Advice on Answering Questions on How Many Sex Partners You Had

Sometimes when you are on a date this question will come up: "How many women have you been with?" In other words, she wants to know how many women you have slept with.

Personally, I think this kind of question is too personal and none of her business. However, some single women have a hidden motive when asking this question. She wants to know if you are a player and sleep around a lot. If you are honest with her and tell her you have slept with over 30 women, she may feel that she will just be another notch on your bedpost and think that you just use women for sex. You certainly don't want her to have this impression because it may turn her off.

So, what is the best answer to her question? Whatever you do, don't tell her how many women you have been with and any details on your sex life with other women. She wants to feel special and if you tell her about the history of your sex life with other women, she may just feel like you are going to use her for sexual favors.

Here's what your answer should be: "Well, I don't keep score and I'm done with sowing my wild oats. I'm tired of running around and I now want to be with someone special like you." This statement will give her the impression that your sexual relationships in the past are over and done with and you are looking for someone special in your life.

If she still insists on the number of women you have been with, don't give in and tell her. Keep her guessing.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attracting Single Women with Roommates

This week let's talk about the very important subject of dating single women with a roommate.

I don't really think it's fair, but there's a rule about dating women with a roommate, especially during your first few dates. This rule is that you must also make a good impression on her roommate.

Her roommate, especially if they are close friends, can have a major influence in their life, which includes dating issues. I'll guarantee you that your date will ask her roommate's opinion on what she thinks about you. And it's very important that her opinion of you be positive. If it's negative, it could influence her decision as to whether to continue dating you. This is totally unfair! You are dating her, not her roommate, but this is just the way things can work against you.

So, It's very important to be very friendly towards her roommate, smile and make good eye contact, give her compliments (not too many because it might make your date jealous), and whatever you do, don't ignore her.

Let me warn you that you must never, never come on to her roommate. This shows total lack of respect for your date. Hold your hormones in check no matter how attracted to her roommate you are. Just be friendly towards her and don't flirt.

There's another factor to consider when dealing with roommates, which isn't fair. Her roommate may be jealous of you and say bad things about you that are simply not the truth. I certainly hope this never happens to you. I don't like someone telling lies about me behind my back, especially if it's going to interfere with me dating someone that I'm attracted to.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid Talking About These Topics on First Dates

This week let's focus on first dates. There are some things that you must never, never talk about on a first date. If you do, you're taking a major risk of turning off your date and spoiling your chances of ever getting a second date.

Don't talk about the following topics on your first date:

1. Do you have any mental, financial, legal, or divorce problems? If you do, keep it to yourself. Don't share these personal problems with your date.

2. Don't talk about your bad luck with dating women. A real turn off would be to make a statement such as, "All the women I date turn out to be bitches."

3. Don't discuss any previous relationships and express bitterness towards relationships that didn't work out.

4. Don't jump the gun and start talking about future dates together. The only purpose of the first date is to get to know each other and not to plan a future together. If you start talking about doing things together so soon, she's going to feel pressured and perhaps intimidated.

Don't ever assume that just because she agreed to go on a first date with you that it will lead to a quick relationship. Take things slow and don't rush her into a relationship. Establish a strong friendship first and romance will follow.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Ambition Can Spoil Romance and Your Dating Life

Are you a workaholic and obsessed with your career and getting ahead in life at all costs? Do you live, eat, and breathe to just spend all of your time working?

There's nothing wrong with being ambitious and trying to be successful in life. You need to be aware that you can carry this to extremes to the point that it will have a negative effect on your dating life. Here are just a few reasons why being a workaholic and career-obsessed man can play havoc on your dating and love life:

• Working long hours in a high-stress environment is going to rob your energy for dating. When you go on a date you may be mentally fatigued and physically exhausted. You can't make a good impression on your date if you're acting like a zombie.
• Being obsessed with your career can affect other areas of your life. Because you're overly focussed on work, it can interfere with your ability to enjoy life. So, when you're on a date you may have trouble having fun and enjoying your date because all you can think about is work.
• As you know, a relationship requires a lot of commitment and attention to keep it alive. If you are constantly preoccupied with work matters, you will tend to neglect your relationship. And when your partner is not getting any attention, the relationship can die.
• If all you do is spend all your time at the office, relationships can suffer. When you are not able to spend much time with your partner, she will get tired of this arrangement. You need to spend quality time together to make a relationship grow. Spending less time together runs the risk of you growing apart instead of building a strong, loving relationship together.

