Rejection, rejection by a woman, rejection by the woman, the woman who has captured your thoughts, the woman whose smile sends shivers of warmth down your spine, the woman whose touch you dream of ... this icy doom fills you with dread. It is the utter desolation of helplessness. It is the worm of self-doubt. It is the gripping fear that warns you to abandon hope.

Rejection is a part of everyday life. People are turned down for raises, refused promotions, declined for loans, and passed over for recognition. Rejection is not final. Rejection is not ruin. Indeed, rejection can be the precursor to eventual success.

There is nothing personal about rejection. It happens to everyone. It is part of "the cost of doing business". It is intimately connected with risk taking. Every worthwhile endeavor at some point involves the risk of failure. This is what makes life interesting.

It is only by risking our persons from one hour to another that we live at all. And often enough our faith beforehand in an uncertified result is the only thing that makes the result come true.

Consider a rejection as a "second opinion" of sorts. The woman who rejects you might well have sounder judgment in the matter of a possible relationship than you. She may have compelling reasons for her conclusion that you are ill suited for each other, saving the both of you a great deal of future grief. This does not, of course, mean you are worthless as a person, just that she was not meant for you,
and that you should find someone else.

There are techniques that can remove some of the sting from the fear of rejection. Simply "scoping the situation out", proceeding in small steps, rather than taking the grand plunge all at once is a prudent method of risk management. Asking a woman you have just met to become intimately involved with you is an enterprise almost certain to fail.

Asking her to share five minutes over a cup of coffee is a more modest proposal, one much more likely to meet with her approval (after that, she may hint, or even let you know outright if she is willing to go farther). Tackle tricky situations in small increments.

When you do face rejection, and you will, accept it with good cheer. Bounce back and try again (presumably with a different woman). Continued life experience will desensitize you to the trauma of having doors slammed in your face. You learn to survive. You learn to go on. You learn to keep trying.

Since everything in life is but an experience perfect in being what it is, having nothing to do with good or bad, acceptance or rejection, one may well burst out in laughter.

Hi guys, I hope your doing fine and focusing all your efforts on meeting and attracting new women. Every day you should take some type of action no matter what it is, to improve your love life and meet more women. Even if it's just saying hi to female strangers you are attracted to. Just get completely obsessed with meeting and dating women. Remember, whatever the mind is constantly focussed on it will
attract.

ARIES Single Women (March 21 - April 19) - She's aggressive with men, dynamic, hot-tempered, and very bossy. You must be very strong-willed with this woman and don't let her boss you around. Don't be a wimp, this woman loves a challenge.

She attracts men quiet easily and can discard them just as easily. Don't try to tie this woman down, she likes her freedom and doesn't like to be smothered. They are very energetic and aggressive in bed and reach orgasm very quickly. If you want some "hot" sex, this is the girl for you.

Did you know that what you say under your breath before trying to approach and meet sexy single women can really motivate you and give your courage?

Here's what you should say to yourself before approaching her:

"Do it now!"

"If it's going to be it's up to me."

Try this exercise and I'm sure it can help you to be more successful in approaching hot single women.

My focus this week is on pornography. You need to be aware that a lot of single women are offended by pornography and think it is demeaning to women, causes moral decay, rape, prostitution, etc.

So, to be on the safe side early in a relationship with a woman, it would be wise to hide any pornographic photos, magazines, videos, sex toys, etc. from her.

I would advise hiding it in a good place like the attic or locked up in a trunk, file cabinet, etc. Don't hide it under your mattress or under the bed or in your closet. You'd be surprised how women will snoop around while you're not looking.

So what's the point of all this? If a girl you're dating is disgusted and offended by porno and she accidently or purposely discovers pornographic materials in your apartment or house, guess what message that sends to her? She may think that you're some kind of pervert and may be very offended. Offended to the point that she will not want to date you anymore.

So guys, keep your porno out of sight until you get to know a woman better and her viewpoints on pornography, sex toys, etc.

If she has nothing against pornography then you don't have to be so discreet. But, if she is dead set against porno even after you have established a serious relationship, just keep your stuff hidden (you can always break it out when she's not around).

Well, Valentines Day is just around the corner and it's time to get
busy meeting women so when that day comes you will have a sweetheart.
Please keep in mind when you are taking a date out for Valentines Day
be sure a make reservations in advance if you are going to a
restaurant. I screwed up a couple of years ago and did not make
reservations and there was very long waits and lines at the better
restaurants. I ended up eating somewhere where I didn't care to eat.
Plus, it makes a unfavorable impression if you don't plan the date in
advance.

Do you go to topless clubs and get tongue-tied when you try to talk to the topless dancers? Well, here's 25 proven opening lines to use on topless dancers:

"What is your real name?" (If she tells you her real name instead of her stage name, this could indicate that she's interested in you).
"Where are you from?"
"Do you have a boyfriend...How long have you been seeing each other?"
"Don't you get tired of all these horny men with their brain between their legs?"
"You have such a beautiful body, where do you work out at?"
"What do you plan on doing when you get off work tonight?"
"How long have you been dancing?"
"Have you got any children...how old are they?"
"What made you decide to get into dancing?"
"What part of town do you live in?"
"Are you attracted to other women?" This can help you determine if she is a lesbian and if she is, you will be wasting your time trying to score with her."
"How long do you plan on working as a topless dancer?"
"How did you get such a nice tan?"
"When do you work?"
"You are so beautiful, I couldn't help but notice you, you look so nice...my name is..."
"Where do you like to go party?"
"Would you like to go party with me when you get off?"
"What do you like to do on your days off?"
"How do you keep your body in such beautiful shape?"
"What time do you get off work?"
"What do your parents think about you dancing?" If either parent is against her dancing be sure and take sides with her and defend her occupation as a dancer.
"What kind of man turns you on?"
"Do you ever get burnt out on dancing and the topless club scene?"
"Do you have any hobbies?"
"Do you do any modeling?"

This is an excerpt from our best selling book, "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" which was featured in the Playboy Catalog.