The power of seduction is perhaps one of woman's strongest instincts. This drive probably goes back to ancient times when a woman seduced a man to gain protection and food in order to survive. Over the centuries this drive has evolved to become more subtle, but certainly not weaker. We see today even pre-school girls "seducing" their fathers to get what they want. Girls learn at an early age that men can be manipulated with nothing more than a little female attention.
Of course, the attention that single women use translates to sexuality. But it doesn't even take a promise of sex - merely the hint or suggestion of sex is enough to manipulate or seduce a man into doing what a woman wants him to do. As a matter of fact, some women grow up finding so much success using their "charms" that seduction becomes second nature to them. Most often, they are not even aware that they are doing it. Usually these women grew up around men, who were very susceptible to female attention, so that from an early age these women learned how to get what they wanted. So, if money is important to a man because with it he can get what he wants, in the same way, the power of seduction is important to a single woman because with it she too can get things she wants.
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What all this means to you, the man trying to understand single women, is that women like to know they have that power of seduction. Single women are very stimulated by an opportunity to affirm that power. They love a chase. They love a man who is a "catch" - someone who is hard to get. A man who makes himself easy denies a woman her desire to prove her powers of seduction. She will be bored with this man and
go after one who stimulates her desire for a challenge. This is something that every man must remember when dealing with single women. Later we will give some ideas and examples of how to appeal to this female drive.
P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

When meeting women at a restaurant for the first time for a dining date, there comes that awkward moment when you are finished eating and the waiter brings the bill. Who pays?

To avoid any confusion or embarrassment as to who pays, here's how I set it up to where you completely avoid the issue:

Arrive early at the restaurant and arrange to give your waiter in advance, your credit card and tip instructions. Instruct them to bring you the credit card slip to sign after you have completed your meal. This way everything is taken care of in advance and she will admire you for this. And there won't be that awkward moment as to who pays the bill.

Also, if the two of you arrive together early by chance, you can just excuse yourself to go to the restroom and set up this same procedure with your waiter in advance.

Let me tell you, women are very attracted to men who wear a good cologne. I wanted to share with you the success with women one of my readers has with colognes. Here's his story:

I was eyeing your archives and came across the top 10 fragrances to seduce women, and decided to give some of them a try. I have always had good luck with Eternity, but it was that time, and I was in the market for something new. I went down to the local P.X. and sniffed around. My decision was exact! I chose Safari, and let me say, it works! ... here is some real quick history about me, I am a veterinary technician, so I have constant contact with beautiful women, and it helps that I work in a college town too... It didn't matter what I did today, women flocked! My boss even commented on it! Personally, I think it was the combination of the fragrance, and the confidence it gave me.

LIBRA (September 23 - October 23) - This is one of the most beautiful signs in the Zodiac. She's very feminine and her good looks attracts a lot of men.

She makes an ideal mate because she's so giving and loves peace and harmony. She's so sexy, seductive, and charming. A very social creature and very romantic and sentimental. Be sure and appeal to her romantic nature and she's all yours!

Educational radio and television stations hold telethons during the year to raise money to cover their operating expenses. Volunteer your time to man the telephones, make follow-up calls, send out mailings, etc. A lot of single women volunteer also for these causes. This is a perfect opportunity for you to meet and mingle with your fellow volunteer honies. And who knows, by being involved in a common cause,
it just may lead to seduction and romance. Just call the station manager and find out when and how you can help.

Hospitals and nursing homes are always very busy and welcome volunteers to help out with simple tasks. Working as a volunteer in hospitals and nursing homes you will be exposed to lots of pretty and sexy single nurses to meet and seduce and there's plenty of pretty single patients too. You never know, that patient you meet while
delivering flowers or magazines might develop into a love affair. There can be golden opportunities to meet and attract single women by volunteering your time in hospitals and nursing homes. Just contact your local medical facilities and ask about their volunteer programs.

If you believe in and support causes such as environmental protection, civil rights, historical preservation, or whatever - join these groups to support causes. You will be exposed to single women who share your interest and this can blossom into a romance. People thrown together supporting causes can develop close friendships that can lead to serious relationships. Check your local newspaper for dates and times of meetings in your area.

Do you have a political candidate that you believe in and support? Call your local party headquarters and ask how you can help on a local, county, or national level. This is a great way to meet potential mates and perform a civic duty at the same time.

If you're a single parent, look into joining one of the clubs oriented toward others in your situation. This will give you the opportunity to perhaps meet some single attractive mothers. You must love kids though. Check your local paper or telephone directory for groups such as Parents Without Partners. It will be a lot of fun to share experiences and problems with other female single parents.

Volunteer to become a "Big Brother" to a disadvantaged child. You will really bring a lot of joy and happiness into a child's life and perhaps you may be attracted to the mother of the child. You just never know what fate may bring you. You can meet your future mate, just out of the blue by doing a great service such as this.

1. When talking to a woman, do find yourself concentrating totally on her breasts? This is a real no no! Always look women in the eyes when talking to her. Believe me, if all you can do is stare at her breasts, she will catch on to it and will ditch you as soon as possible. Women don't like men who constantly stare at their breasts. In a topless club it's OK, but not when you just meet a woman or in the early stages of dating.

2. If a woman wants to be independent, let her. For instance, if she wants to change her own flat tire, let her. If she wants to open her own door, let her. If she wants to order her own food or wine, let her. Let her assert her independence. It will make a good impression on her. You're making a big mistake if you want to act Macho all the time and not let her act independent if this is what she desires.

3. Some misguided men think it's sexy and cool to brag about what a great lover they have been to their other girlfriends, about getting high on drugs, or how good they can hold their liquor. You are not impressing women with this. As a matter a fact, she will probably find that you are obnoxious and potentially dangerous.

Do not slurp your soup, smack your lips, or chew with your mouth open. Nothing is more unsightly than watching someone talk and chew their food at the same time.

Should you order for your date? If you are at a classy restaurant, you should order for your date. Ask her in advance what she wants and when the waiter or waitress comes, order for her. This makes a good impression on women.

When eating insert your fork straight in your mouth. Do not place your fork in the side of your mouth. This increases the chances of you dropping your food on your table and that's embarrassing.

If you get food stuck in your mouth do not pick it out with your fingers or fork at the table. Excuse yourself and go to the restroom and get it out with a toothpick.

Be sure and leave at least a 15% tip (unless the service is bad). Single women will judge you on your tipping habits. If you are cheap it can make a bad impression on them. Don't whip out a pen and paper or calculator to calculate the tip, it could leave an impression on her that you are "cheap." Here's an easy way to do it in your head. Let's say that your bill comes to $45.10. Move the decimal point one place to the left ( this will come to $4.51 which is 10% of the bill). Now divide $4.51 by 2 which will give you $2.25. Now add $4.51 + $2.25 = $6.76 in your head and this will give you a 15% tip. That wasn't so hard was it?