In closing, I want you to be happy and successful in life. I just wanted you to be aware that being a workaholic career-obsessed man can have negative consequences on your love life.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on How to Talk to Women

The following info was contributed by one of my Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter readers, Rick Rozek www.diskjockey.com/indexk.html

Don,

Some time ago in business I learned a technique that works great for business as well as personal communication. It has come in great for conversations with women and you may have heard of it. It's called.... F.O.R.M.

FAMILY: If you're shy, or for whatever reason, talk about her family, how many brothers and sisters, questions about parents, did she have a favorite pet? A conversation about one family member may lead to another topic, thus the conversation continues and it gives her a chance to talk about the people close in her life.

OCCUPATION: The "what do you do for work" is a standard question, but when you ask how she came involved to do the work she is in, or what led her to do it, is always good. She can talk about some of the people at work, what they do, how they integrate in her life, etc. Does she get along with them? Are their things which she likes or hates about her work? That may give one a clue as to the demeanor that awaits inside and how she reacts to things.

RECREATION: What does she do in her spare time? What would she like to do that she hasn't tried yet? Perhaps that might lead to an interesting first phone call or first date. Maybe she knows something the gentleman doesn't that she enjoys for recreation and she would be willing to show him.

MISCELLANEOUS: When all else fails, like you said, the article in the paper, did astronauts really walk on the moon, favorite flavor of ice cream, etc. I usually find one thing always leads to another and if you are able to impress her with amusing anecdotes without sounding like Cliff Clavin from Cheers, she will usually be impressed with your knowledge of events and happenings.

The FORM technique has worked for me for several years and I employ it all the time when I meet someone new. You may wish to share it with your readers and I hope you found it insightful in a positive way.

Keep up the good work.

11 Signs that Your Relationship is in Trouble

Unfortunately, it's a fact of life that at some point relationships with single women can go bad. And when they go bad they leave clues. You need to be aware of the signs she will give when she is has lost interest in you to the point that she may want to break up with you.

It's better to be able to recognize the signs in advance rather to be in total shock when she dumps you suddenly without notice.

I've come up with a "Top Eleven" list of symptoms that your relationship is in trouble:

1. She openly talks about previous relationships and how great one of her ex-boyfriends was.
2. You are spending less time together and she turns down dates more often.
3. She is not as affectionate towards you and has lost interest in sex with you.
4. She is verbally abusive towards you and treats you like a dog.
5. She is constantly picking fights with you over silly, petty matters.
6. She tells you that she needs to spend time alone without you. In other words, she needs her space.
7. She's very quiet and doesn't talk to you like she did in the past.
8. She doesn't share her feelings about things anymore.
9. You use to talk on the phone for what seemed like hours. Now, she doesn't talk for very long and always seems in a hurry to get off the phone.
10. She tells you that she would like to start dating other guys and doesn't want to be tied down.
11. She rarely picks up the phone when you call anymore. She is deliberately screening her calls, so she doesn't have to talk to you.

In closing, if you recognize some of these symptoms, take steps to rescue your relationship and make it better. Of course, sometimes it's a losing cause and you just have to cut your losses and move on.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Don't Smoother Single Women with Love too Soon

This week I want to talk about falling in love with single women too fast and too soon.

Because of our raging hormones and thinking as if our brain is between our legs, men tend to fall in love (or lust) at first site. Even after a first date that went really well you may think that you are in love. I can assure you that it is really not love. It's just infatuation. Love takes time to develop. It just doesn't happen overnight.

And what's frustrating about your tendency of falling in love too fast is that women usually don't react the same way. They are a lot more cautious and like to take their time and get to know someone before they develop strong feelings toward a guy.

So, let me give you some valuable advice. Whatever you do, don't tell a woman you love them on your first or second date. This will only scare her away. Trust me on this one!

Another tip is to not talk about seeing her all the time until you feel that she feels the same way mutually. Take things slow! Don't be a clinger and smoother her either. Don't make her feel like your whole world revolves around her. Play a little hard to get and make yourself a challenge for her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com