If You're Really Going to Make It With a Woman, You'll Both Know It When You Meet and There Won't Be Any Problems

This is the man who is waiting for "love at first sight" to occur to initiate a relationship. Upon meeting a woman, if there are no vibrations or chemistry between them he simply dismis­ses the encounter. He uses this as a defensive excuse for initiating any intimate contact with women.

Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances. You don't have to be madly in love with a woman to show interest and to establish a friendly rapport.

Mate-Seekers

 This is my favorite type of topless dancer and the easiest to score with.  This is a topless dancer who is actively seeking a lover or boyfriend.  She's un-attached and looking for a meaningful relationship.  Maybe in the back of her mind she wants to settle down and get married and do something else for a living. 

 

Unfortunately, a topless club is not the best place in the world to look for a long-term relationship or marriage partner.  The men that frequent the topless bars can be pretty seedy characters and immature men.  Not to mention all the married men that frequent topless clubs.  Plus, topless clubs attract horny men just looking for some sex.  Of course there are some decent men who frequent topless clubs too.  But, they too may not have much respect for the dancers and think they are nothing but whores.

This type of dancer is highly desirable because she's very friendly and easy to make contact with.  You can make a very strong impression on her by making her feel special.  Treat her with respect and don't treat her like a piece of meat.  Gain her trust and treat her like a queen, and if she's attracted to you, you shouldn't have any problem getting her phone number or getting her to meet you for lunch or breakfast when she gets off work on the night shift.   Also, if you play your cards right she may even go home with you after she gets off work. P.S.  Upon meeting a topless dancer for the first time, be sure and ask her if she is single and unattached. If she says she's single and unattached, perhaps she's the mate-seeker type and this is very favorable for you.