Trying to Figure Women Out
Some men spend so much time looking and trying to figure out if the girl will give them a smile of encouragement (sometimes even without their making a move themselves) that they are actually staring at the girl. The girl does not like that at all, and gives them a hostile look, which can really scare them off.
Or, a man sees an good looking girl on a number of occasions. He smiles at her each time. She doesn't smile back, but he keeps smiling at her each time, and looking, looking, looking. She thinks, "Who is this creep that keeps leering at me every time I see him. I wish he would stop staring at me. " You should not do any of this. Simply decide you like the look of her, and approach her. Develop the idea of being a doer and not a watcher. While you are holding back, trying to be sure you won't be rejected by waiting for encouragement, you are only annoying her. Better to jump in and say something. The girl will like that a lot better. Shake things up. Something will happen!
There is an interesting experiment you can perform, which will show you some parts of this principle. Select a girl, in a public place, who is quite attractive, but who does not appear to want to be friendly. Let us say that when you look toward her with a slight smile on you face, she turns away looking quite serious. Then approach her with a simple request for help. Ask directions, or some other simple thing. That is all; you do not have to do more than that. Don't worry, you are not trying to pick her up.
Usually, her face will become very animated as she tells you the answer to your question. She will usually act in a much friendlier fashion. The "hands-off" sign will be taken down. No doubt, as you thank her and walk away, she will smile at you. You have shaken things up, a little. You have at least cracked that hard protective shell she placed around herself. You have at least become a person to her, and not a vague threat. It is a good idea to repeat this exercise a few times. It gives you a feel for approaching girls. It is quite educational.
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