A Word of Advice on Procastination and Dating

Has this ever happened to you? You're at a bar or nightclub and you see this lovely lady across the way that you're attracted to and dying to meet.

You keep watching her for a long time, waiting for the right time and opportunity to approach her and meet her. You keep pondering and stalling. This can go on even after an hour of trying to get up your nerve to approach her. So, you keep procrastinating.

Well, guess what happens when you hesitate? I'm sure you've heard of the expression, "You snooze, you lose!" What will happen is before you know it she will get up and leave or even worse, some other guy makes a move on her and beats you to the punch.

You must never, never wait for the perfect opportunity to meet single women you are attracted to and want to meet. You must approach her right then and there without hesitation. Just do it! Do it now! The more time you take to ponder your decision as to when you should make your move, the more time you will have to talk yourself out of it.

If you become a procrastinator when it comes to meeting and approaching women, you will see one opportunity after another lost to meet all those hot & sexy women you desire.

One of the biggest reasons I was always successful with women was because of my "take action attitude." When I saw a woman I'd like to meet I never hesitated. I never gave myself time to think about whether I should approach her or not. I just took action and did it. I had a "do it now" mentality.

With practice, you too can develop this mentality. When you do, everything will come naturally. You will approach women immediately without hesitation. With this "can do" mentality you will come across as confident in the eyes of women that you approach. You know what you want and go after it. Trust me guys, women just love confident men. Always remember this fact and conduct yourself accordingly, to take advantage of this girl-getting personality trait.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Use Casio Wrist Camera Watches to Meet Women

I'm a firm believer in using what I call "props" for meeting women. These are unique items to use for breaking the ice and to get a conversation going. I've discovered a new item to use for this purpose. Here is a description:

CASIO WRIST CAMERA WATCH - This is a wristwatch that looks like an ordinary watch, except you can tell time with it and it's also a digital camera.

You can take up to 100 digital photos with it and view the photos on the watch. Later you just transfer the photos to your computer and you can print them out.

This watch is great for meeting women. Just simply approach a woman you are attracted to and say, "Have you seen these new camera watches?" Most likely she will say no. Then say, "Here, let me take a few pictures and show you how it works." Take a few pictures and show them back to her on the watch screen.

I guarantee you that she will be fascinated with this unique watch. The next step is to close the deal by saying, "I'd like to print those photos I took of you and give you a copy. How can I get in touch with you when they are ready?" Hopefully she will then give you her phone number. Call her when you have printed them out, offer to stop by and deliver them. This will give you an excuse to get your foot in the door, so to speak and then you can turn on your charm and try to make some moves on her.

Another good use for this watch is to take candid photos of all those hot and sexy honies at the beach. Even better would be a topless beach. Also, when you go to topless clubs you could take some candid photos of your favorite strippers. WARNING TAKING CANDID PHOTOS CAN BE ILLEGAL IN SOME STATES.

The Casio Wrist Camera Watch costs around $199. You can find out more about this watch at www.casio.com -Being that Christmas is just around the corner, you could mention to people that ask you what you want for Christmas, that you'd like to have this watch. Just a thought.

In closing, I have no connection with Casio and make no profits from the sales of these watches. I'm just passing along to you this great way to meet women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on Coping with Women Who Reject You

I know this has happened to a lot of you guys and I want to give you some advice on how to deal with it.

You met this real hot and sexy woman at a nightclub, bar, party, etc. and you got her telephone number. She seemed real interested in you and you can't wait to call her the next day.

So, you call the next day and all you get is her answering machine. You leave a message for her to call you back. You wait a couple of days and she never called back. You start thinking that she's trying to avoid you. I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she didn't get your message, erased your message by mistake, she's just been too busy, a family emergency came up, she's sick and doesn't feel like talking to you, etc.

So, what I recommend doing is to call her again. If she answers, be sure and listen to the tone of her voice. If she sounds like she's not happy to hear from you, it could be clue that she's not interested in you. If you get her answering machine again, leave a message for her to call you again. If she still doesn't return your call, give up on her and move on. Take the hint she's trying to give you that she's not interested in seeing you.

Don't take it personally. We all get rejected. It's part of the dating game. You don't want to be with someone who is not interested in you anyway.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to End a Relationship

I hope you had a good Memorial Day weekend and met some new women.

