How to Talk to Women Using Good Speech Delivery

Speech Delivery When Talking to Women

Don't talk too fast. When feeling the emotional pressures of talking with a strange girl, men sometimes become a little flustered and excited. They speak carelessly, too fast, blurring their words. Your words should be spoken clearly and at a leisurely pace. You should be continually on guard for this.

Watch and listen to someone who speaks well, either in real life or a professional performer on TV, or in a play or film. Delivery is improved by dramatic emphasizing of words and phrases. It is very effective to pause after a statement, to allow your words to be digested, even though it feels more natural to rush on to your next statement. This requires some discipline on the part of the speaker.

Another effective feature of speaking is the upbeat sentence ending. You sound much more positive and dynamic if your voice rises in tone and sharpens in tempo at .the end of important sentences. By contrast, if your sentence drops in tone at the end, and trails off, the effect is one of indecision and vagueness.

The upbeat tone tends to urge your listener on to agree with you. It is like adding an imperative "Come on!" to the end of your sentence. You can practice speaking some sentences out loud and hear this effect.

Try to improve your speech as much as possible. A well-paced speech style is always much more effective than a hurried, nervous one. P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book called, "How to Talk to Women."

Great Pick Up Lines to Meet Women in Museums

Museum Pick Up Lines to Use on Women

Museum Pick-Up Lines - What a great place to meet cultured women with an appreciation for the arts. So, head for your local art museums and try some of these conversation starters and best pick up lines to use on women:

"Doesn't it seem like all these paintings look alike?"

Stand in front of a painting and when a woman comes up, make a comment on the painting. Then say, "Would you mind if I tour the gallery with you?"

"Your pretty face sure would make a beautiful painting."

"See that painting? I'd buy it for you if I had a million dollars."

"You know, I keep seeing a portrait of you and me meeting for a cup of coffee. Can we meet somewhere tomorrow?"

"Have you ever posed nude?"

Stand in front of a painting and comment to women, "Do you understand what the artist is trying to say with his paintbrush in this painting?"

"I would love to draw you. Would you pose for me? Then set up a date and bring a note pad and pencil and draw her. Don't know how to draw? Just fake it and you both can have a good laugh when you show her your finished work.

Old Men That are Dating Younger Women

The trend of old men dating younger women by Javedpk

There was a time when dating was considered as an immoral thing but now the era has changed and it is considered as the need of the time. People do what their heart says. Heart is given privileged over the mind as it guides through the passage of love and that is what a person desires. According to their own desire, it is usually seen that most of the old men do not try to find the date of their age mate but they go for the younger girls who can give them a reminder of their previous years they have passed as golden period of their lifetime.

Research has revealed that this is not only the case with men. Even young girls try to seek the company of older men who can guide them perfectly and take a good care of them. This task of finding the partner of your own choice has been made easy by the arrival of online dating websites where you can find your desired partner in a nice and easy manner. For the sake of dating, you do not have to dress up properly. You can just switch on your computer and you can have a date with your loved one. The ease with which a person can find his date online has revealed many things including the choices of youngsters. On the basis of the results of different surveys that were conducted by such websites, it is said that mostly couples having younger girl and old men enjoy good time as compared to age mates.

People find it really awful if they get to know about a marriage in which a 20 years girl has married to a man of 40 years age. But this is a fact that girls find old men more attractive as compared to their age mates and it has been seen that in most of the cases such couples live a pretty happy life. Hence, it will be unwise to say that this is an unhealthy trend. The youth body and charming looks of a young woman also attracts the older men and that’s why they love to find a young lady. Hence as a result of their mating, a strong relationship can be built that is long lasting and is sincere. However some cases can give deviating results also.

Tips for Men on Meeting Women Through the Personals

Listen to That Little Voice Inside You

Everyone has a little inner voice that tells them when something just doesn't seem right and warns them to beware. Listen to your little inner voice and act accordingly. If you call to respond to an ad and you don't feel comfortable with the person on the other end of the phone, hang up. Do not let yourself be pressured or cajoled into meeting someone that you feel uneasy with. If you go to meet someone and you don't like or trust them, make up an excuse, any excuse, and leave.

Meeting people through personal ads is no more or less risky than meeting people any other way. It may even be safer. Consider this:

If you answer an ad, the publication should have the information from the person who placed the ad: name, address, phone number, credit card number, etc. Yes, they could have made up false information, but it isn't likely.

You should always ask anyone that you are going to meet through a personal ad for their phone number. Find an excuse to call them before you meet them. If you call the number that they gave you and the person who answers the phone has never heard of the person that you are supposed to meet, that is probably a warning that you should heed. They may have given you the wrong number by accident, you may have written the number down wrong, or you may have dialed the wrong number. Listen to that inner voice.

