OK,
you understand what women want. You have tailored your image accordingly. You
have chosen a woman. You have met her. You have dated her. You have romanced
her. You have made love to her. And now you are in a relationship. Finally you
can relax. Wrong!
Now
the real work begins. Previously, you were in a situation where she saw you at
your best. When you were meeting her and dating her, you made sure that your
clothes were right, you were groomed and the mood was right. Your best foot was
forward. She saw not you, but your best image. Now that the relationship has
begun, you will be together more often and she is going to see more of the real
you - your weaknesses, your insecurities, your bad habits, and if you are like
most men, you may be in real trouble.
Now,
more than ever, you are going to need imagination, spontaneity and leadership.
You are going to have to continue to romance her. You must continue to be
infinitely aware of the eight elements of what women really want and maintain
your image accordingly. You are going to have to make sure that she does not
become disenchanted with what she has. And don't forget - people are more apt
to become disenchanted with what they have, than with what they don't have.
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