I just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year filled with lots of love, romance, happiness, good health, and abundant blessings...your friend, Don Diebel

If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and She Ignores Me, It's Because I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.

This irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces low self-esteem when they are rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned down prevents shy men from making contact with single women.

If you're turned down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or not good enough for her. She just may not feel like dancing at the moment. She may just be tired. She may not even dance. There can be a number of reasons. So don't take it personally. However, what to do in a case like this is to use this pick up line to ask her, "Would you like to dance later?" If she says yes, just ask her again later. Even better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for some conversation?" In the mean time just ask other women to dance.

Also, I might add, a lot of guys get turned down to dance, so don't feel that you're the only man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even real good-looking men.

If you approach a woman and try to start up a conversation and she ignores you, don't take that personally either. She just may not feel like talking or being bothered. Perhaps she's tied down to a boyfriend or even married. Also, you just might not be using the proper social skills.

So if she ignores you, move on to the next single woman and you'll find someone who will respond to your advances.

TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your body.

However, there's one way that fitness can backfire on you and actually cause women to lose interest in you. Let me explain...if you are an exercise freak and your whole life revolves around body building and all you can talk about is your body and exercising, this can turn off women who don't share your enthusiasm. Due to your obsession with yourself, they may even think you are self-centered and stuck on yourself.

All I'm saying is you can have a nice body, but focus all your attention on the woman you're with. Your body will speak for itself, you don't have to constantly call attention to it. You don't have to cram your exercising and fitness lifestyle down a woman's throat unless you both are consumed with fitness.

TIP #2 - Keep your fingernails and toenails short and clean. Women
notice things like dirty or long fingernails and toenails. It may surprise you, but a woman may not even date you because of unsightly fingernails or toenails.

TIP #3 - If you have gray or graying hair, leave it alone! Don't dye it or cover it up! Most single women are very attracted to men with gray or graying hair. They think it looks sexy and distinguished.

TIP #4 - If you have a moustache, be sure and keep it short and neatly trimmed. Women are turned off by long moustaches that invade their nostrils during kissing. Also, keep it clean and don't let it collect food.

TIP #5 - Here's another problem that can turn some single women off.
It's your nose hair and ear hair. As you get older these hairs grow like a weed and can become unsightly to some women. Trim your nose hairs and when you get a hair cut and have your stylist clip the hair out of your ears.

In closing, be aware that single women notice little things about your appearance that you may not even be aware of or things you may not consider important. The name of the game is attracting sexy single women and you certainly don't want them to be turned off by some flaw in your looks which you can easily correct.

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When it comes to placing or answering a personal ad I don't think that there is an advantage or disadvantage to having or not having children. Some people, even those without children, prefer to date people who have children. Some people are neutral. Others would never consider dating someone with children.

If you have children, you should mention that fact and the relevant details as early as possible. If the fact that you do or do not have children matters to someone else, you might as well find out as soon as possible. If you are placing an ad, I think that you should state in the ad that you have children. There are many ways to say that you have kids. I see "active mom" or "custodial dad" frequently used.

I think that it is smart to tell the ages of the children and mention any special circumstances such as if the other parent has custody, whether a child has special needs, or that your children are grown up and gone. Things like that can make a difference one way or the other.

If you don't want to date someone who has children, don't say, "I hate kids." Use a bit of tact and say something like, "I prefer to date a man (or woman) without children." It will eliminate many people who have a lot of the other characteristics that you seek. But, if you really don't want to date someone who has children, especially if you really can't stand children, clearly state your preference. If you're one of those who are neutral on the issue, discuss your ambivalence if someone responds who sounds interesting and has children. You might find that you love children after all.

There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is, "Would you like to go out with me?" By saying this:

You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.

You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.

You imply a formal date. You are making a move on her. The pressure is on her.

If she says "no," you are never sure whether to ask her again for another time. Was it, "No, I don't want to go out with you," or "No, I want to go out with you but I'm busy that night."

You literally sound like a junior high kid asking a girl out on his first date.

