Many men live in a dream world waiting for the perfect, beautiful "Perfect 10" to come along. These men have a hard time finding anyone, short of Bo Derek, attractive. Are we saying that shooting for "10's" is foolish? No! We are saying men forget the eight elements of what women find attractive. Remember, women find men attractive who are found attractive by other women. When a woman sees that a man has a date or is "going" with a woman, she sees that man has something going for him. He must know how to treat a woman, he must be sexy, he must be interesting, and finally, he must be hard to get because he is already taken, and I'll have to use my powers of seduction on him, which makes me feel sensual.

When women see a man with no date or girlfriend, she sees a man who must not know how to treat a woman. He must not be sexy. He must not be interesting, and he is probably desperate. Even if you don't have your girlfriend with you, women can sense a man who has experience with women. They can especially sense a man who is desperate. Being involved with women is probably the single most important thing that you can do to make yourself attractive to other women. Your image is improved without you saying a word.

This tip is very important. Don't get drunk before you go to a topless club and don't get drunk while you're at a topless club. Why? This will impair your judgment in meeting topless dancers. You need to be mentally coherent to plan your strategies and take advantage of opportunities. Also, the dancers are turned off by drunks. They have to tolerate drunks, because it is part of the job, but I can assure you that it doesn't make a good impression on them.

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When meeting a dancer and she asks you if you go to topless clubs very often. Here's your answer even if you have to lie: Just tell her "sometimes," or "very rarely." If you tell her otherwise, she may get the impression that all you do is cruise topless bars trying to pick up topless dancers. This will get you off on the wrong foot with her.

Never, never turn down a party invitation. Whether it be a friends, a beach party, office party, etc. Parties are a real gold mine for meeting women. The atmosphere is very sociable and conducive for flirtations.

All you've got to do is walk up to a woman you're interested in and introduce yourself. Then follow up with your conversational skills.

Also, it's a good idea to throw your own party. Invite everyone you can think of. For instance, if it's a male friend you invite, ask him to invite some of his female friends. If it's a female friend, ask her to invite some of her female friends. This way your party will be stocked with an ample supply of women. This will give you an opportunity to meet some new women and make friends.

When at a party, whatever you do, don't stand in a corner. Be sure to mingle and flirt with as many women as possible. There's nothing to fear because people will be friendly and rejections are rare unless you make a fool of yourself.

Probably all of us have known some man who is an absolute natural at picking up girls. Maybe it is a combination of boyish good looks, disarming charm, quick wit and super confidence. But he can walk up to any girl and she will like him right away, almost instinctively. He can approach a girl and, with just a few words, take charge immediately - make a date with her, take her off to a party, or whatever. He has instant momentum. He is not apologetic, but rather, positive or even aggressive with his opening lines

. Of course you envy him.

But don't try to copy him, unless you have the same attractive assets he has. You probably don't have, or you would be using them already.

People like that usually have been successful socially for a long time; that is why they seem so natural. Probably as a child they learned they had good looks and started learning how to use them to get the things they wanted. They were developing their charm. For you to try and learn to compete with that type of "class" would be like a middle-aged man saying, "I'm going to learn to play tennis, and beat John McEnroe." Hyping up your confidence is one thing, but overreaching and falling flat on your face only destroys confidence. Be realistic. Don't waste your time trying to be someone you can't be. Settle for a little slower (and surer) approach. Develop a style that can work for you first. You may be able to improve your methods later.

We will dwell a little more on these signs, since most men find it hard to recognize or just plain don't want to recognize these signs:

1. She won't make herself available. Even though they may sound like valid excuses, if she were interested, she would make herself available to see you. If arranging a date to get together becomes a struggle and you are the only one working on the problem, move on.
2. Conversations will be awkward and forced. After all, you are the only one trying to keep it going.

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3. Conversations and the tone in her voice will be neutral. Not necessarily negative, but they will be absent of that up-beat, positive mood.
4. The important thing to remember is that most girls don't want to hurt your feelings. So if they aren't interested, they will be just neutral in their tone and expect you to pick up the fact that there is an absence of a "come on" in their manner. Man y men will assume that since a girl hasn't come out and said "drop dead," then maybe she is interested. Don't forget, if you aren't sure whether or not a girl is interested in you, then she probably is not. When a girl is interested, she will let you know.

This tip is very important. Don't get drunk before you go to a topless club and don't get drunk while you're at a topless club. Why? This will impair your judgment in meeting topless dancers. You need to be mentally coherent to plan your strategies and take advantage of opportunities. Also, the dancers are turned off by drunks. They have to tolerate drunks, because it is part of the job, but I can assure you that it doesn't make a good impression on them.

When meeting a dancer and she asks you if you go to topless clubs very often. Here's your answer even if you have to lie: Just tell her "sometimes," or "very rarely." If you tell her otherwise, she may get the impression that all you do is cruise topless bars trying to pick up topless dancers. This will get you off on the wrong foot with her.

How many times have you seen a girl thumbing for a ride? At least once and probably many times.

Like most guys, you probably just passed these girls and kept right on going. Well my friend, you just passed up a potential golden opportunity.

So the next time you see a female hitchhiker, by all means, pick her up. If she's going the opposite direction, make a U-turn and go back and pick her up.

I know what you're thinking already. It's too dangerous to pick up women thumbing for a ride. The majority of female hitchhikers are not dangerous. I'll leave it up to you if you want to take advantage of this opportunity to meet women.

You are probably wondering now what to do after you have picked her up. The first thing to do is ask her where she's going. This will give you an idea of how far she intends to ride with you and you'll know how much time you'll have to make your approach to get to know her better.

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If you'll follow my conversational guidelines outlined in my chapter on how to talk to a woman, you'll establish a warm rapport. After you've established some friendly contact, just ask her, "Why don't we drive over to my place and have a drink? If she declines, tell her, "I'd like to see you again. Would you mind if I give you a call sometime?" Hopefully she will give you her phone number and you can follow up on her later. If you're traveling out of town and pick up a woman on the highway, ask her if she'd like to stop and get something to eat so you can talk and get to know her better.

In conclusion, I'd like to offer you some words of wisdom. A lot of female hitchhikers are young. So, keep in mind that they may be jailbait and you may get in trouble with the law if you try anything physical. Also, when you pull over and pick up a girl and she gets inside and sits down you might ask her, "Why don't you sit next to me, I don't bite."