TIP #1 - Have every
detail of the date planned, but make it seem spontaneous. Try to go somewhere
familiar to you so you'll know what to expect. Even go to movies you've seen
before so you know it's a good one.
TIP #2 - End the date
before she does. Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that
you aren't going to "get lucky" this night, but you hang on till the
bitter end hoping that the chance in a million shot will come through. Wrong!
Instead you alertly perceive that the evening is still going well and is
positive, so you politely explain that you have to go, assure her that you had
a great time, and tell her you'll have to get together again. Take her home and
say, "good-night."
Most
men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough, they'll get the girl in
bed. As the evening drags on, the mood of the dates starts to drop and the girl
ends up having to announce it's time for her to go. By ending the date before
she does you surprise her and set yourself apart. You imply that you are hard
to get, and not desperate. And believe us, if the girl is interested in going
to bed, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you. So if she
hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at
her own game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.