How to Get More Love and Romance

This week I want to focus on your own personal methods of meeting and attracting single women for love and romance.

I know it's a jungle out there in the dating world and at times you just feel like giving up on the dating game. Sometimes your fear of failure holds you back and you don't do a damn thing to improve your love life.

If you're in a dating rut, let me suggest some ways to get you back on track and get the love and romance in your life that you deserve:

1. The most important thing you can do is to force yourself to take action and follow through on meeting and approaching women.

2. It's very important to monitor your results and progress. Keep track of what methods you are using to meet new women and notice if they are working or not. I would suggest keeping a journal and put it in writing.

3. Whatever you do, don't feel sorry for yourself if what you're doing is not working. Don't give up hope and drop out of the dating game.

4. My last suggestion is the most important of all. If what you're doing to meet single women and find romance is not working, try something else. And if that doesn't work, Don, what do I do? Try something else! You just keep trying until you finally succeed. And trust me guys, if you're persistent and take action, backed with faith and belief, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams. Guaranteed!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Places to Meet Single Women

This week I would like to pass along some tips on meeting single women from some of our subscribers from the Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter:

First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single (<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet single women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning Spas - Women are their biggest clienteles, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

The Local Theater or Youth Theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to.

The Youth Theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

I'm DJ and I discovered that the best place to meet single women is the big bookstores with coffee shops. Like Barnes and Nobles or Books-a-Million. You can casually look around and pick out good-looking women. about 80% of the time, women go to bookstores alone! Their minds are open to creative things. Women respond very well to strangers coming up to them and starting casual conversation. Anything from, are you interested in that subject too, to, I think your really cute, want to go out for coffee some time? I'm running a 90% success rate at getting numbers from women at bookstores. That is a lot better than the grocery store, the club, or a shopping mall. Which I average about 60%

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great System for Meeting Single Women

This week I would like to share my secrets on taking action to approach single women that you are interested in meeting and getting to know on an intimate basis.

I'm sure this has probably happened to you. You see a gorgeous woman that you'd give anything to meet and get to know. All you've got to do is approach her and introduce yourself. But, something holds you back. You procrastinate and put it off. Then, before you know it, she disappears and you've lost your opportunity to meet her because you didn't act fast enough.

There's a good solution to this problem of not taking action if you will do what I did to overcome procrastination when it came to approaching single women immediately that I was attracted to. Follow these steps and you will be much more successful with women:

The secret to getting things done is taking action. And you need to take action immediately when you see an opportunity to meet women that you are attracted to. You must not stall, ponder, and worry about if she will accept your advances. You've got to approach her then and there or you may have lost a golden opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true.

And to motivate yourself to take action you need to ingrain in your subconscious mind these three words, DO IT NOW! You need to program your subconscious mind to react to these words that you repeat to yourself which will direct your conscious mind to take action to meet women.

Repeat in your mind, DO IT NOW! And then follow up by approaching women immediately! With practice, you will develop the habit of approaching women right on the spot without hesitation. But, I must warn you that you've got to back up these words when you say, DO IT NOW! You've got to do it! If you don't, these words will be meaningless.

Trust me guys, this system works. Memorize these words, DO IT NOW! They can do wonders for your love life. Once you train you mind to approach women immediately after saying to yourself, DO IT NOW!, meeting single women will be so much easier.

It will become automatic. No more mulling over and over in your mind if you should approach that hot & sexy beautiful woman that you are attracted to. You just take action and do it after you say to yourself, DO IT NOW!

In closing, I would highly recommend that you write in big bold letters on the back of a business card, DO IT NOW! Put these cards where you will see them daily. Put one on your desk, tape one to your bathroom mirror, put one on your nightstand, tape one to your car visor or middle of your steering wheel, etc.

By seeing these three words constantly you can connect them in your mind to taking immediate action to approach and meet single women. Also, I recommend that when you see these three words that you visualize yourself approaching and meeting women.

