Spiritual Advice: If you follow God’s rule about no sex before marriage you will glorify him and bring about much pleasure in you for obeying him. This is going to be a tough one to follow because men are programmed with raging hormones. The constant exposure about sex in the media, movies, radio, music, etc. doesn’t help either.

 

Art of Setting Goals to Meet, Attract, Single Women

I highly recommend that you set goals to meet, date, attract, and seduce single women. This will help to focus your mind on succeeding with women and get you more dates. Here are a few dating tips to help you achieve your goals:

1. Focus all of your attention, desire and energy in accomplishing your goal at hand. Forget completely about any consequences of failure with single women. Remember that you usually get what you think about most.
2. When you start on your goal, concentrate all of your energy without any distractions on the successful completion of your goal. Make reaching your goal an all-consuming obsession.
3. Develop a self-talk vocabulary to reach your goal of scoring with single women. Make it a habit to repeat again and again to yourself, "I want to - I can" in regards to scoring with all those women you desire.
4. Substitute the word "Try" with the word "Will" in your vocabulary associated with meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing women. This is a form of semantics and creates a new attitude of concentrating on things that you "Will do," instead of things you plan to "Try," with a built-in excuse in advance for possible failure.
5. Substitute the word "Can't" with the word "Can" in your daily vocabulary, too. Always tell yourself you "Can" do things you set your mind to.

In conclusion, set your goals and go for it! Happy Hunting!

 

Spiritual Advice: When you walk around a bar or nightclub in search of women to meet, visualize yourself walking hand in hand with Jesus directing your steps to meet women. He will guide you to the right woman if you will just trust him to do so.

Advice About Going on First Dates with Women

The First Date

At last, you have reached the point in your blossoming relationship where you will be going out on a date. Your first date, a milestone, yet a bottomless pit of uncertainty. It's like being on a roller coaster, with the alternating surges of soaring giddiness and fright, the conflicting emotions of "can't wait" and "not yet". While overjoyed that you will be going out with *her*, there is still the gnawing anxiety that you will somehow "blow it". Not to worry. It will certainly be something of an adventure, something to reminisce and laugh about (Oh, no! Not another learning experience!,) and you would not miss it for the world.

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If possible, get plenty of sleep the night before, or at least take a short nap during the day. Shower and put on fresh clothes. Brush your teeth and shave, as necessary. Cologne and mouth wash are optional. Rely on those comforting little rituals that affirm your identity, and this will launch you on your journey, well rested, relaxed, clean, and feeling reasonably confident.

Be on time. You promised to be there at a certain time. Call ahead if circumstances will keep you from showing up as arranged. The trust between the two of you is still very new and fragile, and arriving late on a first date creates uncertainty and strains that trust.

On the way there, pick or buy a small bouquet of colorful wildflowers. It will not deplete your finances much, and will show how much you cherish her company. Flowers from your hand to hers... her happy little gasp of surprise, the warm flood of her smile, her smile for you alone.

The "classic", or generic date, not to be confused with the unconventional creative / inventive date, consists of entertainment, followed by a meal, then a walk under the stars, and finally the leave taking. The entertainment usually defaults to a movie, though a live performance, a play or a concert, makes for a richer experience. There is no need to spend "big bucks" in an expensive restaurant. A simple meal in an "atmospheric" neighborhood cafe, the scarred wooden table covered by a stained, checkered cloth, with a guttering candle in an old wine bottle between the two of you as you scoop up forkfuls of pungently spiced, chewy spaghetti, occasionally catching shy glimpses of each other's eyes... all this will do just fine. Then the walk home, the time for quiet reflection and expressing feelings by glances and occasional words, this tops off a satisfying evening.

As you walk with her, by her side, matching your step to hers, in cadence, in harmony, she has the opportunity to take your hand... if she is so moved. Holding hands comes naturally, if it comes at all. Do not force unwanted attentions on her! "Making a move on her" is neither required of you, nor desirable.

She will touch you if she has been touched by your presence. If she wants to be touched, she will touch you.

Time for parting. "Goodbye. I enjoyed the evening and the pleasure of your company." You may take her hand, if she is amenable, for a goodbye hand squeeze. If she offers her cheek, you may kiss it, likewise her lips... if she offers.

Respond, rather than initiate. Physical closeness is her gift to you, given if and when the time is right, and a first date is rather soon. "It was a wonderful evening. May I see you again?" It is the end of an evening... and a beginning.

This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.

 

Spiritual Advice: Sometimes we are overcome with anxiety when dating and feel like we need help and relief from these dating issues. Well, your best strategy is to turn to Jesus for refuge and help.

 Are you at lost for words or get tongue-tied with single women when on a first date?

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Here are, in my opinion the "Top 5 Conversation Topics" to discuss on a first date to get your date interested in you:

1. What Kind of Man Are You Attracted To? - This is some very valuable information to learn from her. Once you know what kind of man turns her on, you can try to adopt your personality traits and character traits to fit her needs in a man. If you can't live up to her expectations in a man, then perhaps she's not the girl for you.
2. Women Love to Talk About Their Friends - Just simply ask her about her circle of friends. Talk about how they met, what they like to do when they hang out together, the good times they have had together, places they have been, etc.
3. Ask Her What She Likes to Do In Her Free Time - This is very important information to know to determine if you have any common interests. Truly compatible couples share common interests. If you don't like the same things, this can cause problems in a relationship. It would also be helpful to ask her about her hobbies. Who knows, you may both enjoy the same hobbies and this can create a strong bond between you.
4. Do You Have Any Brothers or Sisters? - Most single women have a brother or sister and this is a safe topic for discussion. Your date will usually be willing and open to talk about their brother or sister. Hopefully, it will be positive feedback about them.
5. Have You Been Anywhere Lately or Been on a Vacation? - People in general like to talk about the places they have been and their travel experiences. Try to get her to talk about the sites and places she would like to visit. This way you can offer to take her there and make her dreams come true. Plus, she may mention some places you've been and you both can share your experiences.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

 

Spiritual Advice: When you least expect it your dream girl can appear out of nowhere. Why? In the blink of an eye one touch of Jesus's favor can turn your love life around for the better.