Let me tell you about a golden opportunity that comes up quite often for meeting and making a good impression on single women.
Whenever you see a single woman about to light up her cigarette, offer to light it for her. And whatever you do, don't use a match or one of those cheap lighters you bought at the convenience store.
Buy the nicest and most elegant-looking cigarette you can afford. You can find some really impressive and attractive cigarette lighters at:
1. Your better department stores in the watch section.
2. Cigar and tobacco stores.
3. Luggage stores.
4. Jewelry stores.
Why am I stressing to you to buy an upscale cigarette lighter? Because when she sees it, it will make a good impression on her. She will think you are a man with class. And, succeeding with women is all about making good impressions, even with trivial little things like a cigarette lighter.
And don't forget - if you're giving a girl, who is a stranger, a light, be sure and introduce yourself and ask her if you can join her for some conversation. Whatever you do, don't just walk away!
Always light a girl's cigarette for her if you're on a date. This shows her respect and it's good manners that will leave a lasting impression on her. Single women love a guy who has good manners and who is a gentleman.
P.S. I would recommend buying the gold-plated lighters to make the best impression.
Here's some more great tips to do better with single women:
Tip #1 - Seeing a single girl that you have just started dating, more than once a week is pushing it. Any more than once, and you may be appearing overly anxious. Even if she is the one calling you and initiating the effort to see you more often, don't. If she is calling you, then you are in the driver's seat. Play hard to get and make her work for your time. She'll appreciate you more when she has it. And don't feel guilty about turning her down. Simply say, "I'd love to but I'm busy tonight." No more explanation should be given. Let her sweat it out. It is important that when you turn her down, you express the fact that you definitely want to do things with her, but you are just too busy with prior obligations to see her that night.
Tip #2 - Never hang on the phone for hours as if you have nothing better to do. Call, be pleasant, get the purpose of the call over, and excuse yourself.
Tip #3 - Flowers and small gifts, candlelight dinners, and romantic notes and cards are all great touches. Small in the time and money it takes, but large in their effect. It is important that all of these are out-of-the-blue and a surprise to her. For Example: Sneak over to her house and leave flowers and a note at her door. Again, use these romantic touches, but do so sparingly so that you don't come on too strong.
Tip #4 - Use imagination for your meetings - not just the same old date. Go for walks in the rain. Have picnics in the park. Go to showings of old classic movies, etc. Above all, do anything that is romantic.
For those of you that celibrate Christmas, I wanted to wish you a belated Merry Chritmas. I hope you enjoyed your time with family and friends.
This week let's talk about finding the right woman for you.
Do you have a strategy for finding the right woman for you? Or, are you just settling for any woman that comes along?
There's a lot of competition out there for what I call, "The Cream of the Crop" women. These are women who have it all: Good looks, brains, romantic, affectionate, good-hearted, good communicator, ambitious, caring, etc.
The woman I just described, you'd probably die for. Can you find her? Yes, you can. Will it be easy? No, it won't but it will be worth the effort when you do.
And to find this woman of your dreams, you need to have a plan. Don't chance it to fate. The winners in the game of love and romance know the rules of the game and have a plan.
Do you have a plan? Are you just sitting around complaining about how you don't have someone special in your life? Well, it's time to get off your dead ass and do something about it!
YOU CAN NOT LEARN MERELY BY READING, YOU MUST GO OUT AND PRACTICE THIS: If you see a single woman on the street, looking in the window of a store, waiting for a bus, sitting on a train, in the next aisle of a movie, shopping in a department store, and for any reason this woman appeals to you, strike up a conversation, start talking to her about anything that comes to mind.
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MAKE YOURSELF SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS. Try to feel and understand just what makes her "tick." Try, occasionally, to put yourself in her shoes mentally and empathize with her attitudes and view of life. As you sense unfulfilled needs on her part, really try to satisfy them. Does she want tenderness? Companionship? Boldness? Does she urgently want to get married and will an early subtle indication of serious intentions create the best impression?
I have a really bad cold and don't feel like writing anything for a couple of days while I recover. Pray that I will get better soon...Don
