A Few Great Ways to Ask Single Women for a Date

This week I want to focus on some unique ways to ask single women for a date. Try these methods to get a date. They work much better than using the direct approach of just saying, "Would you like to get together sometime?"

Here are some scripts I used successfully to get dates:

Let's say that you just met a single woman and you would like to ask her out to lunch, dinner, attend a function, or go to the beach. Ask her out this way:

• "Next week I'm having lunch at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day can you meet me there for lunch - Monday or Wednesday?"
• "Next week I would like to take you out for dinner at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day would you like me to come by and pick you up - Tuesday or Thursday?"
• "Next week I'm buying a couple of tickets to the (symphony, circus, Broadway play, opera, etc.). Which day would you like to go - Friday, Saturday, or Sunday?"
• "I'm driving down to the beach this weekend to take a walk in the sand. Which day would you like to take a walk with me along the beach - Saturday or Sunday?"

I think you are getting the point now. You are giving her options and putting her on the spot with the above scripts. These scripts work much better than asking her with a question that she can respond with a rejection. Example: "Would you like to get together sometime? Or, "Would you like to go out for dinner?" She can simply respond with, "No."

Guys, use these strategies for asking for a date. You will get a lot more dates instead of turndowns.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Happiness When Pursuing Single Women

This week I want to focus on falling into what I call the, "I'll be happy trap."

Let me explain: You're lonely and in a dating rut. You keep telling yourself over and over, "I'll be so happy when I find a new girlfriend." In the mean time, you're so depressed waiting for this girl to come into your life and change your life for the better.

Well, finally this dream girl comes into your life. Initially, things go pretty well and you experience happiness in this relationship (this is quite common when you first start dating and you're hitting it off).

So, you're dating for awhile and you still feel like something is missing in your life. You're not feeling happy, as you would like. You thought by having someone special come into your life would make you feel like a new person and happy. You might even be tempted to look for another woman who can make you happier.

So, what's wrong with this picture? The reason is so simple. You just can't look for things outside of ourselves to make us happy. Happiness is an inside-out experience. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Don't depend on someone or any material things to bring you happiness. If you adopt this belief and attitude, you will be on a never-ending treadmill for the rest of your life.

Let me end this article with this thought for you to remember: Life is a journey, not a destination. Go after all those single women you desire, but enjoy the trip. Don't get caught up in the trip of waiting for someone to make you happy.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on Recognizing a Bitch

This week I want to talk about what I call the, "Once a bitch, always a bitch syndrome." Let me explain:

When you're dating a woman, her negative behaviors leaves clues to what her personality is going to be long-term. Let's say for instance, you've dated a girl a few times and she always acts like a bitch. She's mean and hateful towards you and treats you like a dog.

This behavior is very consistent right from the first date. You keep wondering when she's going to change. Well, guess what? She's not going to change. It's a pure case of "Once a bitch, always a bitch."

Guys, if you find yourself in this situation, get out of it! Let her go. It's not worth it to be miserable all the time in a relationship.

Let me tell you about my experiences: I've fallen for single women who were bitches from hell. The women were so beautiful and had such nice bodies I thought I could overlook their negative behavior and bitchy ways.

After awhile I just couldn't take it anymore no matter how hot and sexy they looked. I got tired of being treated like crap and fussing and arguing all the time.

So, guys take my advice and don't get involved with bitches. I learned the hard way and kept staying in abusive relationships, hoping they would change. They never did change and they were hardcore cases of "Once a bitch, always a bitch."

Of course, the roles can be reversed too. Some guys are real assholes and they will always be assholes. They make women miserable. Hopefully, you will never become an asshole or jerk. You will do a lot better with single women by treating them with respect and treating them like a queen.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on Kissing Women at the End of Date

This week I want to talk about end-of-the-date body language. I want to give you some very important tips on observing how a woman acts at the end of your first date.

First of all, let's discuss what happens at the end of a first date. At the end of your fist date is a very awkward time for the both of you. You are nervous about whether you should try to kiss her. She is nervous about what to do if you try to kiss her (especially if she is not attracted to you and doesn't care to date you again).

