How to Ask for Help to Meet Women

Asking for Help to Meet Women

This is the best all round opening approach. You can usually think of something you need to know, such as directions, general information, or advice about something a woman would be likely to know, like cooking, housekeeping, grocery shopping, or women's clothing. You can ask her to help you do something, just about anything. You can ask her to hold something or watch something or even help you carry something. If you are outside working on your car, or working in public in any way, a passing girl can be asked for many kinds of assistance. If you are taking photographs you may need help holding lights, in controlling people, or standing in a picture as an extra. You surely can think of many more examples.

Try to make the job of helping continue on for a while. Then when finished, you should express your gratitude profusely. Nothing is more natural, then, than to offer to take her somewhere for refreshments. She will probably know you were using an excuse to meet her, but if she likes the look of you she won't mind. If the help you request takes a short time, such as a receiving of directions, you should be ready to follow up with one of the other conversational approaches.

It is usually best to open up your approach with "Excuse me, do you have a moment?" or a similar apologetic opening remark.

You can ask for something like a match, an aspirin, a Kleenex, or a safety pin. You might borrow a pen, pencil or a piece of paper. The suitability of these requests depends on the circumstances.