If the girl is waiting at a bus stop, in a line at a bank, or seated in a bus or plane, and you are similarly waiting or traveling, you can join her without even asking. But then you have to find a reason to start talking to her. This is usually not difficult. A request for help or any casual remark can be a starter. The weather, something she is wearing, or any well or any well-known current event will do the trick.

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Then casually say, “By the way, my name is…What’s yours? After all, you are both just killing time. If you have a long wait, everything should be fine. But if the waiting time is brief (5 minutes or less) you will have to arrange an extension of time.

A good idea is to ask, “Where are you going when you leave here? How about joining me for a cup of coffee?”

Another variation on the “waiting” situation is when the girl is seated with plenty of empty seats all about. Then, if you want to sit near her, you should get her approval.

You can say, "Excuse me, but do you mind if I sit here? I'd like to have someone to talk to."

But even better is, "Excuse me, but I saw you sitting here, and I decided I'd like to meet you. My name is ..., what's yours?"

Of course with all the “waiting" situations you don't have to be really waiting yourself. It is usually easy to join a waiting group to get near the girl. If you are really inspired by her, you might even take a bus trip you hadn't intended, though a plane trip might be a bit much.

There is a movie called, "Magic Mike" which starts tomorrow. Be sure and take a date to see this movie. Why? Because it is a movie about male strippers and when she sees these hot guys stripping it is going to get her in the mood for sex after the movie.

These are the topless dancers right out of the pages of Playboy that you would die for and the kind of bodies men drool over. I'm sure when you look at these girls you have all kinds of fantasies and your hormones are raging out of control. Can you score with these dancers? Yes. Will it be easy? No. You're going to have to have something these dancers want and need. And what can that be? Material things, money, gifts, trips, something to further her career, cars, pay her rent, etc.


Will she date you if you have a lot of charm, good personality, and good looks or average looks, but not a man of financial means or material things to offer? Well, maybe. The main thing is to give it your best effort to get a date with these centerfolds. So what if you get rejected. It's not the end of the world. Just move on to the next beautiful playmate. Just look at it as a numbers game. The more times you come to bat, the more chances you have to hit a home run.

While you  are cruising the  nightclub, keep your flirting eyes out for  the woman  that is  alone. She is usually the easiest  to meet and attract.  She is there for a reason and you can be the lucky man to fulfill that reason.

               

Also while walking, keep  that sexy-looking gleam in your eye. Literally try to melt women with your eyes. If you make eye contact with  a woman, make sure you give her a friendly smile and if she is close enough to you, simply  say,  "Hi."  That  is  all it  takes and with practice it will come easy.

               

If  you make eye contact with some woman across the way from you and she turns away, don't give up on  her. Try  to make eye contact again and smile at her. If she smiles  back,  approach her  immediately!  This is an opportunity that must not be passed up because it's an open  invitation for  you to  come over  and introduce yourself or ask her to dance.

               

Whatever you  do, don't stare  at a woman.  This is impolite and nobody likes to be  stared at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her  and  then  immediately  look away.  What you are saying with your  eyes when you  look at her this  way  is,  "I  know you  are there  and I  would not dream of invading  your privacy.  Just keep  looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange smiles.

               

So, there you have it, the art of flirting. What  really  amazes  me  is  these guys at the nightclubs that don't  even flirt with women.  They just stare into space or look down at the floor. If they do accidently catch the eye  of a woman, they look  away as quickly as possible and let  it go at that. They  just don't  know what  they are  missing and  what they are missing out on is meeting women the easy way.

               

So  my  friend,  if  you're  like this, make it a point to  stop staring  into space  and start flirting with women. Flirt with every woman in sight. It's a lot of fun  and  you  will  be  attracting and meeting more women than ever before.

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A girl sitting on a park bench, in a restaurant or bar, lying on the beach, or in any other similar "stationary" situation, is engaged in a recreational activity, and can easily be approached by a man (in a friendly way), saying, "Excuse me, but do you mind if I join you?"

The girl can simply say, "I'm-sorry, but I'm waiting for someone," if she is not interested. Such pick-ups are among the easiest to make. In fact, I am sure that girls in such situations are expecting (and probably hoping for) men to approach them. But they are ready to use the “waiting for someone" excuse if they do not fancy the man approaching them. It is really quite a painless rejection for both the girl and the man.

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It is amazing that many men think nothing of approaching a girl at a party, but would be afraid to approach a girl in a park, restaurant, or beach in the manner described.

TIP #1 - People go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious.

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TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things slightly different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at your place, have a candlelight dinner with flowers on the table. Go to see classic films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other words, try to set yourself apart from all of the other guys. It's easy to tell what she is used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to dinner, to a party. So avoid the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is used to. She will remember it.

TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating, it is important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you "...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is getting late and..." This is going to surprise her because most guys hang on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed with her.

By ending the date before she does, you:

1. Set yourself apart.

2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.

3. Make yourself hard to get.

4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must be other girls in your life and she is going to have to work harder to catch you.

This girl really likes to party, drinks heavily and loves to get high on drugs. Is this good for you? It can be to your advantage because of her being a free spirit she may go party with you after she gets off work. She's not likely to just party with any guy. She's got to be attracted to you and feel safe with you.

If all you do all night is make sexual advances towards her, it's unlikely she will go party with you. These girls are just like any other normal girl in that they don't want to be used for sex.

So many men get the wrong impression about topless dancers. They think that just because she takes her clothes off in front of men that she will be an easy lay. Nothing could be further from the truth. I know their occupation is considered sleazy, but the girls do have their dignity.

The party animal is one of the most fun to be with. She's very open-minded and very friendly. Your chances of getting a date with this type of dancer is more favorable too. If you do date her, don't be the possessive and jealous type. She may date a lot of men, being that she's loose and carefree and loves to party. You're going to have a problem with this if you're the jealous type, so be forewarned! If you determine that she's the party animal type, this should be your strategy: Buy her drinks and get her loaded. She will be more receptive to your advances. If she's loaded enough she may even give you free table dances. If not, perhaps you could negotiate a buy one get one free offer.

TIP- If she's loaded, always ask her to show you her bush while she's dancing. Being that she's drunk, she just may do it for you. When a dancer is loaded she may do things she would not normally do. Always remember this and use it to your advantage.