Many men feel very uncomfortable when approaching women. You're going to have to resolve here and now to put away all your shy ways, fear of rejection, and the other restrictive barriers that keep you from meeting women that you are attracted to. You must assume responsibility for making social contact with women. No matter what technique you use to approach women and no matter how often you use these techniques, you're going to feel a certain amount of discomfort. This is only natural. You must bear the responsibility for meeting others, despite this discomfort.

If you have difficulty approaching women, try this exercise. Force yourself to meet and approach ten women each time you go a nightclub. Your goal doesn't have to be ten women. You can make it any number you desire. Make it a realistic number though. The main thing is setting that goal. This gives you something to work for and something to accomplish. Look upon this exercise as just practice. Practice for building your social skills for meeting women. Gradually your diffi¬culty in approaching women will disappear. Try this exercise. It really works!

One point you must remember. Most women like to be approached at nightclubs. That's what they are there for. To meet a man like yourself.

In conclusion, you must not forget to approach the waitresses also.

They are usually very pretty and friendly. Some may not even have boyfriends due to the unusual hours that they work. Always make it a point to talk to them and get to know them on a first name basis. They don't have much time to talk on the job, but after they start seeing you and talking to you and waiting on you, you'll establish a friendly rapport. Then just ask them out on their day off. You've got nothing to lose!


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