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Address Books That Cause Problems in Dating and Relationships


I would like to warn you about something you should keep hidden from women who come over to your place for a date or just someone you have picked up at a nightclub, bar, etc. What is it?

It's your little black book filled with phone numbers of girls that you have met, ex-girlfriends, ex-wives, etc. This is personal and private information not to be shared with any woman.



If you're like me, I have my little black book filled with girls phone numbers, being that I was a player. And trust me, if a girl finds your little black book by snooping around your place and it's filled with phone numbers of women, she will get the impression that you're a player and perhaps use women. The last thing you want a woman to think is that you're a player. This turns them off. They want to feel special and not just another one of your conquests or another notch on your bedpost.

So, be sure and hide your little black book in a place where it is not likely to be found by prying eyes.

Some women, when you have them over will snoop around your place while you're in the restroom, while you have left to pick up something to eat to bring back home, while you have left to get some more liquor, etc. If you leave them alone in your place they may be tempted to snoop through your personal belongings. So, that's why I recommend hiding your little black book. Also, I would highly recommend hiding all your pornographic magazines, videos, or DVD's. At least until she gets to know you better and you can find out if she is offended by pornography.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Magic Trick to Use to Meet Single Women


This week I want to talk about how to meet and attract single women using magic. Magic tricks are a great way to impress women and are excellent to use for ice-breakers. Here's my favorite magic trick to use to impress women which is called, "How to Read Her Mind Magic Trick."

You will need a small box of crayons that contain only 8 colors. When you're with a woman you're attracted to, simply ask her, "Can I show you a magic trick?" She will ask, "What is it?"



Hand her the closed box of crayons and tell her to select a crayon when you turn your back towards her. With your back turned towards her and your hands behind your back, tell her to put the crayon in your hand. Now turn around and face her with your hands still behind your back.

Now, tell her to think of the color of the crayon. As she's thinking Of the color, scrape the crayon with your right thumbnail. Then tell her you need to touch her head to "read her thoughts." Now, simply look at your right thumbnail to see the color of the crayon. Now, tell her the color of the crayon she picked. After you tell her, rub the crayon off your thumbnail with a finger. I guarantee you that she will be amazed. Now, you've opened the door to get better acquainted that can lead to intimacy.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Method on How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs


I wanted to pass along a technique I used very successfully to pick up single women in bars and nightclubs. Try it and see how it works for you. You've got nothing to lose and lots of hot & sexy women to gain.

I call this technique, "The Birthday Method" of meeting and seducing women in bars and nightclubs. Here's how it works:

Remember back when you were a kid and how excited you got when it was your birthday because you knew you were going to get some gifts and you could hardly wait to open them. I remember I could hardly sleep the night before my birthday party.



What I did was use this excitement and anticipation from my birthday childhood memories to help me meet and pick up women at bars and nightclubs.

Here's what I would do: Before I went out to bars and nightclubs I would pretend it was my birthday and my birthday party was at the particular bar or nightclub I was going to that night. And I was going there to pick up my gifts.

Guess what the gifts were? It was the women that were there that I was attracted to. I would pretend all the single women in there were my gifts. I just had to choose the ones I desired to unwrap my gift, so to speak (if you know what I mean).

This method gave me confidence to approach women, knowing that they were my gifts. After all, it was my special night held in my honor and these women were my gifts. If you think about it, all women are God-given gifts to men.

Try this method and see if it works for you. It may seem a little bit silly to you, but trust me, you can work miracles just by using the power of your mind to pick up and seduce women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com



Advice for Men on How to Overcome Loneliness


This week I would like talk about any of you who may be in their 30's or 40's and have never been married and are yearning to settle down and get married and start a family.

Are you frustrated because you can't seem to find Miss Right? Are you longing to be a father? Have you lost hope that you will ever find someone to settle down with and spend the rest of your life with? Do you have a lot of friends, but you still feel lonely and long for true love and companionship with a life long partner?

Have you fallen into the trap of thinking that you need to be married and have a family to make your life complete and happy?



Now, let me give you some advice concerning these problems:

1. First of all, it's a big mistake to depend on someone else to complete your life and bring you happiness. Being happy is a do-it-yourself project. True happiness comes from within.

2. Please don't sit around in a dreamlike state and look at the world through rose-colored glasses thinking that marriage and a family is the key to your eternal happiness. The fact that around half of all marriages end in divorce should give you a clue that marriage does not guarantee happiness.

Don't get me wrong. Marriage is a wonderful institution as long as you find the right mate. And I can't stress to you enough that marriage is very serious and you must make the right selection of a lifelong partner. Don't just jump into marriage prematurely because you think you're getting older and it's time to settle down.

3. In the mean time, while you're waiting for some special lady to come into your life and you settle down, please try to find happiness and fulfillment in other areas besides from intimate relationships with women. My suggestion would be to become involved in helping others through charity organizations, volunteer work, community activities, working for political causes, church activities, helping the needy and the hungry, etc. It can be extremely rewarding by helping others. It gives meaning to your life.

I'm a prime example of being of service to others. I gain enormous pleasure out of helping men find love and romance through my articles and my products. I truly believe this is my life's calling. To help men succeed with women. God knows it's a jungle out there in the dating world and us men need all the help and advice we can get.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Spot Gold Digger Single Women


This week I want to talk about single women who will use you and manipulate you on a first date. I call them gold-diggers. They are not interested in you, just what they can get out of you.

I want give you advice about these types of single women concerning a first date. Let's just say you've met this really gorgeous and beautiful woman and you're trying to set up a date to do something. She insists on going to the most expensive restaurant in town. Should you go along with her? Absolutely not if you can not afford it. And absolutely not for a first date and I'll tell you why: What if you blow $50-100 of your hard-earned money on her and the date doesn't work out? You might as well have flushed that money down the toilet.

Another point is that you must not give in to her wishes on going to the most expensive restaurant in town. Stand your ground and don't allow her to manipulate you. Don't let her use you for a free expensive meal that you can not afford.



If you really can't afford to go to a high-class expensive restaurant, don't let her know it. Just suggest a restaurant that is not as expensive. When she questions your choice of restaurant, just say that it is where you prefer to go and they have great food and a nice atmosphere.

I might add, if you happen to be rich, then I guess it doesn't matter if a woman insists on going to a real expensive restaurant. You've got money to burn, so if you are used then maybe it is no big deal. Personally, I like a woman to like me for who I am and not because I have a lot of money.

Also, I'm not suggesting every woman that wants to go to a real expensive restaurant is a gold-digger that just want to use you. I just want you to be aware that there are women out there that use men and a red flag should go up in your mind when a woman suggest a very expensive restaurant for a first date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, an