The right way to ask a single girl out is, "Let's get together and do something sometime." Memorize these words. By saying this, you give an impression of a casual meeting. No big deal. Friends getting to know each other. Not a formal date. If you say this, her response will let you know whether she wants to date you or not.

If she is interested, she will respond in the positive, but also her tone will be positive. The expression on her face will be positive. She may even lead the conversation to making a specific time to do something. If you do get a positive response, you can either pursue the conversation and arrange to meet on a casual date or leave it until the next time you meet. You know she wants to get together and she will be waiting, now that you have teased her with talk of a date but offered no specific plans. You are being elusive and playing hard to get. Her anticipation works in your favor.

If she does not want to go out with you, her verbal response may be "no" or it may even be "yes" to save your feelings, but her tone, her facial expression, and her desire to drop the subject will let you know she is not interested. Don't pursue it further.

The beauty of this exact phrase is:

You are not set up for rejection. After all, you have not really asked her out. You've made a statement. You are throwing out an offer. The implication is that you are doing her a favor. She is not doing you a favor by going out with you.

It implies a casual get-together to get to know each other, not a formal date.

You know for sure whether she wants to date you or not.

You aren't asking her. You are making a statement which says something about you. You are the type of person that likes to do things with friends, and of course she would like to participate. After all, there is no pressure. You are a confident, friendly, fun-loving person who is doing things.

Now re-read that phrase. "Let's get together and do something sometime." See how much better it is than asking a question that may get you a wrong answer? Wouldn't you agree? I consider this article one of my best dating tips for guys.

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The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.
So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look."
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Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate warmth towards you.
So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance, sex, or a relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket!

I want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and may 2010 be your best year ever for love, romance, happiness, good health, and abundant blessings...take care...Don Diebel.

The most successful men I have observed, were successful because they had the ability, the perception, the sixth sense to know when to be hard with a woman and when to be soft. They understood a woman's wants, needs, desires and motivations. When a woman needed to be loved and cared for, she was. When a woman needed to be put in her place, she was. And throughout it all these men were loved for this ability. This perception of a woman's needs and the ability to deal with those needs is far more an art than a science, but it is something that every man can master.

I have found that women fully expect a man to be a master of the art of understanding a woman's needs. Women expect a man to know exactly what to do in every situation. After all, "Humphrey Bogart" knew how and you should too. And if you aren't perfect, if you don't know exactly the right thing to do, you are being judged. And one of the truly unfair things in life is that there is no defense for failure. It's part of filling the man's role and that's that.

So where do you learn this art if you aren't born with it? How do you learn where on the spectrum to be for any one situation? We learn from women. But, what women do and what women say has been confusing men for centuries. This book is meant to translate female behavior so that with an understanding of women, you can master the art of dealing successfully with them.

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A very important time for making beneficial changes in your love life and relationships with single women is coming up. And it will be a golden opportunity to turn your love life around.

What is this special time? It's the upcoming New Year 2010. This is the perfect time to make resolutions for the New Year to make changes and make commitments to meeting, dating, and seducing more single women.

As the New Year approaches, reflect upon the changes you would like to make. Here are some suggestions:

Take a long hard look in your closet. Is it full of old and out of style clothes and faded and worn out pants and shirts? Well, make a commitment to buy some new, up-to-date, and stylish clothes. Don't know what to buy? Just go to your better department stores and ask your sales clerks (preferably a female) to help you pick out some clothes.

Tell them you want some stylish clothes that would look good on you and clothes that single women would be attracted to.

Maybe it's time to try a new hairstyle. Find the best hair boutique in town you can find. Make an appointment with their very best hair stylist and don't be concerned about how much they charge, because this is an investment in your looks, which will help you attract single women. Tell her you want a new look and ask for her opinion.
While you're waiting for your appointment, you can look through their hairstyle magazines for some ideas. If she's a top-notch hair stylist, she will be able to pick out a hairstyle, which will make you look your best.

