A Few Words That Cause Failure with Single Women


Don't use the words, I WISH - As an example, do you ever say these things to yourself:

  • "I wish I had a girlfriend"
  • "I wish I had somebody to love"
  • "I wish I could find someone to date"
The words I WISH can be very dangerous to you succeeding with single women because subconsciously you are saying to yourself, "I can't" or "I won't be able to do it" and this can set you up for failure.

Instead say to yourself:
  • "I will have a girlfriend"
  • "I will have somebody to love"
  • "I will find someone to date"
The absolutely worst words you can say to yourself is, "I'll try." When you say this to yourself it's just an excuse for failure. And this will program your subconscious mind to accept that you will fail. Here are examples of things you say to yourself that you must totally eliminate from your thinking:
  • "I'll try to meet more women"
  • "I'll try to take action when I see a woman I'd like to date"
  • "I'll try to overcome my shyness with women"
  • Instead of saying, "I'll try" just say, "I'll do it" or "I can." And never, never tell yourself, "I can't."


 P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Action is What You Need to Pursue Single Women


This week let's talk about procrastination and how it can hold you back from succeeding with single women.

You know in your heart you need to get off your dead ass and start taking some action to meet, attract, and seduce women.

But, you have fallen into a pattern of putting it off until another day. Then another day rolls around and you put it off again. Then it becomes a habit of putting it off and it robs you of your initiative to do something to turn your love life around.

So, what's the cure for procrastination? Why, action of course! You've got to take action to meet and date more women. The women you desire are not just going to drop out of the sky. You've got to pursue them.



And when you start to make some moves on all those sexy honeys you're dying to date, you will feel so much better about yourself. It will build your self-confidence too.

So, to sum it up, get something going in your pursuit of single women. Do whatever it takes and for goodness sake, do something no matter what it is. Guess what happens if you do nothing? You'll be spending lots of lonely nights at home that's what!

Sometimes you've just got to take control of your life and force yourself to do something. Something like getting up your nerve to approach women, for example.

Remember when you took your driving test to get your driver's license and how nervous you were? This is a good example of when you forced yourself to take action to get what you wanted (your driver's license so you could drive). And forcing yourself to approach women is no different. To get what you want, you've got to take action my friend!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Using Persistence to Succeed with Single Women


As a good example of what it takes to succeed with women, let's talk about Mark McGuire who hit over 70 home runs to establish himself in baseball history. He makes it look so easy when he stands at the plate and effortlessly hits the ball out of the park.

The point I'm making here is that what you saw when he broke the records is the result of many years of hard work on his part to develop the skills to accomplish such a feat.



If you could talk to him one-on-one, I'm sure that he would tell you that the secret to his success was persistence.

So, what does all this have to do with you and succeeding with women? Persistence is the key to helping you score with all those hot & sexy single women you're dying to get intimate with.

From the dictionary here's the definition of persistence: 1. to go on resolutely or stubbornly in spite of opposition, importunity, or warning. 2. To remain unchanged or fixed in a specified character, conditions, or position. 3. to be insistent in the repetition or pressing of an utterance (as a question or an opinion). 4. to continue to exist esp. past a usual, expected, or normal time.

Are you practicing persistence in your pursuit of women? Are you doing whatever it takes to get lots of dates for fun and romance despite some temporary setbacks, rejections, and failures? A rewarding lovelife comes to those who persist and never give up.

Persistence is the key to succeeding with women. Now that I have revealed this secret to you, use it and you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A TV Show Helps Men Succeed with Single Women


Have you heard about the new TV show called, "Blind Date?" Look for it in your TV guide.

Be sure and watch this unique show to learn how to succeed with single women, how to act on a date, and how to win at the dating game.



If you haven't watched this show, let me describe what it's all about and how it can help you out. The show is about couples that go out on blind dates and their date is filmed live. The next day the couples are interviewed to see how the date went, if they were interested in dating the person again, what went wrong with the date, etc.

