Pet names are nicknames made perfect. A carefully given pet name sets your relationship apart from others. The right name shows you care enough to give her an intimate title suited to your special bond. No matter how silly, the key is to use the name with confidence.

Bring her something without her asking. For example, when at the gas station, buy her favorite drink when you pay for the gas. Hand her the beverage with a kiss on the cheek. Or simply bring her a glass of ice water on a hot summer day. This is more about being thoughtful than reading her mind - simple and romantic.

Glance her way. Romantic body language goes a long way during day to day activities. A special glance across the room while the kids, are playing creates a special moment. Do it just right, and a deep focused stare becomes an invitation for much more to come.

Show out like a teenager. Yes, you are all grown up, but teens know how to throw caution to the wind and enjoy life. Public displays of affection are très romantic. So, flirt, hold hands, kiss in public places and announce your love to the world.

Help out with "her" chores. Does she always load and unload the dishwasher. Take the initiative and complete this task for her. Better yet, when she gets up to clear the table, take the plates off her and say lovingly, "Honey, I'll take care of this. Go relax. You deserve a break." Don't ask. Just tell her you want to help, do it and do it how SHE likes it done. If she like the glasses on the top rack, put them there and don't forget to scrub the pots and wipe down the counter.

Pamper her properly. Offer to scrub her back when she is in the shower, and don't get in unless she gives an invitation. Give her a shoulder massage longer than 60 seconds. Go all out and paint her toes. Don't worry; the fellas never have to know.

 

The at Home Date

An at home date is often much more impressive than the traditional type. For it to go off without a hitch involves some preparation. First set the scene.

Make sure the house, or at least the room for the big date is tidy and clean. Low light is notoriously romantic. Dim the lights then create soft lighting with candles or white Christmas lights. If the sun is setting open the windows. Simply controlling the lighting will cast a romantic glow on the evening. Turn on background music loud enough to set the mood, yet soft enough to allow for conversation and sweet nothings in her ear. Ignite her sense of smell by sprinkling perfume on the light bulbs or use scented candles. However, if cooking dinner allow the foods aroma to arouse her senses.

Don't forget to drop your kids off at the sitters. You don't want to go through all this work to have your lover switch into Mommy mode. Once everything is set, hop in the shower, put on some suave threads, and her favorite cologne. After all, you are the most important part of the scene.

Here are a couple of ideas to start your creative juices flowing: 1. Watch a romantic movie. Grab a blanket and snuggle on the couch with a dvd she's been dying to see. Or pull out an old favorite that has special significance. It doesn't matter if it is a drama with subtitles or is an action adventure. As long as it is chosen with her taste in mind, it can set off a perfect romantic evening. 2. Cook a romantic dinner. This old standard will never go out of style. Plan a simple menu with foods your spouse enjoys. Now is not the moment to experiment with a new recipe. Include an appetizer and a light dessert to complete the picture. 3. Have game night for two. Stay in on Saturday night and laugh and bond over a game of scrabble. Have a bottle of her favorite label on hand and use the good wine glasses. Share a relaxed, quiet evening at home and you never know how the night will end. 4. Use your environment. Clear a spot in the living room, put on a cd and ask your date to dance. While you are entwined in each other's arms whisper something sweet in her ear. Dust off the fireplace and light a fire. The soft flames, champagne, a blanket and cushions on the floor are very intimate. Or light candles around the hot tub or swim in your pool by moonlight. The point is to use what is already there, and create an experience, even if it means putting her hand in yours and embarking on an evening stroll.

 

Romantic Gifts to Give Women to Impress Them

Now for the cherry on top - the romantic gift. Everyday gestures and well planned dates are further enhanced with the right gift. When it comes to romance, not any gift will do.

Contrary to what many men believe, how much you pay for the gift is not directly related to her enjoyment. The wrong gift, no matter the cost, will put you in the dog house. A new top of the line dishwasher is no good no matter how shiny. Why? Practical gifts, no matter how much you spend, are never romantic. Here are a few gift examples that fit the rules of romance:

A rose is just a rose. Red is the color of passion and a red rose means, "I love you. Place a single rose somewhere she will find it like under her windshield wiper. Roses are pure romance, but remember to keep a gift of flowers personal. If your sunshine prefers daisies, a hand picked bouquet will make her heart flutter.

Give her your undivided attention. Pick a day to hang out with her at the mall. When you see her interested in a garment insist she try it on. Have her come out and model it for you. If she likes the outfit, purchase it for her without asking, and let her wear out the store. The combination of spending time with her and the impromptu gift is terribly romantic.