Are you driving an old clunker for transportation? Or even worse, a station wagon or an old folk's car such as a Buick or Oldsmobile? Maybe it's time for a new or slightly used sports car. Something that will attract single women. I just can't begin to tell you how much I improved my love and sex life when I bought a Corvette and got rid of my old Dodge Colt.

Another good choice would be a luxury car such as a Lexus, if you could afford it.

And last and most important is to make a commitment to get off your ass and start meeting some new single women instead of just staying cooped up at home whining and bitching about how lonely and horny you are and how there are no single women around to meet. You've got to take action to turn your love life around - Always remember that single women, as a general rule, are very passive. You're the one who has to make the first move. You've got to take the initiative to meet them!

So, what kind of changes are you going to make for the New Year?

Let me give you a few pointers if you're slow-dancing and by all means try to dance to every slow dance because of the physical contact involved.
As in fast dancing, immediately start introduction procedures. Open up by saying, "My name is ___________. What's yours?"
When slow-dancing try to hold her as close to your body as possible. Gently now! Don't squeeze her like an octopus. When moving your right leg, gently brush her inner thighs. While dancing, gently squeeze her hand and see if you get any response. If you do, continue with the next step. Start rubbing her back with your hand. At this point if she starts rubbing your shoulders, neck, or chest and starts grinding her crotch against yours, you're on your way. At this stage of the game it's time to try and kiss her. Begin kissing her neck and work your way up to behind the ear, then the ear lobe, then kiss her on the lips. If you've gotten this far, chances are you're going to score tonight, if not later for sure.
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If you have tried all these moves and you do not get any response, don't be concerned about it. Some single women are reluctant to show any affection towards a total stranger. This is quite common, so don't jump to conclusions thinking that she's cold or not interested in you.
Whatever you do, don't give up on a woman who does not respond to your physical advances while slow-dancing. Just follow up with your conversational skills and get to know her better and get her to like you. Perhaps then she will loosen up when she gets to know you a little better and becomes interested in you. If you employ good pick-up techniques, you shouldn't have any problems.

Try these pick up lines when you see a girl you would like to meet:

“I’d love to see you again. Let’s trade phone numbers.”

“I just moved into the building and I was wondering if you could recommend a good restaurant in the neighborhood. Would you like to join me?”

“I dare you to go on that roller coaster with me!” (Use this line on girls at amusement parks.)

This is always a good ice-breaker, “Have you seen (a popular movie?) Is it worth seeing?”

“I really feel a little embarrassed about this, but I just had to meet you.”

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1. Whatever you do, don't use curse words in your dining conversations. This can really turn women off and can even spoil your chances for dating her again and your potential relationship goes right down the drain.

2. Don't bring your cell phone on your dining date. You don't want any interruptions and you want to give her your undivided attention. Also, you may mistakenly think that cell phones impress women by thinking that you are a important businessman or something. The women are going to be impressed by how you treat them, not because you have a cell phone.

3. I highly recommend that you bring some dental floss and tic tacs with you on your date. After you complete your meal, excuse yourself and go to the restroom and floss your teeth and take a breath mint. The reason for this is that you don't want any food stuck on your teeth while talking to her (this can be very embarrassing and you won't even be aware of it and of course you don't want to have bad breath either.

4. Don't bore your date by constantly talking about yourself, what material possessions you have, important people you know, your fancy car, your money, etc. In other words, stay away from your ego trip, just focus on her and revolve your conversation around her and her interests.

5. Never bite your nails while you are dining.

6. Please, whatever you do, don't light up a cigar while you are eating. It will not only turn her off, but will annoy other patrons with the foul odor of a cigar.

7. Refrain from chewing gum while dining.

8. When asked how you are doing. Always reply, "I'm doing great, how about yourself?" Don't reply with how bad you are feeling or discussing any ailments.

9. If there are other people in your party, be sure and include them in your conversations. In other words, don't ignore the other people at your table, especially if they are her friends.

