A very common one-liner to start a conversation with a woman in a bar or a dancing is: "Don't I know you from somewhere? You seem familiar...". But it is one VERY BAD one-liner. Because a woman obviously doesn't want to look "familiar". She wants to look "special". And because this one-liner is so old and not in the least
original. And what to do if she says NO? Then you are left with the suggestion that, even IF you two had ever met, you are obviously not a man for her to remember. Not a good thing for your confidence...
A much better variant to this one-liner would be: "I don't think I've ever seen you. Because I would surely remember a nice looking woman like you". In this case you stay in charge. You started a conversation and made her a compliment in one single move. That shows balls. And you're not dependent of her answer.
Most of the women will say: "thank you". Then you can immediately offer her a drink. NEVER EVER say: "You're welcome". Because that shows that you where merely making her a compliment and that you don't mean it.
Some women will turn themselves away from you, or hide their face, or start laughing. That's really scary at first. You get the impression that you made a fool of yourself. But NO man is EVER a fool to a decent woman if he made her a nice compliment. In most cases it just means that she is shy and not used to getting compliments. Just apologize with a friendly voice for making her feel uncomfortable.
Give her a few seconds time and she will come back to you. Then offer her a drink. DON'T put your hand on her back or her shoulder to comfort her. It will make things worse!
If she shows no sign at all of coming back to you, just leave her alone without saying a word. And don't start thinking that everyone around has been watching you while you were turned down. If it's crowded, no one has seen a damn thing! Don't leave the bar feeling ashamed. Have a drink and try another woman. Convince yourself as soon as possible that not every woman reacts the way she did.
I've discovered a better way to attract women like crazy using the personals. You will run circles around other men answering personal ads of single women. What's the secret? Using voicemail with your ad. Here's how to use this girl-getting system to find love and romance using the personals:
Set up a voicemail account. You will find the companies to do this for you in the yellow pages listed under answering services. Run your personal ad in singles publications, magazines, online, etc. Here's a good example of a personal ad to attract single women like a magnet: Handsome SWM, 38, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Call 484-2424 (your voicemail number) to hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.
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The women will call your voice mail and will listen to a pre-recorded message by you. Here's a sample script to use for your voicemail message: "I love you darling. How long have you longed to hear these words? How often have longed to be held in a man's arms, to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, and tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows? My name is Don and I am a one woman man, writer, author, publisher, 38, 6" 1", 185 lbs., and desire to meet an attractive, loving, affectionate, slender woman 25-35 who is interested in a meaningful relationship. So, if you're tired of what you've had up until now and ready for a 1st class man to come into your life and treat you like a Princess, please leave your phone number at the sound of the beep and I will return your call as soon as possible. Thank you and I look forward to talking to you.
You can also set up a 1-800 voicemail to use for personal ads in national publications and magazines and for online personals. This way the women will be more inclined to call you being that it is a free call. In closing, guys try this better method of using the personals to attract single women like a magnet.
P.S. When making your script for your recorded message, talk in a very romantic and sexy tone of voice. This will turn the women on!
The way you ask for a date with single women can make a big difference in whether she accepts or declines. Also, it's very important that you feel confident in advance that she is going to accept your invitation to get together for a date.
Whatever you do, don't expect a "no" answer in advance of asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence around women. If you expect rejection, it can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way of asking single women for a date. These negatively phrased questions can set you up for failure in trying to get a date:
1. "I know you're probably busy Friday night, but if you're not busy would you like to go out with me?"
2. "I don't suppose you're free to have lunch with me on Friday are you?"
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3. "You wouldn't want to meet me for a drink Thursday after work, would you?"
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a "no" answer. Plus, she might think that you have already asked someone else out and you got shot down, so now you are trying your luck with her. Her thinking this, even though it might not be true, puts you in a bad position.
It's best to make it easy for the woman you're asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say, "yes." Also, think positive when asking her out. Believe that she is going to accept and there's no way that she will say, "no."
In my opinion, here's the best way to ask a woman for a date:
1. "My friends have been raving about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I've never been there. Would you like to try it out with me?" (This really doesn't have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date).
2. "There's a good symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing to attend. Would you like to join me?"
3. "Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and party. They have asked me to come along. I know it would be a lot of fun. Would you like to come along with me?"
I'm sure you get the idea now. These are non-pressured and direct questions for asking for a date. They sound so much better than the negative examples I gave you to not use for asking for a date. Don't you agree?
I hope this advice helps you to get more dates and happy hunting!
Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.
You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance and a potential relationship.
You arrive right on time at the time you both agreed upon. And you're waiting and waiting for her to show up. Ten minutes goes by...then twenty minutes...then thirty minutes.
What should you do? Leave in a fit of anger and never see her again? Call her up later and cuss her out?
Here are my recommendations:
1. Never wait more than 30 minutes for a date to show up.
2. Give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she has a valid excuse for not showing up such as traffic, sudden illness, emergency at home, problems with her kids, car trouble, etc.
3. Call her the next day and see if she offers an explanation. When you first call, act like nothing happened and let her bring up the subject of your dinner date first. If she offers no explanation, then do not pursue this woman. She may have purposely not showed up because she has no interest in you.
4. You can try another tactic that could make her not feel so bad about not showing up. Just tell her you're sorry you didn't show up for your dinner date because you had a personal issue to take care of. This may be a little white lie, but it takes the pressure off of her. Just reschedule another meeting.
5. Whatever you do, don't call her up and start cussing her out. This serves no purpose and there are some single women out there that enjoy making men upset by standing them up.
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I would suggest rescheduling another meeting for dinner. If she doesn't want to, then just take the hint (she's really telling you that she's not interested in you). If she agrees to meet you again and doesn't show up again, then forget about her. Don't let a woman humiliate you twice.
In closing, remember that being stood up is part of the dating game. It happens to everybody. Don't let it get you down. Let it be a lesson...if a single woman stands you up on purpose, then you don't want to be with a woman who is not interested in you anyway.
Does this describe you?
1. You don't feel you're capable of love because you don't believe that you're good-looking enough, intelligent enough, successful enough, or interesting enough to meet or attract any women.
2. If a woman shows interest in you, you believe yourself to be not worthy of her attention.
These characteristics are classic examples of low self-esteem. And low self-esteem can be a major roadblock to finding and experiencing romance.
In his book The Psychology of Love, the psychotherapist Nathaniel Branden makes an excellent point about low self-esteem: "It has been something of a cliche to observe that, if we do not love ourselves, we cannot love anyone else. This is true enough, but it is only part of the picture. If we do not love ourselves, it is almost impossible to believe fully that we are loved by someone else. It is almost
impossible to receive love. No matter what our partner does to show that he or she cares, we do not experience the devotion as convincing because we do not feel lovable to ourselves."
So, to overcome your low self-esteem, you've got to learn to love yourself. It won't be easy in the beginning, but with a lot of practice and emotional support from friends, relatives, etc. you will gain self-confidence with women and experience love and romance.
Here's more pick up lines to use on women:
“Are you familiar with the TV show “Love Connection?” After she says yes you reply, “Well, would you be my love connection?”
“What are you doing later today - tomorrow and the next day in my life?”
“I just came into a large inheritance. Would you like to help me spend it?”
If there’s a girl walking behind you, turn around and say, “Are you following me?”
“May I join you?” (This simple line ranks as one of the top 10 pick-up lines to successfully meet women.)