Anyway, you are walking her to her door. It's time to say goodbye. She may offer a handshake to thank you for the date, she may offer to hug you, and hopefully may move her head towards you to kiss you.

Before I go any further, please keep in mind that some women have a hard and fast rule that they don't kiss on the first date no matter how much she is attracted to you. If she turns away if you try to kiss her, don't hold it against her. She just may not kiss on the first date or she doesn't feel any chemistry towards you to allow you to kiss her.

Let me get back on track to the main point I want you to observe: If you end up hugging at the end of the date, observe her reactions during the hug. If she pats you on the back during the hug, this is what I call, "The Kiss of Death." Why? Because when she pats you on the back it means that she's sorry, but she's not attracted to you romantically and could only just be friends.

However, on the other hand if she clings to you while giving you a hug with no patting you on the back, this is a good sign that she enjoyed the date and is attracted to you.

So, on all of your first dates be sure to observe and analyze those end-of-the-date hugs.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Tips for Men on How to Talk to Women

This week I want to offer the following tips on how to talk to women:

Discover the Big Events in Her Life

One sure-fire way to keep a conversation rolling is to discover the big events in her life - the things that are meaningful to her, and which she is anxious to talk about. I call such areas of interest "hot buttons."

A hot button is a subject that really interests you and her and that you can talk about for an extended period of time. A hot button can be a lifelong interest, a passing fancy, or a current fascination - whatever turns you on!" Hot buttons can be work, a new job, a hobby, a career goal, an upcoming trip, a sporting activity, new movies playing at the theatre, music, going to concerts, whatever.

Finding Her Hot Buttons

In conversations with new women you meet, try to find their hot buttons as soon as you can.

These strong interests are extremely fertile areas for sustained conversations, particularly if you discover that you share some strong interests.

To find her hot buttons, fish around subject areas with ritual questions. When you receive an unusually enthusiastic response, chances are you've hit on a particular interest. Pursue the subject by showing some interest in it.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Self Talk Affirmations to Help You Succeed with Single Women

This week I want to focus on how important it is to say the right things in your mind to succeed with single women. It makes a big difference in what thoughts to feed your mind to improve your love life.

For instance, losers with women make up excuses in their minds by telling themselves, "I can't because " To be a success with women you need to reverse this thinking and say in your mind, "I can or "I want to."

So, to sum it up, you need to create a new vocabulary to feed your mind positive affirmations. Here are a few examples:

1. Don't say, "I will try to meet some new women." Instead say, "I will meet some new women."

2. Don't say, "I will try to approach women that I'm attracted to." Instead say, "I will approach women that I'm attracted to."

3. Don't say, "I can't meet any women." Instead say, "I can meet any woman I desire."

In closing, don't focus on your past failures with women. The future is now and focus all your energy and attention on succeeding with women now. Never give up until you have reached your objectives in dating.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Man's Guide to Table Manners When on a Date

This week I want to talk about table manners. You may not think table manners are important on a date, but I can assure you that good table manners are very important to your date.

When you're on a dinner date at a restaurant, women will take notice of your table manners or lack of proper dining etiquette.

I'm not going to lecture you this week on every single aspect of good table manners. I'm just going to focus on what to do with your napkin. Follow these rules on what to do with your napkin to make a good impression on your date:

1. Here's what to do with your napkin if you have to get up and leave your table during your meal: Place your napkin to the left of your plate or leave it on the bottom of your chair (make sure the soled areas are face down).

2. Most men wipe or scrub their mouths with their napkin while eating. This is not the proper way to do it. You should dab the napkin on your lips or corner of your mouth.

3. After both of your plates have been cleared from your table, lay your napkin in the center of the table for your waiter or waitress to pick up.

4. Whatever you do, never tuck your napkin into your collar or between the buttons on your shirt. This will really make you look like a fool.

5. Here's the absolute worse thing you can do with your napkin. That's blowing your nose into your napkin. This will really turn your date off and she may not want a second date with you because of this disgusting gesture.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com