Problems and solution when dating

 You can expect difficulties and setbacks in the course of meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing single women. Some problems have a relatively simple "fix", while others require careful attention and a great deal of patience. Consider problems as challenges and learning experiences, rather than as painful failures and doors slammed in your face. Here are some common problems you will face in relationships and a trouble shooting guide to fix them:

Dating

Problem: As long as the two of you are doing something, everything is fine, but when you are alone with each other you seem to have nothing to say.

Solution: This does not bode well for your relationship. If you cannot communicate, you may not have much in common.

Problem: The woman you are going with consistently shows up late for dates.

Solution: You are a low priority with her. Reconsider how important she is in your life.

Problem: After meeting a single woman, things usually go well for the first few dates, but then she loses interest in you.

Solution: This seems to be a repeating pattern in your relationships.

1. Become a more interesting person.
2. Develop your talents and explore the depths of your potential.
3. Review basic conversational skills.
4. Do you attach yourself to the woman, "smothering'" her?
5. Do your constant attentions allow her to take you for granted?

Problem: You are going out with a woman who shows you no affection at all, who constantly criticizes you, who shows no interest in the things that are important to you. She permits you to take her to dinner and entertain her, and makes you feel that this is what you owe her for being with her. You are nevertheless overwhelmed and grateful to be near her, and if you could only get her to return your love, it would make your life complete.

Solution: If it is your life's ambition to be abused and exploited, then you have found your soul mate. Otherwise, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit.

Problem: You seem to be stuck in a rut. Your life has settled into a dull routine of loneliness and even the prospect of a close relationship hardly excites you any more. Solution:

1. Try a change of pace.
2. Fill up your free time with activities.
3. Take classes. Join clubs. Do volunteer work.
4. Devote yourself to a hobby.
5. Start work on your novel.
6. Step out of the role.
7. Be a bit more flexible, and less predictable in your behavior.
8. Deliberately act out of character occasionally.
9. If you are in a permanent state of depression, consider professional counseling.

Problem: You are tired of making a fool of yourself over women, tired of being humiliated and rejected. You don't know where you'll find the courage to go on looking for your love. Solution:

1. Get a good night's sleep.
2. Wake up fortified with a teeny bit of optimism, and smile at the people you meet on the way to work.
3. Forget about girlfriend hunting for a few weeks, perhaps a month or two, and concentrate on improving your relationships with your family and friends.

Problem: Absolutely nothing seems to work. Solution:

1. Perhaps it is not a good time in your life to be seeking a relationship.
2. You might not yet be ready for one.
3. Treat yourself to a six month's breather, a vacation from looking for a girlfriend.
4. Enlarge your circle of acquaintances.
5. Develop new interests.
6. Grow, learn, and be patient.

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