Now I will teach you the art ofconversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you.

People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you unless you are interested in her first.

It is very important that when you're talking to a woman that you face her and look her squarely in the eyes. When talking or listening to her, don't look off to the side or at the ground. Maintain constant eye contact. This gives her a feeling that you care about what she has to say.

During your conversation encourage her to talk about herself, her career, and accomplishments in life. Find out the things she's really into such as sports, cooking, hobbies, art, music, etc. and really zero in on these subjects. This will make her feel closer to you while she's pouring her heart out about her favorite subjects. Just concentrate on talking about herself and forget about yourself. While she's talking, acknowledge her with statements like, "Oh yea", "Is that so?", "Wow", "You're kidding." Also, while talk­ing to her, wear a pleasant smile on your face.

To sum it up, the secret to getting a woman to fall in love with you is to talk to a woman about herself. Try it and see how she will rattle on and on talking about herself.

Negative Signs That a Topless Dancer

is Not Interested In You

1. You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.

2. She starts turning away from you.

3. She doesn't make eye contact with you.

4. She folds her arms across her chest.

5. Double crosses her legs at the ankle.

6. She touches her nose often while she's with you.

7. A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.

8. When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys in the club. She's probably keeping her eye out for her next customer.

9. She makes no effort to talk to you. She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't answer your questions, and doesn't ask any questions about yourself. Unless she just doesn't feel good or is moody this could indicate that she's not interested in you and you will be wasting your time.

In closing, always keep your objective in mind and that is to divert her attention from trying to make money off of you. Her objective is to try and make some money and turn you into a customer. Your objective is to turn on your charm and get her interested in you as a friend, then as a lover.

If possible, avoid asking a girl out for the first time for a Friday or Saturday night.

1. The odds of her being busy are high so she may have to turn you down, which creates bad vibes right off.

2. It tells her that you don't have a date for the weekend with someone else so you may have trouble getting dates.

3. The weekend implies formal dating, so the pressure is on.

4. If you do get the date, she may have to turn down other offers because of her commitment to you, and go into the evening regretting having to turn down others. After all, she has no way of knowing whether she is going to have a good time with you or not.

On the other hand, if you ask her out during the week:

1. You imply that you are busy on the weekend. In other words, you are involved with other girls.

2. The odds of her being available are greater.

3. Weeknights imply casual - no pressure, a good atmosphere to get to know her.

4. You have turned a dull weeknight into a good time for her - good vibes right off the bat.

How to Create Stronger and More Romantic Relationships With Single Women

You have been dating a nice woman, and the two of you seem to feel at ease with each other and enjoy being together. It feels right being with her, but you have yet to touch, to hold hands, to exchange more than a hug and a nominal kiss or two. Where do you go from here?

1. Talk. Set up lines of communication. Establish a rapport.
2. Share your past, your pain and disappointments as well as your triumphs and joys.
3. Laugh together, cry together. Humor is healing, and tears are sacred.
4. Slowly and reverently peel back the layers of mystery in each other.

Every revealed nuance, every secret desire, every confession of weakness, every exploration of hope and admission of paralyzing fear strengthens the bond between the two of you, helps you accept the other as a human being, flawed but worthy of acceptance as a trusted and intimate companion.
Share interests, activities, and hobbies:

1. Play games you both enjoy, board games, lawn games, tennis, bowling, miniature golf, pool, etc.
2. Prepare home cooked meals for her, and volunteer to wash the dishes when she cooks for you. 
3. Don't forget to praise her spaghetti sauce (made from an old family recipe, no doubt).
4. Sing to her. Make up silly rhymes to tunes you know.
5. Tell her stories, true stories from your life and made up stories from your imagination.
6. Write poems especially for her.
7. Read aloud favorite plays, each of you taking a part.

Develop customs and "traditions" unique to yourselves as a couple:

1. Celebrate the monthly anniversary of your first meeting with a small party.
2. Give her little, inexpensive presents (stuffed animals, key chain trinkets, bath soaps). The personal touch counts.
3. Remember 'special' dates, not just her birthday.

