Advice About Women Who Are Smooth Talkers

Try to Avoid Single Women Known as, "The Smooth Talker"

These women are often very difficult to spot, primarily because she is so good at using words to get what she wants. She is a vampire, disguised as the ultimate nice girl. As far as I can tell, her basic strategy is this: she wins your confidence through a series of seemingly deep conversations in which you somehow find yourself having revealed your soul, so to speak, but she has only disclosed enough intimate details about herself to make you trust her without actually knowing her at all.

Then, once she knows the sort of person you are looking for, she morphs her exterior shell of deceit into a replica of this person. Now she sets about making you love her. The more difficult the challenge the better she likes it.

If you're quick you can sometimes spot her true self lurking beneath, but whenever any such distrust arises she is extremely good at talking you round again. She'll use every trick in the book to win you over, but her chief weapon is her words. Words of unending love and devotion. Often prettily phrased. Eventually you'll be ensnared. You'll give her everything from your love, your body to your heart itself.

At this point the game is over. That's all she really wanted. Just the knowledge that you love her. She feeds off it. It boosts her ego. Now she's drunk her fill, she discards all pretence. Suddenly she's cheating on you, openly lying to you, and very soon she's dumped you, for her next victim.

To detect and avoid her, the best method is to use the word "commitment" and watch her run. However, be careful, because the really clever ones will promise you a commitment they have no intention of ever giving merely to win you over. She is identified when her words do not reflect her actions.

P.S. I never really intended to focus on the negative aspects of meeting single women for my Dating Tips of the Week. But, I feel that single men need to be exposed to the dark side of meeting the wrong type of women. I want you to be happy and be able to recognize when women may be playing head games with you.

P.P.S. - This article was sent in to me by one of my newsletter subscribers.