This week I want to talk about dumping your girlfriend. Unfortunately a lot of relationships just don't work out. And if you find yourself in a relationship that is going nowhere, it is best to end it as quickly as possible. If you are convinced that you have lost all your feelings for her, whatever you do, don't lead her own and stay in the relationship just to have someone to be with or for sex.

So, how do you go about telling her that you don't want to see her anymore? I know it's a difficult thing to do, but you must do it in a kind way with diplomacy. Don't just tell her that you are not attracted to her anymore or things related to her appearance such as her putting on extra weight, which is turning you off. This will only offend her and make her hate you. Don't say anything unkind or negative about her. Let her down easy.

Just simply tell her that it's nothing personal against her, but the relationship is just not working out and it's best that both of you end it now and get on with your lives. If she keeps asking you why you want to break up, just suggest that she's a lovely woman, but you feel that you are not compatible and don't have a future for a long-term commitment.

As the old saying goes, "Breaking up is hard to do." It's so true, but look at it this way: It's better to have lost at love than to have never loved at all.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attracting Women by Acting Like a West Point Cadet

This week I want to talk about posture to help you attract women:

I can remember when I was growing up, my mom would always tell me to stand straight and keep my shoulders back like a West Point cadet. As I became an adult, I'm so glad she made me aware of my posture. And it made me feel more confident with women. When I would walk into a room or nightclub filled with desirable single women, I would stick my chest out and feel confident that I could have any woman in the place.

Posture and manner can contribute greatly to sex appeal, or conversely, diminish it. You may have noticed that some women can appear much more attractive and sexually desirable than their looks alone would warrant because of the sex appeal they convey through posture, voice, smile, vigor of personality. The same is equally true of men.

If you have a sloppy posture, an awkward walk, a slumped, flabby way of carrying yourself, attention to more erect, vigorous, confident, assertive posture can make you many times more attractive and persuasive to the opposite sex. Don't be afraid to practice in front of a mirror. Practice walking with your head up, your chin in, your back erect, your chest as far out as you can push it, and your belly sucked in tight!

Merely standing and walking in this way is terrifically beneficial exercise. But, it is also ever effective in magnifying your sex appeal. Think of the West Point posture as a general pattern model and then develop a posture pattern of your own which is more natural for you, but further in the West Point posture direction than what you possess now.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Meet Attractive Young Women

This week I wanted pass along a great article from one of my subscribers on how to score with young attractive women:

Don, I'm 35 living in Chicago and I'm a Christian. I'm rather liberal and my church isn't aware of my activities. I was on a Christian chat room one evening one day after a date with another woman who e-mailed me a "Dear John" letter. The excuse was that it was her and she got out of a relationship two years ago and she still cares for the guy - the most phony excuse I've ever heard...I just let her go...didn't respond back to her. I'm a rather emotional guy, I was upset, crying a bit, because this (Puerto Rican) Woman was hot. She went back to her country over Christmas for 3 weeks, wrote me e-mails every day and called me on Christmas morning and told me what a wonderful person I was. After the date when she got back, she came up with that excuse.

Well, I was on a Christian chat room as I described above. The subject was for singles and I put out a statement, "I need to speak to a Christian sister (the way we say female friend in the church). One woman responded and asked me what I wanted to talk about. I told her, "I just don't understand women" (This happened by accident...just acting stupid). I really don't understand women sometimes.

Well, I told her about the story above and she told me that she just broke up with a boyfriend who "used her for sex". I asked her, "How did that make you feel" and she responded, "Like crying and I was depressed". She was written a Dear John letter as well; it was a lot nastier than the one I received. Where I was disappointed with a few dates with one, she was really hurting with her situation. I immediately got off the subject and I started going to light subjects -What do you do for a living? What Church do you attend? What volunteer activities are you involved with there? You know some open ended questions (just like in sales where I work)

She responded that she was working a full-time job as well as being in the nursery at church as a part-time job and she didn't like it because she didn't have the freedom to attend church like she wanted. I used a process in sales that we call mirroring (I understand how you must have felt. Perhaps you were looking for a relief person so you could attend church sometimes) and she said that's how she felt...just trapped in that part-time job.

