A Couple of Dating Tips to Help Men Succeed with Single Women
Here's a couple of good tips on how to succeed with women from Bob Wray the author of, "A Man's Field Guide to Women" which I sell on my website:
Tip #1 - Flowers are very powerful and loaded with meaning. They send the same message as a gift - "I'm interested." You need to be sure they will be favorably accepted before you send them. Roses are the most powerful flowers you can send. A single red rose traditionally means, "I love you." A dozen long-stemmed American Beauties (they're dark reds)? Heavy artillery. Start with a small bouquet of fresh flowers. Cost? About fifteen dollars or so. This should be saved until you are convinced that there is something going on. A nice touch is to send them to her workplace. The other girls will make a big fuss over her. Of course, it could backfire if you misread your status. She will have to explain why this guy she just met is coming on so strong, so soon - bad news for you.
Use flowers as an encouraging sign of interest after a few dates. Send them as soon as possible after seeing her, if you're going to do it. Include a simple, light note. Don't use familiar affectionate terms like "Love" just yet. The term is loaded with meaning. Something like "Thanks for a memorable evening" is just fine. Don't overwhelm her with something after every date. Save them for recognition of something special. Flowers need to be unexpected to maximize their effect. Don't mention them after sending them. You are fishing for compliments or reactions - bad form. If she wants to say something, she will. (She probably will.) Don't worry if she doesn't.
Tip #2 - We maintain several zones of personal space depending on our comfort level. We will let anyone, other than terrorists, to remain more than five feet out of range. We are effectively ignoring these people. Of course, this range may be used for distance flirting.
In a business or social setting we expect people to remain two to four feet away to maintain a comfort level. This is where you need to be in the initial stages of flirting. When signs of success are obvious and you think you are invited, you can move into the intimate zone - an arm's length or less. In general, single women will not allow anyone this close unless they are very comfortable and very interested. If you get to this point it is a very good sign. Do your best to stay here as long as possible.
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