Why Sex is Important to Single Women

Sex is Important to Single Women

Probably the biggest mistake that men make in understanding single women is underestimating just how important sex is to single women. It is easy to see, however, how men would fail to recognize sex as being a major motivation to single women.

It has always been socially acceptable for men to desire sex, and even to be open to others about their desires. It has been frowned upon for years, however, for single women to discuss or admit to sexual desires. A single woman who lusted for sex was considered a whore or a slut. Single women were even afraid to admit to themselves that they had desires because of feelings of guilt that society heaped upon them.

Thus the single female sexual desire is not something that has been talked about openly, and for this reason men have been lulled into thinking that since it is not talked about much, it must not be a very strong motive in single women.

The fact of the matter is that female sexual desire does exist. And, it exists in single women every bit as strongly as it exists in men. We will go so far as to say that the real, unspoken motive being the women's movement was sexual freedom. Not freedom to have sex necessarily, but that it is okay for women to admit that they enjoy it, and want it, and have it with more than one man if they want. The women's movement was saying, "Hey, we enjoy sex just as much as men do, and that shouldn't be a sin. We are tired of the double standard."

And that is what has happened. Single women now realize that it's okay to enjoy sex and they are out looking for it. Sex is something that single women can enjoy too - not just a dutiful obligation to a male dominated society.