A Few Tips on Prolonging Relationships

It has always amazed me how so many potential relationships just fizzle out. They start out great, but once the initial romance and infatuation phase wears off then you begin to lose interest in each other. Why?

Well, sometimes it's because one or both parties don't put forth the effort to keep the relationship alive. It takes a lot of work to find and start a relationship, but it also takes a lot of work to sustain one.

The point I'm trying to make is that you shouldn't give up on a relationship after the glamour has worn off. Don't wrongly assume that you have no future with her because the relationship is not as exciting as it was in the beginning.

You must do your part to nurture the relationship and keep the fires burning. Don't take her for granted just because you've been dating a few weeks. You must make a continuous effort to romance her and keep her attracted to you. Show and tell how much you care for her.

In closing, I would like to give you some more advice. Give a relationship time to develop.

I have made a lot of mistakes in the past by dumping women after just a few dates. I didn't take the time to get to know them and find out what they were like on the inside where it counts. At the time my brain was between my legs and all I was interested in was using single women just for sex, then move on to my next conquest (victim). This I'm not proud of to admit. I'm much older now and much wiser and interested in what women are like on the inside.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Duplicating Other Men's Techniques to Succeed with Women

This week I want to focus on a method of succeeding with single women that is virtually guaranteed to work. I call it the "role model" method of succeeding with women. Here's how it works:

Do you have a male companion that's very popular with women and is always meeting, attracting, and scoring with the opposite sex? If you do, then that's great! You can use him as your role model. Pick his brains and find out what he is doing that makes him so successful with women. Then when you find out what he is doing, you do the same thing he is doing.

By doing what he is doing, you can enjoy the same success he is having. Also, go on girl-hunting expeditions with him and watch him in action. Observe what he says, how he acts, his body language, how girls react to him, etc. Learn by observation what he is doing and you can duplicate his success.

If you don't have a male friend that is successful with women that you can use as a role model, then observe men at the places you go to meet single women that are obviously doing pretty well with the ladies. Pull him off to the side and ask him if he will share his secrets with you on how he successfully meets, attracts, and dates women. Then, just duplicate what he is doing.

After you have success with women by duplicating what your role model does, be sure and observe what is working for you. Stay with what is working for you. Success will breed more success and you will build a lot of confidence.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips for Succeeding with Single Women

This week I would like to focus on putting in the time and effort to succeed with single women.

There are a number of reasons why you may fail at trying to find a woman to have a meaningful relationship with. Probably the biggest reason is giving up prematurely.

Here's the perspective I like to use as an example when looking for a special lady to become intimate with. Let's use this comparison:

Single women that you want and desire are like gold and diamonds. And you may wrongly think that all you have to do is stumble into a gold or diamond mine to find them. It doesn't work this way, my friend. You have to invest a lot of time, effort, money and equipment to mine those gold and diamonds.

And so it is with finding women. You have to invest a lot of time and effort to find them. You must put forth consistent and persistent effort until you succeeds. When you encounter obstacles, you find a way to go through, around or over the obstacles. You will not be stopped in your efforts to get the women you desire.

Always give it your best effort in your pursuit of women. Out there is some hot and sexy single woman who wants and needs you and through continued effort you will connect with her.

In closing remember these quotes:

"Quitters never win and winners never quit."

"When things begin to look bad, a change for the better is just over the horizon."

"When the going gets tough, the tough get going."

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Get More Love and Romance

This week I want to focus on your own personal methods of meeting and attracting single women for love and romance.

I know it's a jungle out there in the dating world and at times you just feel like giving up on the dating game. Sometimes your fear of failure holds you back and you don't do a damn thing to improve your love life.

If you're in a dating rut, let me suggest some ways to get you back on track and get the love and romance in your life that you deserve:

1. The most important thing you can do is to force yourself to take action and follow through on meeting and approaching women.

2. It's very important to monitor your results and progress. Keep track of what methods you are using to meet new women and notice if they are working or not. I would suggest keeping a journal and put it in writing.

3. Whatever you do, don't feel sorry for yourself if what you're doing is not working. Don't give up hope and drop out of the dating game.

4. My last suggestion is the most important of all. If what you're doing to meet single women and find romance is not working, try something else. And if that doesn't work, Don, what do I do? Try something else! You just keep trying until you finally succeed. And trust me guys, if you're persistent and take action, backed with faith and belief, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams. Guaranteed!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Places to Meet Single Women

This week I would like to pass along some tips on meeting single women from some of our subscribers from the Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter:

First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single (<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet single women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning Spas - Women are their biggest clienteles, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

The Local Theater or Youth Theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to.

The Youth Theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

I'm DJ and I discovered that the best place to meet single women is the big bookstores with coffee shops. Like Barnes and Nobles or Books-a-Million. You can casually look around and pick out good-looking women. about 80% of the time, women go to bookstores alone! Their minds are open to creative things. Women respond very well to strangers coming up to them and starting casual conversation. Anything from, are you interested in that subject too, to, I think your really cute, want to go out for coffee some time? I'm running a 90% success rate at getting numbers from women at bookstores. That is a lot better than the grocery store, the club, or a shopping mall. Which I average about 60%

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great System for Meeting Single Women

This week I would like to share my secrets on taking action to approach single women that you are interested in meeting and getting to know on an intimate basis.

I'm sure this has probably happened to you. You see a gorgeous woman that you'd give anything to meet and get to know. All you've got to do is approach her and introduce yourself. But, something holds you back. You procrastinate and put it off. Then, before you know it, she disappears and you've lost your opportunity to meet her because you didn't act fast enough.

There's a good solution to this problem of not taking action if you will do what I did to overcome procrastination when it came to approaching single women immediately that I was attracted to. Follow these steps and you will be much more successful with women:

The secret to getting things done is taking action. And you need to take action immediately when you see an opportunity to meet women that you are attracted to. You must not stall, ponder, and worry about if she will accept your advances. You've got to approach her then and there or you may have lost a golden opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true.

And to motivate yourself to take action you need to ingrain in your subconscious mind these three words, DO IT NOW! You need to program your subconscious mind to react to these words that you repeat to yourself which will direct your conscious mind to take action to meet women.

Repeat in your mind, DO IT NOW! And then follow up by approaching women immediately! With practice, you will develop the habit of approaching women right on the spot without hesitation. But, I must warn you that you've got to back up these words when you say, DO IT NOW! You've got to do it! If you don't, these words will be meaningless.

Trust me guys, this system works. Memorize these words, DO IT NOW! They can do wonders for your love life. Once you train you mind to approach women immediately after saying to yourself, DO IT NOW!, meeting single women will be so much easier.

It will become automatic. No more mulling over and over in your mind if you should approach that hot & sexy beautiful woman that you are attracted to. You just take action and do it after you say to yourself, DO IT NOW!

In closing, I would highly recommend that you write in big bold letters on the back of a business card, DO IT NOW! Put these cards where you will see them daily. Put one on your desk, tape one to your bathroom mirror, put one on your nightstand, tape one to your car visor or middle of your steering wheel, etc.

By seeing these three words constantly you can connect them in your mind to taking immediate action to approach and meet single women. Also, I recommend that when you see these three words that you visualize yourself approaching and meeting women.

Ok, the rest if up to you. I've given you a great system to get you up off your ass to take action to approach and meet single women. Try this system and I'd love to hear about your success stories after using the DO IT NOW! System.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com