If You're Really Going to Make It
With a Woman, You'll Both Know It When You Meet and There Won't Be
This is the man who is waiting for "love at first sight" to occur to initiate a relationship. Upon meeting a woman, if there are no vibrations or chemistry between them he simply dismisses the encounter. He uses this as a defensive excuse for initiating any intimate contact with women.
Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances. You don't have to be madly in love with a woman to show interest and to establish a friendly rapport.