Long distance relationships have an extremely low chance of succeeding. You should avoid the heartache for both of you by sticking to the single female population within a two-hour drive of your place. This only makes sense. If things do start to heat up, how can you be part of her daily or even weekly life if you live 400 miles away? Phone, fax and e-mail are not sufficient. You have to be there on a very regular basis. Choose local single women or relocate.

Are you living in the past? Do you keep thinking about a lost love in the past? Do you keep thinking about the good old days?

If this describes you, then you are living in the past. Sometimes this can become all-consuming and it gets to a point where it interferes with the present and your future.

Don't allow yourself to get into this rut because it can effect your dating, relationships, meeting new single women, and scoring with single women.

How does it interfere? Well, when all you can think about is all the good times you had with women in the past or one particular woman you were crazy about in the past, you may start comparing the times you're having now, which seems empty and boring and you make a really big mistake by comparing the girls you meet in the present to
previous girlfriends and they never seem to measure up.

So, what's the point? You need to let go of the past because it is causing you problems in your ability to enjoy the present and the future and it can have a devastating effect on your relationships with women. So, how do you let go of the past and previous serious relationships of the past? Try these exercises:

1. Say to yourself daily, "I really had some great times in my past. But, now I must let go of the past and say good bye to all those fun times. From now on I'm going to focus on having a good time in the present and I will enjoy many happy times in the future. I will no longer be chained to the past, past relationships, lost loves, and bad experiences in my past.

2. Here's an exercise to get over a lost love in the past - Say to yourself daily, "_____________(name of girl), I really loved and cared for you and enjoyed all our happy times, shared love, and all the good times we shared, but now I must say good bye to you. I must let you go...I must get on with my life. Good bye, take care and I wish you much happiness in life." Just keep repeating this daily until she's completely out of your mind.

In closing, please don't fall into the rut of living in the past. The past is past. Let go of it and enjoy life to the fullest each and every day. Life is short and someday when you get older you may look back regretfully and wish you would have lived your life differently.

I recommend these pick up lines to meet single women that you are attracted to:

“Don’t you know me from somewhere?”

“Where are you going? Can I offer you a ride?”

“Excuse me, but I think it’s about time we met each other.”

“Can you tell what’s on my mind? You.”

“Did you know that I know what you’re Mr. Right looks like? I see him every morning when I look in the mirror.”

Being 40+ and single again has it's curses and blessings, I wont linger on the former but would like to share with you and your readers a great little place to snag babes. Bookstores, yep bookstores, not only do you get to screen what her interests before moving in, but you already have a common ground, something to talk about right away instead of fumbling around for something that interests you both.
Depending on whether you are an expert or a novice on the subject matter you can opt to enlighten or be enlightened and believe me, a woman will never miss an opportunity to show that there's "more than T&A in the DNA."

"All that and a great mind too!" usually will get a smile, and a phone number.

Libraries are also great places if you've got the time. A little tip is finding an attractive lady at a table, look at what she's reading, grab some of the same subject matter, and plop down across from her or near enough to start exchanging thoughts.

I have enjoyed quite a few successful encounters thanks to your tips and advice but if there is one little tidbit that everyone needs to carry with them it's that rejection is a part of the game. Hell, Ken Griffey Jr. doesn't get a hit but once every three at bats and he's on his way to the Baseball Hall of Fame so don't be afraid to swing away.

Thanks.

This week we will focus on how your ego can prevent you from scoring with sexy single women in nightclubs and bars:

I will describe what I call the "Nightclub Ego-Man" that you will see at nightclubs and bars. If you're one of these men, resolve here and now that you're going to change your ways and discontinue being the Nightclub Ego-Man which can prevent you from meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing all those hot & sexy beautiful single women you are attracted to in bars and nightclubs.

This is the guy you will see standing around, depending on his looks to meet single women. He may be very handsome or he just thinks he is. He just stands around all night thinking that he's Gods gift to women and he waits for women to approach him. He just keeps on waiting and waiting, never making the effort or going out of his way
to approach and meet women. I don't need to tell you that this type of man is not very successful at meeting or attracting single women.

Believe me, you can't depend on your looks to pick up single women. It just does not work that way. You have got to approach women and play the aggressor. You can stand around all night and most likely no woman is going to approach you and start up a conversation or ask you to dance. You have got to take the lead. I will agree that there are aggressive single women who will approach a man, but there are very few of them. I just wish there were more of them because I love being approached by a woman.

You'll pick up as many single women as you want by just being friendly and taking the initiative to meet them. It's really just that simple, so don't go walking around with your nose up in the air thinking you are so good-looking that women will literally fall all over you. I had this problem myself until I wised up and realized what a jerk I was and why I wasn't meeting and attracting very many women.

When I cleaned up my act, it made a world of difference and I was meeting and
attracting tons of sexy single women.

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."

Nice guys beware of the walking wounded single woman. These are the single women who, really, really need your friendship, love and support. She's just come out of a devastating break up. She's hurt and naturally all your instincts tell you to give. Give and keep on giving, because she's a woman in need, and you can't turn your back.
How can someone so badly hurt, ever be in danger? Besides she loves you. She says it over and over. She keeps saying how much nicer you are than other men she's known.
Soon, you're sleeping together. What started out as a friendship has become a relationship, and now you are attached. But beware of two things. Firstly be sure you yourself are not simply attracted to her because she is needy. That's not a healthy thing.
Free Dating Tips on How to Meet, Attract, and Seduce Women
But secondly, beware what happens when you have given of yourself so much that her self- esteem is now fully repaired, and she is finally over her bout of depression.
She's grateful to you. You were there when she really needed a friend, but now she wants some space. Soon she's talking about "moving on", and "putting her life back together" and it is obvious your usefulness is at an end. You have let yourself become the "interim man." The person, however innocently, she uses in order to deal with the break up.
This article was contributed by Michael Boniwell.

CANCER Single Women (June 22 - July 22) - This woman will want to baby and take care of you. Let her do it, by all means, because its part of her maternal instincts.

She's very emotional and romantic, so you can really capture this woman's heart by doing anything romantic. She soaks up compliments like a sponge, so be sure to compliment her often. She makes a good sex partner because she will do anything to please her man.