How to ask a Girl Out

Sunday, February 22, 2015 | | 0 comments »

You've chosen a girl who is interested in you. You've met her or already know her. You come now to that phase of a relationship affectionately referred to as "dating." Just as in any other phase of the relationship, you are being judged. But since you are now going to be spending hours together, the pressure is really on. We have a lot of good tips to make your dates a success:

TIP #1 - There are good ways and bad ways to ask a girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is, "Would you like to go out with me? By saying this:

1. You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
2. You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
3. You imply a formal date. You are making a move on her. The pressure is on her.
4. If she says "No."  you   are never sure whether to ask  her again  for another time. Was it, "No, I don't want to go out with you," or "No, I want to go out with you but I'm busy that night."
5. You literally sound like a junior high school kid asking a girl out on his first date.

The right way to ask a girl out is, "Let's get together and do something sometime." Memorize these words. By saying this, you give an impression of a casual meeting. No big deal. Friends getting to know each other. Not a formal date. If you say this, her response will let you know whether she wants to date you or not.