Ok, the rest if up to you. I've given you a great system to get you up off your ass to take action to approach and meet single women. Try this system and I'd love to hear about your success stories after using the DO IT NOW! System.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

17 Great Places to Take a Date

This week I want to pass along to you some unique dating ideas to make a great impression on women:

1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.

5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a dancer over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

7. DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

9. HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.

10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.

11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

12. ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Make a Good Impression on Single Women

Here's a tip that will help you to make a good impression on single women that you are dating:

A lot of women take pride in decorating and furnishing their apartment or home. Just the opposite of a lot of single men. A lot of single men's apartments and houses are simple and plainly furnished with not many decorations such as pictures, plants, vases, nice wallpaper, elegant furniture, flowers, silk plants, curtains, etc.

The point I'm trying to make here is that the things that she has in her apartment or house are very important to her. By knowing this, you can use this to your advantage. Let me explain how:

As soon as you step into her apartment or house, look around for something to compliment her on such as:

• "I really love this picture - you really have good artistic taste."
• "I really love your couch - it really blends in well with the rest of your furnishings."
• "Your apartment really looks nice. Are you an interior decorator?"
• "Where did you get those lovely plants? They really brighten up the place."
• "Did you pick out those curtains - they really look nice."

She will really appreciate your compliments directed towards the things that are near and dear to her in her environment.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Understand Single Women

Do you sometimes have a hard time understanding single women? How they act and how they think? Does it sometimes seem like they are from another planet?

Well, let me give you some advice to help you out in understanding single women and people in general.

The first mistake you're making is expecting her to think like you and be like you. You expect her to see the world as you do. This is a big mistake! She will never be like you or think like you. She will not be a clone of you.

We are all unique individuals and not alike. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all-alike and thought alike. We all have different opinions of things and see the world differently based upon our upbringing, experiences, knowledge, etc.

And don't make the mistake of trying to change a woman that you are dating into someone like yourself. Sorry, it just won't happen. Accept her unconditionally with her faults and all.

People are resistant to change and if you're constantly trying to change her, you are just going to end up alienating her.

So in closing, remember this: Any woman you meet will not exactly think like you and be like you. If you can accept this statement it will go a long way in helping you to understand women and people in general.

P.S. I'm sure that you've heard the old saying that opposites attract. Well, I don't agree with this. If you don't have a lot in common, I think that this hurts a relationship. You need to share common interests and if you disagree on everything, all this does is create friction and is detrimental to creating a loving, harmonious, and long term relationship.

If you have ever been in a relationship in which you have nothing in common, I sure you can relate to this. All you do is fight and disagree all the time. It's just not worth it and this sure is no way to be happy. Don't you agree? Things go so much smoother when you are compatible.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How Watching Sports can Ruin Your Dating Life

This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"

Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports Potato" is a guy who spends all of his time watching sports on TV. He literally spends his whole weekend watching sports on TV.

So what does this have to do with succeeding with women? A whole lot and I'll explain why:

Let's face it guys, most single women are not obsessed with sports and they don't spend their weekends on the couch watching sports on TV.

When you first start dating she might not mind or rather I should say, put up with you wanting to spend all your time watching sports. But, eventually and sooner than you think, she's going to get pissed at you wanting to spend all your time watching sports instead of spending quality time with her.

This conflict of interest could even cause her to dump you and find someone else who can fulfill her needs that you are neglecting.

So, what's the solution if you refuse to change your habits? Try to find a woman who is just as obsessed with sports as you are? (Good luck on this one).

Or, the smart thing to do is to cut back on watching sports and spend more time taking her places and spending quality time with her. I'm not suggesting that you give up your interest in sports. Just balance your time to include her. That's all.

There's another drawback for men when they are watching sports on TV that turns women off. Men don't want to be bothered when they are watching sports and if a woman tries to talk to them, they don't listen very well or not at all. And this upsets women when you ignore them and don't listen to them.

What would be ideal is to be dating a woman who is understanding and accepts the fact that some men are obsessed with sports. After all it's no different in women being obsessed with watching soap operas. If you try to talk to them while they are trying to watch their soap opera, they won't be listening to you while you're trying to talk to them and they really don't want to be bothered.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com