10. Whenever she reaches for a cigarette, be sure and light it for her.

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Tip #1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless variations. Some men need the support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in approaching and winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of thought to this while you're working, reading, traveling.
Formulate a number of possibly effective opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a pencil and paper and write them down. Practice them out loud before a mirror until you get just the phraseology which sounds most natural, smooth, spontaneous and attractive.
Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use it as if it has just occurred to you in response to this particular woman. Go out and practice it, but with the freedom and confidence to vary it imaginatively to fit every new situation and woman.
Here's a few great opening lines to use when you run across a single woman you would like to meet:
Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she says no, whatever you do, don't just walk away. Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do you mind if I join you for some conversation?"
Nightclubs with "live" music - "What do you think of the band?"
Restaurants - "This is my first time here. What's good on the menu?" Another one you could use is, "Would you like to go have a drink after dinner?"
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Beaches - "Would you like to play some Frisbee?" or "I'm going to the store, can I bring you back anything?"
Supermarkets - "Excuse me, which steak looks better to you?" or "How do you tell which one of these cantaloupes is ripe?"
Laundromats - "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're waiting for our clothes?" or "Could you tell me if I should wash these clothes in hot or cold water?"
Tip #2 - Pick out a successful Don Juan in your crowd and study his style. Don't ask him questions. He probably doesn't know himself how he does it. But try to go on "woman-hunting expeditions" with him. Go to dances, parties, the beach, with him. Try to arrange some double dates together.
Take advantage of every opportunity to watch him in action and study intensively, remember, rehearse in your own mind, every line and gesture in his technique with single women.

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No More Just Friends...

Are you always the friend, never the lover? As soon you become close to a single woman, she finds another guy to be her boyfriend?

It's easy to change "just friends" into much, much more. Simply stop waiting around for the woman to make the first move. Let your close single woman friend(s) know that you want more from your relationship (for example: seduction, intimacy, romance!). Put the idea into her head that you want to be intimate.

You have to stop spending lots of time with women, becoming close, sharing secrets, being the confidante, but not getting what YOU want.

Okay, you have the woman in mind. You're ready to make the change. It's time to surprise her. If you usually get together at the local pizzeria, invite her out for a cozy dinner at a real restaurant. If she usually comes over to your house to talk about her problems, when she gets there, make sure you have some sensuous music on,
candlelight, and a bottle of wine nearby.

Be assertive; make sure this woman knows what's available right in front of her eyes before she starts searching for the next "bad boy" who'll break her heart. No more "Mr. Nice Guy." This time, you're going to be someone's lover. Go for it!

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TIP #1 - Single women go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious. Keep this in mind and never act serious on the first few dates. If you try to get serious, sexual, and romantic and want to make love too soon, you will only drive women away.

TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things slightly different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at your place, have a candlelit dinner with fresh flowers on the table. Go to see classic films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other words, try to set yourself apart from all of the other guys and create ideas for a fun date.

It's easy to tell what she is used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to dinner, to a party. So avoid the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is used to. She will remember it. Our manual, "100 Places to Take A Date" will give you some great ideas on where to take a date to really impress her.

TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating, it is important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you "...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is getting late and..."

This is going to surprise her because most guys hang on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed for some hot passionate sex with her.

By ending the date before she does, you:

1. Set yourself apart from other guys.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
3. Make yourself hard to get.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must
be other single girls in your life and she is going to have to work
harder to catch you.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

These sure-fire pick-up lines can be used successfully on any woman, anywhere, and everywhere you see hot single women you are attracted to:

1. “You know, if I could rewrite the alphabet, I would put U and I together.”
2. “Excuse me, but I think I might have once been married to you in a previous life.”
3. “Hi!” (This is the world’s greatest pick-up line.)
4. “You’re just the person I’ve been saving this seat for.”
5. “I’ll bet you I can raise your blood pressure!”

Try these conversation starters to help you learn how to talk to a girl.

Are you confused on where to take a date? Here are 10 great dating ideas on where to take a date to really impress her and make her want to date you again.

1. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bag.
2. CANOEING -This is a great way to get next to Mother Nature. It's so relaxing and a good way to escape the pressures of city life. You can even rent a canoe if you don't own one.
3. CAR RACES -This is a thrilling experience to share with another and offers the thrills and spills of competitive car racing.
4. CARRIAGE RIDES -This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.
5. CIRCUS -Everybody loves the circus and makes for a great fun date.
6. COLLEGE SPORTING EVENT - Have you ever been to a college sporting event? It's just as much fun as watching professional sports. The crowds provide a lot of excitement and enthusiasm.
7. COMEDY CLUBS -I think everyone should make a date to go to a comedy club at least once a month. Laughing is so good for you and it's a lot of fun.
8. COOKING CLASSES -Most women like to cook and it would be a fun experience to learn some new recipes.
9. CRUISES -If there are any cruises in your area (riverboat, dinner cruises, yacht cruises, gambling cruises, sunset cruises, or just any kind of a cruise) don't pass up this opportunity for one of the best ways to impress a date.
10. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE -Back in my old dating days, one of my favorite things to do was to invite a date over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I would do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really made my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

Guy, try these fun things to do on a date. I'm sure she will be really impressed.

TIP #1 - Single women go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious. Keep this in mind and never act serious on the first few dates. If you try to get serious, sexual, and romantic too soon, you will only drive women away.

TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things slightly different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at your place, have a candlelit dinner with fresh flowers on the table. Go to see classic films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other words, try to set yourself apart from all of the other guys.

It's easy to tell what she is used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to dinner, to a party. So avoid the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is used to. She will remember it.

TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating, it is important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you "...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is getting late and..."

This is going to surprise her because most guys hang on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed for some hot passionate sex with her.

By ending the date before she does, you:

1. Set yourself apart from other guys.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
3. Make yourself hard to get.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must
be other single girls in your life and she is going to have to work
harder to catch you.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

I want to alert you to a certain type of single woman that can cause you relationship problems. I call this type of woman, "The Commitaphobic." Let me describe The Commitaphobic to you:

The Commitaphobic single woman is confused. She really has little idea of what she wants from a relationship, and often breaks up and then comes back only to break up again. She hates being alone, but likewise is incapable of making a solid commitment.

There is nothing wrong, or evil about her, she is simply undecided as to what part she wants you to play in her future. She is happy to "coast" along, for months or even years if you let her, but as soon as you do or say anything that looks like tying her down, she runs a mile, only to come back and ask for one more chance.

The problem here develops when you keep taking her back. This tells her that she can treat you like a door mat, come and go as she pleases, and only ever give you dribs and drabs of her love. The longer and longer it goes on the less she understands what, or who it is she wants in her life, if anyone.

The only possible solution is to not take her back next time she leaves. That way she can get the experience she needs with other people to eventually come to a decision about the kind of person she can really commit to. If you aren't it, then it's better to know now rather than after she's taken years of your youth. Years that in the meantime you can use to find someone who does know what they want.

Please share your experiences with this type of women to the readers of this blog...Thanks...Don

I hope you are enjoying your holiday season with your family and friends. I would like to tell you about a friend of mine who is having some problems dealing with the holidays and I would hope that you don't fall into this rut.

My friend mistakenly thinks that if you don't have a girlfriend to share the holidays with that life doesn't have much meaning during this time. Nothing could be farther from the truth. This is a time to spend with and share with your family, relatives, friends and loved ones. Focus on the joy of this special time of the season and not get depressed because you don't have a girlfriend.

Just be patient and I can assure you my friend, if you will just take my advice and use my dating tips on how to succeed with women, your love life and sex life will dramatically change in 2010. I guarantee it!

First of all, I’d like to say that we were all put on this earth for a reason and purpose. I feel that I was put on this earth to help men succeed with women. Let's face it guys...It's a jungle out there in the dating world for men now and for many men, the search for love, sex, and romance continues to be frustrating, unfulfilling, lonely, and heart breaking.

Also, their fear of rejection, lack of confidence, shyness, and fear of catching AIDS, herpes, and venereal diseases creates what seems like insurmountable obstacles to meeting women. And for those men who actually do go on dates, many of them never even get to first base with women.

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