Ambition Can Spoil Romance and Your Dating Life

Are you a workaholic and obsessed with your career and getting ahead in life at all costs? Do you live, eat, and breathe to just spend all of your time working?

There's nothing wrong with being ambitious and trying to be successful in life. You need to be aware that you can carry this to extremes to the point that it will have a negative effect on your dating life. Here are just a few reasons why being a workaholic and career-obsessed man can play havoc on your dating and love life:

• Working long hours in a high-stress environment is going to rob your energy for dating. When you go on a date you may be mentally fatigued and physically exhausted. You can't make a good impression on your date if you're acting like a zombie.
• Being obsessed with your career can affect other areas of your life. Because you're overly focussed on work, it can interfere with your ability to enjoy life. So, when you're on a date you may have trouble having fun and enjoying your date because all you can think about is work.
• As you know, a relationship requires a lot of commitment and attention to keep it alive. If you are constantly preoccupied with work matters, you will tend to neglect your relationship. And when your partner is not getting any attention, the relationship can die.
• If all you do is spend all your time at the office, relationships can suffer. When you are not able to spend much time with your partner, she will get tired of this arrangement. You need to spend quality time together to make a relationship grow. Spending less time together runs the risk of you growing apart instead of building a strong, loving relationship together.

In closing, I want you to be happy and successful in life. I just wanted you to be aware that being a workaholic career-obsessed man can have negative consequences on your love life.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on How to Talk to Women

The following info was contributed by one of my Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter readers, Rick Rozek www.diskjockey.com/indexk.html

Don,

Some time ago in business I learned a technique that works great for business as well as personal communication. It has come in great for conversations with women and you may have heard of it. It's called.... F.O.R.M.

FAMILY: If you're shy, or for whatever reason, talk about her family, how many brothers and sisters, questions about parents, did she have a favorite pet? A conversation about one family member may lead to another topic, thus the conversation continues and it gives her a chance to talk about the people close in her life.

OCCUPATION: The "what do you do for work" is a standard question, but when you ask how she came involved to do the work she is in, or what led her to do it, is always good. She can talk about some of the people at work, what they do, how they integrate in her life, etc. Does she get along with them? Are their things which she likes or hates about her work? That may give one a clue as to the demeanor that awaits inside and how she reacts to things.

RECREATION: What does she do in her spare time? What would she like to do that she hasn't tried yet? Perhaps that might lead to an interesting first phone call or first date. Maybe she knows something the gentleman doesn't that she enjoys for recreation and she would be willing to show him.

MISCELLANEOUS: When all else fails, like you said, the article in the paper, did astronauts really walk on the moon, favorite flavor of ice cream, etc. I usually find one thing always leads to another and if you are able to impress her with amusing anecdotes without sounding like Cliff Clavin from Cheers, she will usually be impressed with your knowledge of events and happenings.

The FORM technique has worked for me for several years and I employ it all the time when I meet someone new. You may wish to share it with your readers and I hope you found it insightful in a positive way.

Keep up the good work.

11 Signs that Your Relationship is in Trouble

Unfortunately, it's a fact of life that at some point relationships with single women can go bad. And when they go bad they leave clues. You need to be aware of the signs she will give when she is has lost interest in you to the point that she may want to break up with you.

It's better to be able to recognize the signs in advance rather to be in total shock when she dumps you suddenly without notice.

I've come up with a "Top Eleven" list of symptoms that your relationship is in trouble:

1. She openly talks about previous relationships and how great one of her ex-boyfriends was.
2. You are spending less time together and she turns down dates more often.
3. She is not as affectionate towards you and has lost interest in sex with you.
4. She is verbally abusive towards you and treats you like a dog.
5. She is constantly picking fights with you over silly, petty matters.
6. She tells you that she needs to spend time alone without you. In other words, she needs her space.
7. She's very quiet and doesn't talk to you like she did in the past.
8. She doesn't share her feelings about things anymore.
9. You use to talk on the phone for what seemed like hours. Now, she doesn't talk for very long and always seems in a hurry to get off the phone.
10. She tells you that she would like to start dating other guys and doesn't want to be tied down.
11. She rarely picks up the phone when you call anymore. She is deliberately screening her calls, so she doesn't have to talk to you.