If you place an ad, the person that responds usually gives you a phone number that you call to contact them the first time. Whether you placed the ad or are responding to an ad, you should at least have some information about them that is accurate even if everything else that they tell you is a lie.

The people that you meet through the personal ads are no more or less honest than the general public. Depending upon how cynical or optimistic you are, that may or may not be a very comforting thought. This article is an excerpt from our publication, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

Advice for Men on Meeting Women Using the Personals

Advice About Meeting Women Using the Personals

Everyone has a little inner voice that tells them when something just doesn't seem right and warns them to beware. Listen to your little inner voice and act accordingly. If you call to respond to an ad and you don't feel comfortable with the person on the other end of the phone, hang up. Do not let yourself be pressured or cajoled into meeting someone that you feel uneasy with. If you go to meet someone and you don't like or trust them, make up an excuse, any excuse, and leave.

Meeting people through personal ads is no more or less risky than meeting people any other way. It may even be safer. Consider this:

You should always ask anyone that you are going to meet through a personal ad for their phone number. Find an excuse to call them before you meet them. If you call the number that they gave you and the person who answers the phone has never heard of the person that you are supposed to meet, that is probably a warning that you should heed. They may have given you the wrong number by accident, you may have written the number down wrong, or you may have dialed the wrong number. Listen to that inner voice.

If you place an ad, the person that responds usually gives you a phone number that you call to contact them the first time. Whether you placed the ad or are responding to an ad, you should at least have some information about them that is accurate even if everything else that they tell you is a lie.

The people that you meet through the personal ads are no more or less honest than the general public. Depending upon how cynical or optimistic you are, that may or may not be a very comforting thought.

How to Meet Women on a Bus or Train

How to Meet Women Using Transportation

If you commute by train, bus, plane, subways, etc., there's going to be golden opportunities to meet women. These places are filled with eligible, pretty women.

The whole trick to meeting them is to make it a point to take a seat next to them. This way you've got her pinned in and she's not going anywhere unless you scare her off. If you're on a train or plane, she doesn't have much choice.

All you've got to do when sitting next to her is to just start talking to her. Talk to her about anything and turn on that charm of yours.

If you take a bus or train to work or school, pick out any female riders you'd like to meet. Select one and make it a point to sit near or close to her. Do this each time you see her and after seeing you a few times you'll practically be old friends, even if you haven't spoken to each other.

Advice for Men on Dating After 40

Dating After the Age of Forty By Tammy M Fletcher

"I'm single again and I don't remember how to go on a date!"

"We spent the whole dinner talking about my ex-husband and his late wife. Needless to say, we didn't exactly spark."

"What do women want these days? I haven't dated since 1985!"

Sound familiar? If you are over 40 and find yourself in the dating pool again, it might feel like you can't remember even how to dog paddle in the shallow end. Baggage, history, exes, kids....how can you wade through all this to find a connection with a new love interest? Here are some do's and don'ts to help you navigate unfamiliar waters:

DO:

* Show an interest in your date. Ask about her work, or about his hobbies. Movies, books, music, travel, food - all are great icebreaker topics and a way to get to know the person you are spending time with.

* Give your undivided attention. Put the iPhone on vibrate, resist the temptation to update your Facebook status while waiting for the appetizer to arrive ("Having a great first date!"), make eye contact, and listen.

* Put your expectations aside and enjoy yourself. Even if there is no love connection right away, look at the date as a chance to get to know someone new and have fun.

* Leave your baggage at the door. A date is a fresh chance to meet someone, get to know them, and spend a pleasant time together. We all have baggage, but there is no need to bring it along to weigh down your time together.

DON'T:

* Spend the date talking about your ex. Whether you are sharing the scoop on why the relationship fell apart and all the ways you were done wrong, or describing your ex in glowing terms, this time is about you and your date.

* Expect a love connection on the first date. Expectations create static in your thoughts that can distract you from having a good time. Be in the moment and see how things unfold.

* Feel pressured to move any faster than you feel comfortable with. Even a first kiss may feel like you are rushing things. When the moment is right to move things along, you'll know. Remember when you were young and holding hands for the first time made you feel giddy with excitement? There is something to be said for taking it slow.

* Feel like damaged goods because you are divorced, older, or have experienced pain or sadness. Your life experiences have made you who you are today.

The most important thing to remember is - if you feel good about yourself, it will come across to everyone you meet. Dating is a fun way to explore new relationships, but it is not the ultimate goal in your newly single life.

Tammy Fletcher, M.A., IMF, CFT works with individuals and couples in the San Diego area. Her website is http://www.fletchertherapy.com.

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