Build trust:

1. Be reliable.
2. Act honorably.
3. Treat her with respect.
4. Keep your word. Always.

Learn how to disagree:

1. Establish the 'rules of engagement', the ground rules for arguing. There is a line you may not cross without causing permanent injury.
2. Be willing to compromise your differences (as distinct from your principles). Making up after a fight can bring you closer than you
3. were before.

Get to know her family, and introduce her to your own:

1. Family background gives important clues to a person's character.
2. A long-term relationship is a bond between families, not just the persons involved.

There comes that magic moment when you finally touch, when she fiercely grasps your hand of her own free will, when you start to give her the usual goodnight peck on the cheek and she turns her face to catch the kiss full on her lips (and, oh, how soft and yielding and warm they are!). This is a healing touch, an affirmative, giving touch. It is a pledge of yearned for commitment, a seed cast upon the waters of tomorrow.

Consider the process, the dynamic of how two people become one, a couple. The two of you gradually grow closer, begin to have deep feelings for one another, and to bond. Past a certain threshold, you cease to think of the woman as someone you have been dating, instead she becomes the other half of us. This is the point where commitment enters the picture, commitment to the relationship and to the happiness and well being of your partner. This is the critical moment when you decide to share your life together.

Cautions: Since you are somewhat inexperienced in the realm of man- woman relationships, you will blunder at first, learning by trial and error, making painful mistakes. You force the pace, letting your anxiety and impatience bruise the fragile trust between you. You let personal insecurities drive you to acts of jealousy. You try to change, or "remodel" her. Your stratagems to pull her closer, to take possession of her -- drive her away. Sometimes, it seems as if all your efforts are self-defeating...

Be prepared for the possibility that the relationship may never "kindle". If such be the case, consider it 'training' for your next one. Go on with your life. Meet new persons. Explore new relationships.
Finally, recognize that even a close relationship may go sour. Danger signs in a failing relationship include lack of respect between partners, constant bickering, and, most telling of all, power and domination dramas. If the two of you can no longer make each other laugh, give each other comfort by a touch, and share intimate moments, then there is little hope left. If your partner disparages and makes fun of you, there is not much remaining to hold on to. You can no longer evade hard choices, and the time has come to consider a graceful exit.

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Million Dollar Bill Method

This is one of the biggest breakthroughs I've ever seen for meeting new women. What is it? Well, it's a million dollar bill. It looks like the real thing and it's perfectly legal.

Is there such a thing as a real million dollar bill? No, but I swear it looks so real, people will be fooled.

So. what does a million dollar have to do with meeting women? Well, here's just a few ideas to use the million dollar bill on women:

1. See a woman you're attracted to - approach her and say, "You look like a million dollars. Here, have a million dollars on me" and hand her the bill.

2. Proposition women with, "I'll give you this million dollar bill if you will have lunch with me."

3. If you're attracted to the hot waitress that serves your table, do this: Leave a tip with a million dollar and a note that says, "Thanks a million for the great service - Let's get together for lunch. Call me at________.

3. Do you go to topless clubs? The million dollar bills are a big hit with the topless dancers. Use them to put in her G-string, for conversation pieces, to tip her for a table dance, etc.

4. I'm sure you can think of many other ways to use these million dollar bills to meet women. Try this new way of meeting women. It works!!!

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Shyness

Some people have a natural tendency to be shy. They tend to be uncomfortable with other people, particularly strangers.. Many outstanding television and movie personalities admit to being basically shy.. They often say that they took up the work of entertaining to overcome shyness. Continued exposure to audiences helps to desensitize them. But shy people always remain so; they simply accept the challenges and overcome their fears on a day-to-day basis. Many pilots say they have a fear of heights. They can accept the fear, but it still remains.

If you are a shy person don't worry about it. You should simply admit to yourself that you are shy, and then go out and do what you want to do regardless. In fact, doing something in spite of a fear brings a very rewarding feeling. Afterwards, you get an exhilarating sense of accomplishment.