When fear raises its ugly head when you are thinking about approaching that hot single woman you are attracted to do you dwell on those self-defeating thoughts of rejection or shyness that prevents you from approaching her?

When you choose to focus on all the reasons why you can't approach sexy single women this is going to cause you to have a negative mindset when it comes to meeting women. This mindset is going to hold you back from meeting and approaching women that you are attracted to.

You just can't sit on the sidelines watching other men meet and attract women. You must refuse to let fear hold you back anymore. You've got to take a leap of faith, be bold and resolute, and focus on a vision of victory in meeting new single women.

I suggest that you develop a new mindset that this is a new day and a new beginning for you. Let go of the chains of the past. In the future, when you feel fear when wanting to approach women, doesn't mena you have to act on it. When you feel fear when you want to meet and approach women that you are attracted to, don't give in to that fear. Stay in faith that you can meet and approach any woman you desire. Say to yourself that you are full on confidence and fear nothing or anyone.

Trust me, you will go through some storms in your relationships. It's all part of playing the dating game. The main thing is to not let it get you down.

You need to be like the palm tree during storms and hurricanes. Let me explain why:

Have you ever watched a palm tree in a storm or hurricane? They will bend so hard they almost touch the ground. Then when the wind subsides they bounce right up.

You need to be just like that palm tree after you go through some dating storms. You need to bounce right back up and be stronger than ever.

LEO (July 23 - August 22) - This woman is very charming, has lots of sex appeal, and loves to party. She's a very social person and loves to be on the go. If you're a couch potato, you're not the man for her.

Very passionate and affectionate and has lots of love to give to the right guy. Attracted to unusual, dynamic men who are often a bit eccentric. You must be well-dressed and treat her like royalty because she has a strong ego. She's a real tiger in bed and rules the bedroom.

Guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to a single woman how your shoes look. Why? Because women are obsessed with shoes. Just look in their closets and I'm sure you will find tons of shoes for every occasion.

Shoes are very important to single women. They spend a lot of time shopping for them, talking about them (especially to other women), and spend a lot of time trying to figure out which shoes to wear with each outfit.

Being that women focus a lot on shoes, they will judge you by the shoes you wear and how they look in appearance.

If you wear scuffed, unpolished, or out of date shoes, you're going to make a bad impression and that's the last thing you want to do. Part of the art of attracting women for love, romance, and a potential relationship is making a good impression on them.

Even worse, if you want to really turn single women off, wear dirty sneakers. I even had a friend that used to wear old unsightly golf shoes on dates. Don't do it!

I highly recommend these following guidelines for attracting single women with shoes:

1. Please keep your shoes polished and shiny.
2. Make sure your shoes match your belt.
3. If your shoe laces are frayed or discolored, replace them.
4. Replace worn out shoes.
5. Replace worn heels.

Visit your local shoe boutiques and buy several pair of stylish and sexy shoes. Spend the most you can afford for quality name brand shoes. Don't worry about the cost - consider it an investment in scoring with single women.

Don't buy cheap shoes from Target, K-Mart, Walmart, etc. (If your shoes look cheap, this can make an unfavorable impression on women and they may think that since you dress cheap you must be a cheap and miserly person).

Hello, my fellow Don Juans. In my opinion, the key to succeeding with women is becoming obsessed with meeting, attracting, and seducing women. Live, eat, and breathe scoring with single women. What the mind constantly focuses on usually attracts what it becomes focused on. So, focus on your strategies to meet and seduce women. Plan it out in detail. Just think about all the planning you do when you take a vacation. Well, that's how you should approach improving your lovelife. Plan, plan, plan!

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It's called S/A Hypnotism. And they say that thousands of men like yourself have already begun to use this easy-to-master principle to meet, attract, date and even seduce girls.

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When doing research for a book I wrote on how to pick up single sexy women in bars and nightclubs, I interviewed over 200 single women in nightclubs. One of the questions was, "What kind of man turns you off in a nightclub?" Here are some of their answers (most of the women had the same answers):
Robin - "One who comes right up in your face with bad breath. A man with bad body odor and wrinkled clothes. Takes things for granted and sits down without asking. One who comes on too strong."
Kerry - "One who thinks he's a good dancer, but steps all over your feet."
Erika - "The overly flashy type man. A man who treats me like a piece of meat."
Valerie - "A man that acts dumb. He shows off in front of everybody. He thinks he's real cute. Cares more about himself than he does about you. Also, he comes right up to you with bad breath."
Paula - "A show off, a man that thinks he's really special, a guy dressed tacky, or a bum, a fast mover."
Susan - "A drunk, stubborn man. Some men insist that you dance with them even if you say no. That turns me off."
Gail - "A forward, especially drunk, insistent man."
Debbie - "A fat, drunk man. A man who thinks he's macho."
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Erin - "A foul-mouth man."
Sandra - "Too feminine and doesn't dress masculine. A fat man. A man who is not a good listener."
Karen - "If he's too suggestive, dresses too fancy (don't like suits), and too
drunk."
Kim - "A guy that's too pushy and brags too much on himself."
Nicole - "A guy that's too forward and obnoxious."
Barbara - "Gay and ugly men."
Nancy - "A drunk and untidy man."
Natalie - "A cocky snob (stuck up)."
Gayle - "Short and fat. Real conceited guys who think they are God's gift to women."
Peggy - "A man I don't even know that fondles me and paws at my body. A real drunk guy that stumbles up to me and trys to hustle me or dance with me. Obese men." Teresa - "The type that lie and sit around and brag about themselves. They think
they are hot stuff."
In conclusion, use these interviews as a guideline on how to conduct yourself accordingly at the nightclubs. You're not going to score with very many sexy single women if you do things to turn them off. These interviews can be summed up as follows:
1. Single women like to be approached in a respectable manner. They usually don't like the aggressive approach and don't like to be treated like a piece of meat.
2. Single women like well-groomed, well-dressed men, with a pleasing personality. 3. Single women dislike conceited, drunk, forward, and obese men.
P.S. This article is an excerpt from my best-selling book, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."