What to Say to Her Next

After you've introduced yourself to a topless dancer and exchanged names, in most social situations you can make a remark in which you do two things:

1. Pay her a compliment. Express something you like about what she is doing, wearing or saying. The feeling you seek to convey is, "I'm positive. I support you. You can relax with me."

2. Ask a question. It should be related to the compliment you just gave. Your underlying message: "I'm interested in getting to know you better." For example, you might say: "Those are beautiful earrings. Are they handcrafted?" or "You sure are a good dancer. How did you learn all those sexy moves?"