Advice on Overcoming Dating Mistakes and Fear of Failure
We all make mistakes when it comes to dating and your attitude towards these dating mistakes can make or break you.
You must not regard mistakes and failures with women as serious setbacks. If you do, that's exactly what they will become. Instead, choose to look at your mistakes and failures as building blocks instead of stumbling blocks. This will give you a lot of inner strength in your pursuit of single women.
Do you actually fear that you will fail each time that you try to approach single women? If you do, you are actually setting up in your mind that you will fail and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Replace your thoughts of failure with thoughts of success. Think positive before you make your moves on single women. Picture in your minds eye that women will be receptive to your advances. Convince yourself that you are a winner with women.
Don't let your fear of failure interfere with your dating life. John W. Gardner, in his book "Self-Renewal" writes: "We pay a very heavy price for our failures. It is a very powerful obstacle to growth. It assures the progressive narrowing of personality and interferes with exploration and experimentation. There is no learning without some difficulty and fumbling. If you want to keep on learning, you must keep on risking failures all your life."
I've had tons of failures and bad experiences in my dating life. I never let them get me down. I always bounced back. Each failure was a valuable lesson to me and just made me more determined to succeed with women.
Looking back over my dating life, I cherish all my experiences good and bad. I've learned from my experiences and they have made me a better person. The ability to overcome failures builds confidence and women love a confident man.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
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