Use a set of index cards, that can likewise serve as a reminder and memory aid. This will remedy the "I should have said that" and "if I had only thought of..." syndrome. The cards can be used to take notes while you talk, and, at the very least, they will occupy your your hands and keep you from biting your nails.
Maintain a scrapbook of interesting facts, meticulously gathered and culled out from the newspapers and publications you read. This can help spark the conversation. During those dreadful moments of awkward silence, when neither of you can think of anything to say, you can discreetly leaf through the scrapbook and -- Aha! "Did you know that...?"
Finally, you might want to try a "dry run", or rehearsal. Call a sympathetic family member or a good friend who will not laugh at you, and have this person play the part of the woman you will be speaking to. Practice your varying "opening lines" and responses, and ask for feedback. A little gentle criticism can do wonders for your phone technique. On the other hand, if there is no one you wish to share your little project with, you can always do this by yourself, tape recording the session if you like. Repeat the procedure until you are confident you can handle "the real thing".
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Move slow with this woman. You must become her friend first before you can get her in the sack. She's not into casual sex, so you must not be sexually aggressive with this woman.
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For example, a woman once told us about a dinner date she had just experienced. She was very impressed by the fact that her date had cooked the dinner, set flowers on the table, and that they dined by candle light. She also told us that this was the first time she had been treated this way. This woman has been married. She is over
thirty years old, and very attractive, so, obviously, she has had exposure to men and dating. We were shocked by the fact that this was the first time she had been treated to a candlelit dinner. What does this tell us? Women want romance and most men aren't providing it.
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Here's a great way to meet single women in bars and nightclubs. Also, it's a great ice-breaker and a very unique way to introduce yourself to women. All you need is some blank lottery cards that have not been filled out with the picked lottery numbers and a pen or pencil. Bring them with you when you go to bars and nightclubs to meet single women.
Here's what you do next. Pick out a hot & sexy beautiful single woman that you are attracted to and approach her. Pull out your lottery card and pen or pencil and say, "Excuse me, but I always ask the prettiest girl in the club to pick my lottery numbers, so can you help me pick some numbers?" It's very rare that you will be turned down.
The next step will be to give her your business card and say, "Call me next week to see if I won, and if I did I will split the winnings with you. If I didn't win I will buy you lunch? Does that sound like a fair deal?"
Don't leave her after she has picked the numbers. Hang around and try and get to know her. You never know what may develop just from using this unique approach. Try it. It works!
How to Overcome Fear in Approaching Hot Single Women
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When fear raises its ugly head when you are thinking about approaching that hot single woman you are attracted to do you dwell on those self-defeating thoughts of rejection or shyness that prevents you from approaching her?
When you choose to focus on all the reasons why you can't approach sexy single women this is going to cause you to have a negative mindset when it comes to meeting women. This mindset is going to hold you back from meeting and approaching women that you are attracted to.
You just can't sit on the sidelines watching other men meet and attract women. You must refuse to let fear hold you back anymore. You've got to take a leap of faith, be bold and resolute, and focus on a vision of victory in meeting new single women.
I suggest that you develop a new mindset that this is a new day and a new beginning for you. Let go of the chains of the past. In the future, when you feel fear when wanting to approach women, doesn't mena you have to act on it. When you feel fear when you want to meet and approach women that you are attracted to, don't give in to that fear. Stay in faith that you can meet and approach any woman you desire. Say to yourself that you are full on confidence and fear nothing or anyone.
YOU MAY NOT NEED A DATING SERVICE: Other methods are usually less expensive and more productive for meeting, dating, and seducing single women.
CHOOSE A DATING SERVICE WITH A GOOD REPUTATION: Exhaustively research dating services until you do find one with a good reputation and lots of legitimate single women to choose from. The dating service will claim having a great reputation, don't rely on their word only.
DATING SERVICES TO AVOID: Large national chains that offer other single female members by profile and videos.
BEST DATING SERVICES TO CONSIDER: Local dating services that match by "intuition."
DON'T PAY FULL PRICE: Bargain. Rule of thumb is pay no more than one-third the quoted price, especially at the large national chains. Make sure there are no hidden costs to surprise you later.
BE SURE SERVICE IS SUITABLE TO YOU: Find out how many single female members they have that meet your basic requirements, such as male/female ratio, race, age, etc.
SCRUTINIZE THE CONTRACT: Try to get a copy to take home and study and take to an attorney for review. Mark out or rewrite any statements limiting your rights. Get the statements signed by management. Make sure you have any verbal promises written into the contract and signed by management.
GET IT IN WRITING AND SIGNED BY MANAGEMENT: This can not be over emphasized. Make sure everything they promised and claim, changed in the contract, and the total monetary amount of the service is written and signed by the owner or management. And don't lose any of your copies of the paperwork.
I hope this guide will help single men in choosing and dealing with a dating service. You really have to be careful and don't get ripped off!
P.S. If you do find a good dating service in your area, publicize it! A lot of the local dating services cannot afford the expensive advertising like that of the large national chains. Let everyone know about a good deal, not just the bad ones.