How to Express Yourself to Women

How to Express Yourself to Women

Expressing Yourself When Talking to Women

Expressions of speech are very useful in pick-up conversations. They can be used as a form of punctuation in the presentation of your ideas. They spread out your delivery and give you breathing spaces that make everything seem more balanced, natural, and rounded off.

Expressions should be given a little extra dramatic treatment to emphasize your statement.

For example, in reply to a girl saying she likes surfing, you might say: "Well! As a-matter-of-fact, I was planning to go to the beach this weekend," with a dramatic emphasis on the expression' 'matter of fact. " The use of an expression is like a fanfare of trumpets preceding your suggestion for an outing.

Another very effective expression, which can be used in any part of an encounter, is: "Well, I'll tell you what I'll do." This of course is followed by some offer or suggestion. This expression adds some authority to your offer. It makes it appear that you are offering something of real value. You are giving your plan advance publicity. It is also good filler talk, adding balance to your presentation.

If you watch a TV talk show and listen carefully, you will notice how the hosts of the shows, and their guests, use expressions frequently to polish up their delivery.

You may have noticed people who make a feature of a single expression, which they keep repeating in their conversation - expressions such as "You know what I mean?" and "Don't you know." Purists would say this was bad English usage. But, when trying to appear cool with a girl, balance and flow are more important than perfect English.

Other expressions are used for their humorous, poetic, descriptive, and sometimes erotic effect. Stand-up comic and comedy records are another good source for new punchy expressions, as well as other humorous material.