I was using the online Personals for a while and met a great girl and was seeing her for about 1 year. Then we grew apart and the rest is history.

Since breaking up with her (September 2001), I once again jumped into the online personals. In the 8 months on there, I have had 7 dates. 5 were lost causes and 2 were good. I ended up sleeping with the 2 good ones after the third date.

So, to me the online thing has been a success. As I get to meet plenty of different women (although not all of them I am attracted to).

My advice to people out there is as follows:

List your likes and what you like to do for fun. Don’t tell women how much of a great, caring, sweet, sensitive person you are. Be a Man tell them what you like. And they can decide if they enjoy the same things.

ALWAYS get a photo (full body shot if possible). I have been out with a few women who say they have a "average" body with curves in the right places. Well to me a size 16, with a fat ass, fat belly and chunky legs does not constitute a normal sized girl.

Girls love it when I would list questions for them to answer (about 5 or 6 each email). Don’t really know why they just do. Most would say they ‘love it when I listed question for them to answer.". Non -threatening ones to start with. Such as "Ultimate dream career?", "What do you want to do when you grow up?", "If you could holiday anywhere in the world where would it be?"

Again, as always, "bust their balls."

And act like you are verifying them and that they have to prove their worth to you. It drives them nuts and confuses the shit out of them. I would say, "You seem like a pretty nice girl, but who knows, when I meet you, you might be one of those cyber fruit loops." And keep up this verifying attitude. They have to prove themselves to you. Regards, Todd, Australia.

P.S. Guys, don’t think money, looks, a new car, etc. will attract women. I am 23 years old, earn AU $65,000 pa, a project manager, have a brand new PT Cruiser, building my first house and live in an exclusive area in Melbourne, above average looking (7 or 8) and graduated with 1st Class Honors from a University. But, I still don’t get women coming after me. I understand that it is confidence and me approaching them that will get me the girls. Which I am still working on. So don’t be too down on yourselves if you aren’t rich.

Did you ever wonder why some guys seem to have all the luck with meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing single women and lead a charmed life in the romance department?

If you were able to look a little closer into their lovelife and relationships you may find that outward appearances are deceiving. Id' be willing to bet you that they have had just as many failures, setbacks, and disappointments with women as you have.

There's probably one difference though, they have probably dealt with these problems differently. They don't get down on themselves or lose hope in meeting, attracting, and seducing single women because they've had a few unfortunate experiences with women. They have faith that things always work out for the best in their dating experiences.

When things don't go right for you in succeeding with women, it may be painful and difficult to accept, but you will learn from experience that if you refuse to accept defeat and rejection when dealing with single women, success with women will eventually follow. As long as you maintain your faith and hope, there can be no obstacles to you succeeding with women beyond your wildest dreams. Keep the faith!

Here are some tips on making the first call to a single woman you just met:

Practice the simple techniques that strip a first call of most of its terrors. Take a blank notebook (this will become your "phone project" book) and begin outlining how you want the conversation to go. What would you talk about? What do you know about the woman -- her life story, her personality, her likes and dislikes, her beliefs and passions? What do you feel comfortable revealing about your own self? What is most important for her to know about you? What can you say that will purposefully lead to finding things you have in common, interests you share, activities you could do together...

Hopefully, you will have by now filled up the first several pages of the project book. At this point, transfer the information to a format that will better suit your purpose. Consider making a wall chart, a more or less elaborate diagram on poster board that will prompt you, guide and direct your conversation, when required. This will function as a sort of "talisman", or lucky charm, to boost your confidence as needed.

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The main purpose of this dating guide is to give you a gold mine of creative dating ideas that will make a lasting impression on women and make them crave to be with you.

By showing women a good time, it can create intimacy and romance. Plus, you will gain an unfair advantage over other men pursuing her affections.

A lot of men have a hard time thinking of what to do and where to go on a date. So, they settle for the standard routine of dinner and a movie, which doesn't leave a lasting impression or create enough intimacy.

If you really want to impress a date and make her fall for you, take her on a unique date she will never forget. Just look through this dating guide and you'll discover tons of information on fun and romantic things to do. By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again and again.

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Are you waiting for some beautiful women to literally drop out of the sky, while you just sit around doing nothing to meet and score with women? I can assure you that romance does not normally develop just out of the clear blue sky. Sometimes you can get lucky, but success with women is achieved by desire and action, backed up by a well-thought-out plan to score with the women of your dreams.

And, that's the purpose of this blog and my website. To guide you and help you develop your techniques and plans of action. The rest is up to you. You've got to get up off your ass and take action.

You are the Captain of your ship and you are in control of your life. You have to take responsibility to improve your lovelife. Take it from me, you are going to have to do the pursuing. Women are mostly passive and wait for the man to make the first move. Always remember this fact, they are waiting for you to approach them.

It's very important to learn how a single woman acts, speaks, and uses body language around you that indicates that she is romantically or sexually interested in you. When you learn these signs, you can use this to your advantage. If a woman is truly interested in you, this really increases your chances of scoring with her.
Use these guidelines to tell if a single woman is truly interested and attracted to you:
1. Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
2. She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated (this could be mistaken for being high on drugs).
3. Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
4. While talking to you she is slowly stroking her cocktail glass up and down with her thumb and index finger.
5. If she is wearing clothes that shows her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
6. She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
7. Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
8. She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
9. She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way.
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10. She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
11. She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
12. She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
13. She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
14. Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
15. She rubs her wrists up and down.
16. She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
17. She laughs in unison with you.
18. She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
19. Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
20. She mirrors your body language and body positions.
21. Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.
22. While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
23. In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
24. While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
25. She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
I know this is a lot of signs to look for, but this will be to your advantage to know if she's interested in you. If she's not truly interested in you, you will just be wasting your time on her. Memorize these positive signs to determine if she's got the "hots" for you and take advantage of the situation accordingly with your charm and seduction techniques.

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Where is this place that's a hot bed for romance? It's your upscale and expensive hotels. Late at night you will find these out-of-town businesswomen hanging out in the bars and lounges of these upscale hotels. These women get lonely on the road and are looking for some love and affection. This is where you come into the picture to satisfy their needs and desires.
Here's a simple plan to take advantage of these lovely businesswomen who are looking for some action:
1. Begin hanging out at the bars and lounges late at night in the most expensive hotels in your town.
2. When you spot a special lady you are attracted to that's sitting alone, just approach her and simply ask, "Can I join you for some conversation?"
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3. Most likely she will welcome your company and you can talk to her about things in general, like her interests, career, why she is in town, goals, family, etc.
4. Just keep talking to her and turn on your best charm and keep having drinks with her.
At the end of the night, after she's had a few drinks and lost her inhibitions, don't be surprised if she invites you up to her room (of course you can always ask her if you can come up and tuck her into bed).
In conclusion, try this little known place to score with women that most men aren't even aware of. There will be golden opportunities to score with some drop-dead gorgeous businesswomen. Maybe it won't happen the first night, but if you will be persistent and keep hanging out in the bars and lounges, I can assure you that you will get lucky.