Advice for Men on How to be Successful with Girls

Things You Should do to be Successful with Girls

Basically these are the things you should do to be successful in meeting and impressing girls:

1. Dress Well.
2. Boost your confidence.
3. Start talking, and be able to keep talking.
4. Smile and be friendly.

When "picking-up" in public, consider the three phases:

• FIRST PHASE: Attracting attention and introduction.
• SECOND PHASE: Getting to know each other.
• THIRD PHASE: Getting intimate.

6. Apply body language principles.
7. Have your conversation material planned in advance.
8. Have some follow-up activities planned.
9. Use compliments whenever they are appropriate.
10. Try to be exciting, and not dull.
11. Get introduced and call her by name as soon as you can.
12. Be polite and apologetic in FIRST PHASE.
13. Be more positive in SECOND PHASE.
14. Talk more in FIRST PHASE. Listen more in SECOND PHASE.
15. Remember, you can ease into it, and put the pressure on later.
16. Be ready to respond if a girl gives you a "come on."

These are the things you should not do to be successful in meeting and impressing girls:

1. Don't be afraid of rejections -some are inevitable.
2. Don't hold back from approaching a girl because she hasn't smiled at you.
3. Don't give up too easily if she says "No."
4. Don't be a bore in conversation.
5. Don't be a bore in conversation.
6. Don't be over-awed by a girl.
7. Don't be self-conscious.
8. Don't worry if you are shy.

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