If you really want to know how to turn a woman on, nibble on her ear. Here's how to do it:
Advice on How to Look Good for Women
Do you need to be tall, dark, and handsome to attract and meet women? The answer may surprise you but it's a definite no. With a man, a woman's looks are of critical importance. Not so with a woman because they are much more interested in what you're like on the inside than on the outside. Your personality and warmth of character are of paramount importance to them.
Some women even prefer a man who is not very handsome, as they usually have a better personality and are more interest-ing. Just like a lot of beautiful women, a real good-looking man may just sit back passively depending on his looks and are so hung up on themselves they haven't even developed a personality. They're just plain boring and unexciting.
If you do happen to be good-looking, it will be to your advantage though. Good looks and a good body do attract a woman's attention. Just remember that they're more interested in your personality and not hung up on beautiful faces the way you are, as a general rule.
Your hair is very important to your looks. Most women like a man with well-groomed hair. I wouldn't advise you to wear your hair real long either. This is out of style and turns most women off. Seek professional help to deter-mine which hairstyle is becoming to you. Try a perm if you like. It can attract women like crazy, especially if it's thick and full. So, be daring and get a permanent and see if you don't get more looks from women.
A word about jewelry. Jewelry is in, so do wear attractive jewelry to make yourself more becoming and attractive. Just don't overdo it. The multiple gold chains and medallions around the neck are definitely out now, so don't look like a fool by wearing them thinking it makes you look like a "Macho Man." Just one gold chain around your neck is sufficient and quite attractive. Just make sure it looks expensive and not cheap and tarnished.
A word about watches. Invest some money in an attractive watch. It makes a bad impression when you wear a cheap and ugly watch.
If you really want to turn a woman off, go out in public with your hair uncombed, stringy, and dirty, unshaven and wearing wrinkled, dirty clothes. Some men just don't take enough pride in their appearance and think they can pick up women looking like a bum. Well it just doesn't work that way because a woman likes a man to be well-groomed. In public is certainly no place for a shoddy-looking man.
If you happen to be obese, resolve here and now that you're going to get rid of all those ugly pounds. With the proper diet and exercise, you can trim yourself down to where you won't be embarrassingly fat.
It's a known fact that if you're a fat slob, your chances of meeting women are pretty slim. Obesity turns most women off. This doesn't have anything to do with looks but it's worth mentioning. Be sure to take a shower or bath regularly.
How to Avoid Head Games with Women
Hi guys, let's talk a little bit about how not to let women get the best of you at times:
Sometimes you can't control how women mistreat you, but you can control how you react to abuse. There's no woman on earth that can make you feel negative emotions such as anger, fear, sadness, and rejection - without your permission.
There are women in this world that gain immense pleasure by upsetting you and playing upon your emotions. They can no succeed in upsetting you if you refuse to react to their negative behavior. Always tell yourself, "I am in total control of my emotions and I will not allow her to upset me."
In conclusion, don't be a victim of head games women may play on you. Some will test you to see how much power they have over you. Don't put up with any bullshit. Be a man!
How to Buy Table Dances from Topless Dancers
Here's a tip to save you from wasting your money on a bad table dance. Always ask a topless dancer when you first meet her, "How long have you been dancing?" If she hasn't been dancing very long, she will be inexperienced and it will show. It may not be very sexually stimulating and seductive. Also, she may feel very uncomfortable or shy about giving a table dance and this will show, too.
If you want to get your moneys worth, buy your table dance from an experienced dancer. Watch the dancers giving other guys table dances. If you see one that really turns you on, buy a dance from her. At least you'll know what you're getting.
Here's another tip. Don't buy a blind table dance. What I mean by blind is buying a dance from a dancer without seeing her body first. You may be attracted to her pretty face but once you see her body, you may be disappointed and feel you threw your money away. She may have some features that turn you off such as stretch marks, sagging breasts, flat chested, too many tattoos, cellulite, big ass, etc. It's better to see a dancer naked first before you buy a dance so you won't be disappointed.
Masturbating After Watching Topless Dancers
I'd be willing to bet you that you beat your meat when you get home from a topless club after being around all those naked women. I'm not going to give you a lecture here on masturbation. I'm going to give you some advice on lack of masturbation that will help you score with topless dancers.
Try this: Go a week or two without masturbating before you go to a topless club. What will this do? It will make you more aggressive and hungry to score with the dancers. It will create magnetism on your part and an aura of attraction. You will be hot & horny, but be sure and not express it. Don't act like the other yahoos in the club. Just act cool and confident.
Experiment with this concept. Try it and see if it helps you to do better with dancers.
Sexual Satisfaction with Women
Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Single women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.
If it were possible to take an objective survey, we wouldn't be surprised if the results concluded that many break-ups today stem from sexual dissatisfaction or sexual boredom, and that partners leave the relationship because they are looking for something better. More specifically, exciting sexual experiences. Women are leaving relationships because of this more so today.
And what does all of this mean? What is the point of this all boiled down to one sentence?
If you want to be successful with single women, you'd better know how to keep her sexually satisfied.
4 Free Book Excerpts, How to Pick Up Topless Dancers
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Single women are far more discriminating than men are concerning sex. They desire sex as much as men do, but whereas men will often have sex with anyone, single women are looking for someone special. They are passing up sex with just anyone to wait for someone to come along who they deem to be that special guy. Single women today not only want sex, they want good sex. And as far as single women are concerned, whether or not the sex they have is good is the responsibility of the man. We, as men, are the first ones to point out that this fact is unfair, but also the first to point out that it is a reality that we all have to live with.
The next time you are trying to figure out a single woman's actions, just suppose that she is as motivated and swayed in her behavior by sexual desire as you are. Time and again, men ask us, "Why did she go for him? He doesn't have nearly as much going for him as I do." The answer is simple: She was more sexually attracted to him than you.
And that is it in a nutshell. Single women are choosing men just like men choose women by sexual attraction. If a woman is interested in you it is your sex appeal that got our foot in the door, and now good sex will help keep you there.
Should You Have Sex Early Soon as Possible
Becoming physically intimate too soon can be fatal to a relationship. It can shatter the slowly developing friendship and trust between the two of you. It magnifies and distorts feelings, clouds judgment, and superimposes cruel reality on hopes and dreams ("Is that all there is?"). It narrows options and introduces tensions and pressures into what was a joyous and carefree acquaintanceship. It damns you for lack of respect for the woman, and for lack of discipline on your part. It is begging for trouble. Getting to know a woman, "touching" her is critically important in a relationship. Physical contact at the wrong time can intrude, hinder real understanding, block communication.
You can learn more about each other by joining your voices in song, by becoming one in music and lyrics and poetry, than by sleeping together. You can get a deeper sense of communion by sharing a meal than by sharing a bed. Just holding hands or a gentle kiss can easily be more explosively effective in linking the two of you than having sex.
Physical intimacy implies commitment, responsibility, and a sense of permanence. It is a promise. The two of you should be fully committed to each other before you seal the bond with lovemaking. Sex should never be undertaken lightly, without a full understanding of its implications... and consequences.
This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.
