TIP #1 - Make thefirst dates with a girl casual. You may even do something during the day rather than in the evening. Save formal dates for later on when you are more comfortable with her. Most men do the opposite. Formal dates at first, and then as the relationship develops, the dates become more and more casual. This can imply to the girl that she is being taken for granted.

TIP #2 - For first dates try to go for spontaneous, informal gatherings, rather than dates arranged days in advance.

EXAMPLE: "By the way, some friends are coming over for dinner tonight.  It's very informal. Come and join us." If she can't, you say, "That's too bad. You'd have enjoyed it. Maybe some other time." If she does join you, you are now in a great position to present your best side to her.

TIP #3 - Make sure your body language is inviting to her during the date and not a turn-off.  Your eye contact and closeness should be open to her, but not crowding or threatening. Again, if she is having a good time, she will be open to contact. Remember, women enjoy sensuality.

Here's an article I found on the usenet that was posted by an anonymous author which will open your eyes to some head games single women play on men:
Another typical female behavior is to test you at the very beginning of your relationship to see if you are going to put up with her garbage.Actually, she is testing you for two reasons:
First, she needs to find out the limits of what you will view as "her acceptable behavior." She does not know you well enough yet, she is in unfamiliar territory. And that can be very "scary." So, she needs to find out what behavior is expected or accepted of her. The uncertainty makes her feel very uncomfortable, totally out of her, "Comfort Zone."

 Second, she needs to find out, she must find out how strong and sure of yourself you really are. Some women can be very insecure. The very last thing a woman really wants and needs is an insecure and weak nice guy who is easily manipulated and controlled by her. Therefore, she really wants and needs a strong man who will control her and tell her what to do, a man confident enough to stand up to her when she needs it, a man who will make her feel secure, a man who will give her that sense of security she so desperately needs.
She sometimes cannot get that sense of security from herself because she may have so little self-confidence and self-esteem. She may even believe that she has very few talents and abilities - except for her physical features and beauty. It can be very frightening. Therefore, she tries to get that sense of security "by osmosis" from you. Plus the added benefit that she won't have to worry about the hard decisions.You will make them for her.
WARNING! If you are tolerant and patient (like all nice guys) you will not pass her test, she will walk all over you, she will leave you and go after another jerk because he looks so uncontrollable, so untamable, so strong and therefore, so desirable to her.
I was kind of hesitant about posting this article because I don't like to focus on anything negative, but I need to make you aware of head games that single women will play on you.

                                                                             
The Following  body signals and  bodily movements will indicate  that  a woman is  interested in you  after meeting you:

 1. Of course, if you do  make eye contact and exchange smiles this usually  means that  she is  interested in you.

2. She sits uncomfortably close to you.

3. Her  hand or  thigh carelessly  brushes up  against your thigh.

4. A woman exposes her wrist or palm to you.

5. While  talking  to  you,  she  twiddles  her  hair, rearranges her clothes, or pushes her  hair away from her face.

6. While talking to you she strokes  her thigh, wrists, or palm.

7. While  talking to  you she  blinks more  than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.

8. While  talking to  you her  eyes are  brighter than normal.  She maintains  eye contact  and her pupils get bigger.

9. She sits  with her legs crossed  and pointed towards you.

10. She  sits  in a  very straight position, displaying poise and good posture.

11. While conversing with you she licks her lips.

12. Eyebrows  raised and  then lowered,  then a smile, usually indicates interest.

13. In a crowd she  speaks only to you and  focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

14. She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.

15. While conversing with you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.

16. She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.

17. She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way.

18. Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.

19. She plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.

20. She rubs her wrists up and down.

In  conclusion, look  for all of these  body signals and bodily movements. They sure can be very helpful in evaluating  how she feels about  you. If  you see she's really interested in you, really turn on the charm and give it your best efforts to make a  "love connection."

 

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The Young and Inexperienced Topless Dancers

Concentrate all your efforts on trying to meet and pick up the young and inexperienced dancers.  They are a little more naive and more receptive to your advances.  The older dancers have heard all the come-on lines, propositions, repetitive techniques and they really get tired of having to put up with all the bullshit.

At least the young and in-experienced are new to what is going on in topless clubs and haven't developed a hardened attitude towards men.  These girls will be much easier to meet and get a date with.  Just be sure and ask her when you meet her, "How long have you been dancing?"  So you can get a feel for how inexperienced she is.  Of course, it will be obvious if she's a young or older dancer.

 

How many times should you ask a girl out for a date before you give up? A friend of ours told us that he would ask a girl three times before he would give up. Why he arbitrarily picked three, we don't know. Probably because in baseball you get three strikes before you are out.

Our rule of thumb is once. If she legitimately has other plans and wants to do something with you, she will communicate this. "Oh, I'd love to, but I just can't. I can make it some other time..." If she is uninterested, she will make herself available.

 

Well the holiday season is upon us and what a great time to meet women it is! What makes it great you say? Because it has never been easier to know where to find and seduce hordes of single women!

The secret to knowing where to find them is an obvious one.

You know that every woman loves shopping, and you know that during the holidays everybody has to shop! Now for me, being a man and all, the idea of going to the mall and spending an hour fighting for a parking spot just to spend all my hard earned money on people like my girlfriend's parents seemed very unappealing to say the least. But I had to do it, and so did everyone else that I could think of. Almost everyone celebrates some sort of gift giving holiday, and that includes hundreds and thousands of beautiful single women.

So when I went to the mall the other day to buy gifts and saw all of the amazing women, it made me think twice about having a girlfriend during the holidays! Here I was, stuck with a girlfriend during the best possible time to meet women I could think of. What a bummer!

Now it's time to get straight to the point. The mall (during Christmas time) is the most amazing place to meet single women that I have ever encountered. Not only is it packed every single day with hundreds of beautiful women, but the pickup lines come so naturally that I almost feel guilty.
Lines like "Do you think my sister would like this?" (holding up a random item) to the more involved "Could you help me? I need a really good present for my sister this year and I can tell by what your wearing that you have great taste in clothes. Would you mind recommending something for me?" are excellent conversation starters and the women feel very at ease and appreciated since they are doing you a favor. (Just don't tell them that you really don't have any sisters!)

And the best part about shopping at the malls during the holidays? The single girls will start conversations with you! When they ask, "Do you think my brother would like this shirt?" and you say "It doesn't matter if he likes the shirt or not. You could give him a dirty sock and since its from a wonderful person like you he would cherish it forever!" They will be charmed out of their minds! If you go to the mall this holiday season , the best presents you are gonna come home with are dates and phone numbers from fabulous women! And they say guys hate to shop!

This great article on how to meet single women was contributed by Ed Laure.