Well, I asked her what she likes to do for fun and she talked about some hobbies, going to movies, dinner - she's not one of these high maintenance women.

You gain rapport by asking questions. If the questions are more personal, you have to add a beginning to it, for example, do you mind if I ask you something personal or Let me ask you a question...then spring it on them...like - What went wrong with your boyfriend and you? They will rehash the thing. Then you ask, so, what would have been a better way for him to handle things? and she responds...

Then you ask, if you found a man like that would you be interested in seeing him? And she says, "Yea, I really would".

I made my own list of questions that I used as a guideline that I wrote down (she's in a chat room she cant see them). These open-ended questions are put in a certain order to meet the objective.....to get a girlfriend/lover/wife.......whatever you are looking for you can adjust the wording. Hang around one of your buddies who seem to score often (play pool or darts in a bar full of women). Play that game and keep an eye on your buddy. Observe.

I'm in Chicago, 35 y/o and 50lbs overweight, she's in New Orleans, 23, attractive brunette with curves...we exchanged photos. She took her own money, without argument and flew to Chicago and spent a week at my place and gave me the ride of my life...she didn't care that I was 50lbs overweight. Just by building a rapport with her she gained my trust - I met her needs - loneliness and being horny. Now she's looking for a job up in Chicago and she wants to move in with me! :-)

How a woman is horny is all up in her head and how you build that rapport. Never do anything to undermine that trust (look at other women when you are out eating at a restaurant and she will not see you again). Don't open doors for her and she will never see you again. Don't call out someone else's name while in your sleep or making love to her. Remember to have her talk about herself a lot. She has to do 70% of the talking and you have to ask open-ended questions (such as I've described above).

The woman was also qualified because of the fact that she admitted to me that her boyfriend used her for sex (she is looking for satisfaction and a regular boyfriend/lover/maybe husband).

She may ask you a few questions on the first date, that's ok...there are 2 ways to answer politely:

1. Answer the question outright
2. Some alternative answer.

One of the stumper questions she may ask on the first date (after I talked to her on the net):

1. How many girlfriends or relationships have you had, what went wrong? (She wants to know that you are normal...she doesn't want an outright answer)

You may answer this way - I've had a few relationships, some better than others and they were something of a learning experience. (In other words...you are strong and you are not hurting).

I think open ended questions like some of what I listed are quite powerful if I can get a woman who is actively looking for a job across the country from where she is living only after knowing her for a month. The key is a qualified woman.

Qualified means - Single, not attached...never touch a buddies woman...never touch a married woman...never touch a separated woman (they still be married and lie)...and its ok to date someone who has been divorced for a year.

This one that I met had one sexual encounter with someone from Germany and he wasn't really a boyfriend. Since it wasn't a long-term relationship like marriage, I believe that women (or men) can bounce back quicker from something like that verses a "freshly divorced" person. I've been in both circumstances. I don't endorse or condone one-night stands a few happened to me and that isn't what I was about. I wanted either a long-term live-in-girlfriend or eventually wife and family. Just tweak my wording a little bit if your needs are different and it will work!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attracting Single Women with Colognes

This week I want to focus on how to use cologne to meet single women. This method works great in bars and nightclubs especially well. However, it can be used anywhere you happen to be where you see women you'd like to meet.

Here's How It Works:

1. Put a small bottle of cologne in your pocket when you go out. I would recommend a top of the line cologne such as Polo. Even better I would choose a pheromone cologne such as "Liquid Magnet" (this product will give you an edge because when the women you approach smell it, it can make them desire you sexually and more friendly towards you).

2. Approach a woman you are attracted to and take out your bottle of cologne and say, "I just bought some new cologne. Could you smell it and tell me if it turns you on?" Whether she says yes or no doesn't really matter. The whole purpose of this method is just a ploy to meet her and introduce yourself. It's a great ice-breaker, so to speak.

3. If her answer is no to the question of if the cologne turns her on, then I recommend that you say this: "Well, if the cologne doesn't turn you on, do I turn you on?" Hopefully she will say yes and things will look very promising to develop some intimacy or at least get to know her and get her phone number.

If she says no to this question, then put some cologne on your neck and let her smell it and say, "do I turn you on now?" If she still says no and she acts like she's not the least bit interested in you, maybe it's time to move on and try this method of meeting single women on someone else.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com