Take a look around at the tennis courts. What will you see? Plenty of women. That's what. Tennis is very popular and attracts a lot of women. Lots of women go to the tennis courts to meet men. Perhaps not openly, but subconsciously.
Tennis is a one-on-one sport and this allows for a lot of mental concentration between you. It sure is a good way of getting to know someone. Just the two of you having fun together. What's good too is that after you have played a match, it's quite natural to cool off and talk to each other and perhaps go and have a drink or get a bite to eat.
How do you approach women at the tennis courts? There's a lot of different approaches. You can say, "Do you need a partner?" Or you could reserve a court in advance and say to a woman, "Would you like to play on Court 9? My tennis part-ner didn't show up."
You might want to arrive early to shoot the bull before you play tennis. Just talk to any and every woman you see. This way you can meet women before you even make it to the courts.
If you don't play tennis, by all means take lessons. This opens up another avenue for meeting women. Tennis lesson groups are comprised mostly of women and you'll be in the limelight. Let me say that you don't have to become an expert. Basic skills will get you by because most of the girls you'll be playing later won't be that good either.
I would suggest playing at public tennis courts. You'll see more of a variety of different women there. Tennis clubs are very expensive and you'll see the same old faces a lot.
A word about tennis attire. It would be worth it to invest in some nice pro-type tennis wear. It will make you look like a tennis pro and these outfits really turn some women on.
In conclusion, I want to tell you about a device to use to attract women and makes you popular. When you play tennis always bring a large jug filled with lemonade, kool-aid, or Gator-Aide. Also, you can even bring a small ice chest filled with cokes. All you have to do is ask a woman on the court, "Would you like something cold to drink?" After you've worked up a sweat or if it's a hot day, something cold to drink really hits the spot and is hard to turn down.
Well, winter is upon us now and you know what that means don't you? It's time to crank up the fireplace to seduce women. A cozy fireplace with a roaring fire and soft romantic music in the background will just melt a woman's heart. Women get turned on by fireplaces. They think it is so romantic.
So, if you have a fireplace be sure to use this as one of your tools for seduction. Here are some suggestions:
1. Spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace and have a picnic.
2. Sip wine or champagne in front of the fireplace.
4. Make out in front of the fireplace.
5. Watch a romantic movie together with the fireplace going. I would suggest renting, "Body Heat."
If the girl is working, like a waitress, receptionist, salesgirl, etc. several different situations can occur. First, if she is not busy or occupied with someone else, you can use a fairly basic approach, like, "Hi! looks like you have time on your hands! Aren't you usually busy this time of day?"
Then after she replies, you can get right down to business. Say, "You know, when I was walking past, I noticed you, and I decided I’d like to meet you. My name is. ..., what's yours?" If the girl has a co-worker nearby, within earshot, don't worry - just proceed as if they weren't there.
If she is busy, and you can't get to talk to her without other customers hearing, about the best thing you can do is say, "I'd like to see you later. Would that be possible? What would be a good time?" Then the girl won't be too embarrassed, since the customer doesn't know whether you already know her or not. A date can be made then, or later.
If she is busy, but there are no strangers within earshot, you can ask her name and introduce yourself, and ask her if she is busy later. This is suitable with waitresses, receptionists, office workers and some others. A date can be made then, or later.
In both cases mentioned (with the girl busy), if she should say "No," you should be a little persistent.
You should say, "Oh! Come on now. I only want to talk to you for a minute or two. You can't be that busy, all the time." Her "No" may have been a knee jerk reaction, because you took her by surprise. She will usually relent, unless she has a strong feeling about not wanting to meet you.
A friend once told us that just as he was getting into the checkout line at a grocery store, an attractive girl walked by him on her way to the produce section. She got in line directly behind him with one banana in her hand. He did not look at her until his food was being checked through.
He looked at the girl and said, "One banana?"
She shrugged her shoulders, not really giving an explanation, as she found herself on the spot.
Just then, the attractive checkout girl said, "Will that be all for you?"
He looked at the checkout girls and said, "No." Then, looking at the girl behind him, he picked up the banana, put it on the scale, and said, "Let me get that for you."
The checkout girl rang it into his total, and he paid the bill. The checkout girls were in stitches at the spontaneity of the event. The girl was stammering at such an unexpected gesture. Even a young woman back in line was watching and laughing with approval of someone being so friendly, witty, and original. At this point, our friend turned to accept the girl's thanks, then turned back to the checkout girl and gave her a smile, acknowledged the young woman's verbal appreciation of his gallantry, and finally, gathered his groceries to make a slow exit, so no one would think that he was trying to chase down the girl with the banana to put the hustle on her.
He got three girls' undivided attention and interest, and it cost him a total of 13 cents. A spontaneous action that told three girls that he is an interesting, clever person that they would like to meet.
1. "What do your parents think about you dancing?" If either parent is against her dancing be sure and take sides with her and defend her occupation as a topless dancer.
2. "What kind of man turns you on?"
3. "Do you ever get burnt out on dancing?"
4. "Do you have any hobbies?"
5. "Do you do any modeling?"
6. "Have you been on any out-of-town trips lately?"
7. (After she does a dance for you), "Did you get turned on as much as I did?"
8. Compliment her eyelashes, nose, ears, lips, eyes, legs, dimples, or fingernails.
9. "Do you know any good jokes?"
10. "Did you ever dream that you'd become a dancer?"
This is an overlooked place to meet women. These places are just crawling with women. With a little confidence, this is an excellent place to approach women. Here's some examples of approaches to use: Hang around the meat section and when you see a woman you'd like to meet, approach her and ask her, "How long do you broil chicken?" Then you can follow up with, "Gee, I wish I knew how to cook. How did you learn to cook? Did your mother teach you?" The main objective is to get a conversation going and see if she'd like to get together sometime. Another good place for the approach is in the produce department. Just pick out the vegetable of your choice and ask her how to cook it.
All the situations so far mentioned have been one on one. That is, a man's approaching a girl. But often the girl you want to pick up may be accompanied by another girl. This has both disadvantages and advantages. The disadvantage is that it may make you feel more self-conscious with the other person listening to your approach. You must learn to ignore this distraction. The advantage is that the girl you are attempting to pick up will be much more at ease if she is not alone in your company.
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If you are with another man it usually makes it a little easier to approach a girl (or girls). This is particularly workable in places like boardwalks, piers, carnivals, or in any type of hangout, where people go for the specific purpose of leisure. In these situations everyone tends to be more relaxed. They usually stroll along quite slowly, stopping here and there, looking at things. The opportunity for mingling is very good in these circumstances. Having a buddy along gives a little moral support, but going solo is no great problem either. The opening lines used should be similar to other situations: Comments on an interesting observation, requests for help and invitations to join, etc. Kidding around can be used very effectively as a means of breaking the ice in these places.
A very effective tactic for two or more men to pick up girls on a boardwalk, street, etc. (in a leisurely situation) is for the men to fall in behind the girls as they stroll along. They then can make playful remarks to the girls, or to each other, loud enough for the girls to hear them. The girls will usually join in the fun, and the men can invite the girls to join them, to walk along with them.