In closing, if you recognize some of these symptoms, take steps to rescue your relationship and make it better. Of course, sometimes it's a losing cause and you just have to cut your losses and move on.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Don't Smoother Single Women with Love too Soon

This week I want to talk about falling in love with single women too fast and too soon.

Because of our raging hormones and thinking as if our brain is between our legs, men tend to fall in love (or lust) at first site. Even after a first date that went really well you may think that you are in love. I can assure you that it is really not love. It's just infatuation. Love takes time to develop. It just doesn't happen overnight.

And what's frustrating about your tendency of falling in love too fast is that women usually don't react the same way. They are a lot more cautious and like to take their time and get to know someone before they develop strong feelings toward a guy.

So, let me give you some valuable advice. Whatever you do, don't tell a woman you love them on your first or second date. This will only scare her away. Trust me on this one!

Another tip is to not talk about seeing her all the time until you feel that she feels the same way mutually. Take things slow! Don't be a clinger and smoother her either. Don't make her feel like your whole world revolves around her. Play a little hard to get and make yourself a challenge for her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Answers to Why Your Dating Life Sucks

Sometimes your dating life will get tough and you will find yourself constantly failing to succeed with single women. It seems like everything that you do turns to crap.

When this happens, you need to look inward and do a self-analysis of what's going on in your life and why you keep striking out with single women. You need to ask yourself some hard questions as to why your personality and behavior is turning women off. After all you are accountable as to what is happening or not happening in your love or sex life.

Don't fall into the trap of denying or placing blame on others as to why your dating life is in the doldrums. Don't keep saying to yourself, "This shouldn't be happening to me. I'm such a great guy and women should be falling all over me."

Accept the fact that it is happening and map out a strategy to correct it. Deal with it!

Chances are, it's your negative behavior that is turning women off. You're doing something to scare them away. I'm sure if you will do a self-analysis and take a long hard look at yourself, you will discover these negative personality and behavior traits that are turning women off. Once you discover what these are, you can take steps to eliminate them from your life. Replace them with positive traits that attract single women and you will be succeeding with women beyond your wildest dreams.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Method to Meet Single Using a Friend

Are you a bit shy when it comes to approaching single women? Don't feel lonesome, this is a very common problem among lots of men.

I want to tell you about a method of approaching single women that will eliminate the pressure of approaching women that you are attracted to and would like to meet.

Before I reveal this method, keep this very important fact in mind. Single women want to meet you just as much as you want to meet them. And the best way to meet them is to do it in a way that doesn't appear to them that you are trying to pick them up.

Here's a good way to accomplish this:

You will need a friend to help you do this. Wherever you happen to be and you see a woman you would like to meet, have your friend walk over to her and say, "I have a friend who thinks you are very pretty and would like to meet you. May I introduce him to you?"

Most likely she won't object to meeting you and your friend will simply escort her over to you to introduce you. Then you turn on your charm and take it from there.

In closing, try this system of using a friend to help you meet women. It works!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Guide to Kissing on First Dates

I want to talk about women who dodge kisses, especially on a first date.

Let me give you an example of what I mean about women dodging kisses:

You're on your first date and at some point during the date or at the end of the date you make an attempt to kiss her on the lips. However, she turns her head away and your attempt fails. At this point, don't keep trying, because you will only make her feel uncomfortable and angry with you.

So, why is she rejecting your attempt to kiss her?

- It can be as simple as her rule to not kiss on the first date. Respect her rule if this is the case.

- She may not want to kiss you because she is not attracted to you yet.

- She may think you are moving too fast for her for kissing so soon.

- She may want to get to know you better before she will allow you to kiss her.

To sum it up, if she turns her head when you try to kiss her, don't force the issue, especially on a first date. Just try and kiss her again on your next date.

Be patient guys, once you develop some chemistry, there will be lots of kissing and intimacy. Nature will take its course.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com