Let her know she is sweet as candy. Sumptuous chocolates have been presented to Lovers through the ages. If she is a gourmand give her Swiss chocolates, or if she enjoys gummy bears giver a bag and tie it with a bow. Keep her taste in mind and you will hit her sweet spot.

 

Cracking the Code to Romance

CRACKING THE CODE

Most women have different versions of what romance is, and what is romantic. All you need to know is how to break your woman's code. To make the modern woman weak there is one golden rule. Please your woman as you would have her please you. Since, most men see romance as a list of procedures; let's break it down to six simple rules.

1. Know her interests. No two women are identical. You can't possibly please your partner without knowing what they like. Romance is thoughtful. Know who she is and

2. Put her desires above your own. This doesn't mean be a doormat. But when you are making a romantic gesture, put your favs aside for hers.

3. Don't expect your back scratched. Romance is alive when you are eager to please for no other reason than making her happy. Once you do something expecting a pat on the back, romance is off the table. If you think she can't tell you have ulterior motives, think again.

4. Do it all by yourself. For romance to work, you have to put on your big boy pants. If you ask her for ideas or allow her to help, you are done before leaving the gates.

5. Serve her with a smile. Making her happy should not be presented as a chore. Romance must be her pleasure and yours.

6. Be spontaneous. Women love mystery. Surprise her for no reason at all and romance will definitely be in the air.

 

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How to be Romantic with Women

What is it exactly that makes a woman see a man as romantic? Most of the time it's the little things that women notice. A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché. That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments.

The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.

Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies and the list goes on.

It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do with her when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen…and that, sir, is VERY romantic indeed.

It doesn’t matter which activity to choose to participate in with the woman that you want to think of you as romantic. The trick is for you to be totally involved mentally in the activity and not staring off into space or obviously just wishing it were over so you could go do what you really want to do. Remember this is you trying to be romantic so concentrate on the project at hand.

It really is so very easy to create romantic moments. With only a little thinking and planning, romantic moments can happen every day and at the most unexpected moments. Being romantic is a win/win situation. There is no reason not to make romantic moments happen at every opportunity.

 

Tips for Average Guys Dating Beautiful Women

Can you believe that she accepted a date with you? Dating beautiful women can be a challenge because men put them on a pedestal.

Dating beautiful women is a real ego-booster to most men. They not only make you feel good about yourself, but they increase your status in the eyes of other men. Ironically, they also increase your desirability in the eyes of other women too!

Highly attractive women have a lot of opportunities to date rich, powerful, and attractive men. As a result, as a group, they tend to develop some bad habits that make them less desirable as long term partners. For instance, they are likely to be vain, high maintenance, and manipulative.

If you happen to be dating beautiful women and aren’t very wealthy or particularly attractive, you have some challenges to deal with. Here’s some advice about how to handle dating beautiful women.

1.) Be different. When every man is fawning over a woman, they begin to look alike to her. You stand out by being different.

2.) Treat her badly. If every man is treating her like a goddess, there is nothing you can do to differentiate yourself. But if you ignore her, act unaffected by her good looks, and avoid looking lustful, she is likely to want to pursue you. You have become the guy who didn’t knock himself out for her – and that’s attractive to her.

3.) Ignore her. When you see a beautiful woman with her plain sidekick (and she will have one), focus in on her friend. The beautiful woman will get insanely jealous because she can’t stand any other female getting attention (hence, her plain friend) and she will begin to pursue you. This is how you start dating beautiful women.

4.) Tease her. Most men who want to date a particularly beautiful woman will suck up with complements. Instead, take the route of teasing her. Point out her flaws in a lighthearted way. That way, she’ll want to work to get you.

5.) See her as a complex woman. Most men dating beautiful women look at them as pretty packages. Go deeper. Talk about her hobbies and interests. Make her comfortable by talking about the things which engage her mind.

6.) Wait to call her. If you get her number, don’t call the next day. Wait a few days to call her. She expects you to be panting for her and will respect you more if you don’t seem desperate.

7.) Don’t push for sex. Okay, the ultimate reason for dating beautiful women is because you are sexually attracted to her. But, she knows that every guy is hot to get her into bed. But “playing hard to get,” you pique her interest in you.

Dating beautiful is not for the feint of heart. But, even if you don’t have the wealth of Bill Gates or the power of Henry Kissinger, you may find that treating an extremely attractive woman with some distance may be the ultimate aphrodisiac.