What's really great about this show is that the women tell you in their very own words the mistakes the men make while on the date, things men did to turn them off, things men did to impress them, what they like in a man, etc.

You can learn a lot from this show to apply in your own dating life to make your dates more successful. You learn first hand what women are looking for in a man and what turns them on and what turns them off.

So, be sure and watch this show every day for some great dating tips on how to score with women. And if you can't because you're working, be sure and record it on your VCR and watch it later.

Also, this show will give you some fantastic and unique ideas for what to do on a first date to really capture a woman's heart and make a lasting impression on her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Art of Seduction with Foot Massages


Let me tell you about a couple of the most sexiest and erotic things you can do for a woman to really turn her on, even without having sex with her.

First of all, most women spend a lot of time on their feet. At the end of the day their feet ache. And keep in mind too, that women are much more aware of their feet than men are. Women take care of their feet by keeping them clean, applying lotions to keep them from getting dry and chapped, painting their toenails, etc.

So, what does all this have to do with you succeeding with women? I'm glad that you asked...

First of all, women love to have their feet massaged. They just love it! So, buy you a small bottle of massage oil and carry it around with you. Then offer the single women you meet a foot massage.

Also, what would be a great turn on for her is to offer to paint her toenails. Also, carry around a small bottle of red toenail polish around with you for this purpose.



Please don't get the idea that doing these things are for sissies and wimps. The women are not going to judge you as being not being masculine for doing these things to her. Trust me, doing these things are going to turn her on, relax her, and make her more receptive to your advances.

In closing, try these two techniques to seduce single women. You'll be glad you did because they work like crazy!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

What are Single Women Interested In


Are you aware of the best way to find out what a single woman is interested in? Just take a look around at her library of books and magazines in her house or apartment. Observe what subjects they focus on. This will tell you a lot about what her mind is focused on.

So, how is this going to help you in succeeding with single women? By knowing what she enjoys talking about will give you an edge over other guys. You will know what her hot buttons are that makes her want to share the same subject with you.



And when you are sharing a conversation about a subject she is interested, she will in turn think that you are an interesting person. Also, it will create a bond between you when you discuss something that she is highly interested in.

So, let me give you a hint. When you are first dating or even on your first date, when you are at her place, be sure and look around at her books and magazines. This will be a dead giveaway about the things that she's really into.

Hopefully, her library will be about upbeat subjects and not something off the wall like devil worship, etc. Also, once you find out what subjects she is interested in, you will know what to give her as a gift in the form of a book or magazine. She will really admire you for getting her something that she really loves.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Eat Italian Food on a Date


This week I want to focus on table manners while eating Italian food. Believe me, if you're out on a dinner date and you have bad table manners, you're going to make a bad impression on your date.

I know this is not fair, but sometimes when you're out on a first date, especially, and you turn your date off with your bad table manners, she may not even want to date you again. You have been pre-judged as a person that was not raised right, eats like a pig, and a person that shows lack of respect for your date.

I eat a lot of Italian food and I always look around at the guys that are with dates. And sure enough, you will see guys stuffing a fork full of pasta into their mouths and biting off the strands with their teeth and letting the remainder of the pasta fall into their plate.



This makes you look like a pig and turns off your date! Let me tell you the proper way to eat pasta so you don't embarrass yourself and your date. It's called the "Twirling Method" and here's how to do it:

1. Just grab a few strands of your pasta with your fork and twirl the strands using the end of your fork against your plate. This way you will end up with a bite size portion to put into your mouth.

2. This is a variation of the above method using a spoon: Instead of twisting the pasta around your fork against your plate, you put pasta in your spoon you are holding in your left hand, and twirl your fork around the pasta in the spoon and take a bite size portion.

So, the next time you are eating pasta with a date, please remember to use the "Twirling Method" to eat pasta. Also, never wear a white shirt when eating pasta, because it never fails that you will get the sauces on your shirt.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com