How to Keep Track of Your Results in Pursuing Single Women

Hi Guys and I hope you are doing well with the ladies (if you know what I mean). This week I want to focus on the very important topic of getting results from your efforts to succeed with women:

The name of the game in pursuing women is getting results from your actions. It's very important to keep tract of how you are doing and how things are working out for you. Here's the program that I recommend that you follow:

You need to measure your success and reflect on how you are doing in your pursuit of romance. Think about what is working for you and what is not working. Follow the old saying, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." If what you are doing is working for you, stay with it until it doesn't work anymore and then try something else.

Be sure to constantly be aware of your progress and constantly monitor your results and efforts to meet and attract women.

Always expect results from your efforts to meet and seduce women. Think positive and don't let the enemy of self-doubt enter your mind.

I would highly recommend that you start a personal journal and write your results from pursuing single women for the end of the week, month, and year. These important notes will help you monitor your progress. Write about your successes and the techniques that worked to score with women. Also, keep track of what is not working for you and any mistakes you are making with women. It's important to know when you are off track so you can get things corrected and get back on course.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice for Men on Answering Personal Ads

You have answered a personal ad of the single woman of your dreams. From the description of her ad she seems like a perfect match for you for romance and a possible serious relationship. You write her a letter and anxiously wait to hear back from her. And you wait...and wait...and wait and you never hear from her.

So, you wonder what went wrong? Is she rejecting me? Did I say something in my letter that turned her off? Why won't she write back? Most likely you made some common mistakes that turn single women off or caused them to lose interest in you. Listed here are some things that may have gone wrong so you can take corrective measures on the next personal ad you answer:

1. Your letter was too sexually suggestive. When writing to a woman for the first time, never write anything of a sexual nature. It's a big turn off.

2. All you did was brag about yourself, your accomplishments, and your possessions in your letter.

3. You forgot to give her your phone number in case she may want to call you instead of writing you back. Some single women prefer to do it this way. If you just write back with your address, she may get letters from guys who include their phone number and she will pass you up in favor of calling them. There's another factor to consider. If you won't give out your phone number, she may think that you are married or living with another woman.

4. The letter you sent her looked like it was zeroxed. This is a real big no no.

5. You forgot to send her a stamped reply envelope with your letter. A stamped reply envelope helps to ensure an answer back and it shows the woman that you are very thoughtful. This makes a very good impression on single women.

6. You forgot to mention what is was in her ad that attracted you to write her. Single women love compliments and they want to know why to chose to write her.

7. Your handwriting was very difficult to read. If you have bad handwriting, have your letter typed. If she can't read your writing, your letter is going straight to the trash can.

8. Your return address is a post office box and you don't give a phone number in your letter. Without a street address and a phone number, she may become suspicious that you are trying to hide something.

9. You screwed up in your letter by calling her "Babe" or "Darling" or "Baby" or "Honey," etc. These words are just too strong to use on a woman you don't even know.

10. Your letter was full of typos. Be sure and proof read your letter or have someone else do it. If you have a lot of spelling errors this is going to make you look like a real "dumb ass."

11. You mentioned that you like to give or receive massages. This statement has a sexual overtone to it and some women will think that all you have on your mind is sex. Don't mention anything about massages in your first letter to a woman.

12. Your letter was written on notebook paper or even worse, the paper is torn. Always use professional looking stationary with matching envelopes when writing to a woman.

13. Your letter lacked warmth and was very impersonal.

Well, I hope these tips help you figure out how you screwed up on writing your first letter when answering personal ads of single women. If you will follow these guidelines, it will greatly improve your chances of that "dream girl" writing back to you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on Conversation Skills with Single Women

This week I want to focus on giving you some tips on how to talk to single women:

In conversation, look into the eyes of the woman you're talking with. Direct eye contact says, "I'm listening. I want to hear more." To show agreement and interest, occasionally raise and lower your eyebrows. When she's talking, listen with your eyes as well as your ears. If you look away, you may signify, "I'm bored" or "I don't agree." The result will usually be a short and unfulfilling conversation.

However, to look away while speaking is natural. It's a sign that the topic is being shifted or those thoughts are being collected. A pause while glancing away usually means an uncompleted thought, signaling, "I haven't finished. Don't interrupt."

Give her your undivided attention when talking to her. Focus your ears as well as your eyes on her as she speaks. If you practice techniques such as restating and echoing, it is less likely your mind will wander. If your mind does wander, don't try to guess what you missed. Admit that you must have missed something, and ask her to repeat it.

As you become a more experienced conversationalist, it will be easier for your mind, senses and emotions to clear themselves of distractions. You'll do a better job of hearing what she has to say when you can concentrate more freely.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attract Single Women with Pheromones, Meet Them at Laudromats

As an experiment last night, I put on some Liquid Magnet Pheromone Cologne to wear to a reception party for a publishing seminar at one of our Holiday Inns here in Houston. To my amazement, women were constantly approaching me and sitting next to me and becoming very friendly towards me. I felt like a kid in the candy store. I would suggest you try the same experiment to attract women like a magnet and have them coming on to you.

This week I want to focus on meeting single women in Laundromats:

Laundromat Pick-Up Lines - If you live in an apartment complex or do your laundry offsite, I'm sure you've noticed some lovely single women washing their clothes. This is a great casual non-threatening setting to meet women. Here are some opening lines to break the ice:

• "Can I help you fold those sheets?"
• "Can I help you do your laundry?"
• "Here, let me help you put your clothes in the dryer."
• "Can you tell me how much bleach to put in with my good suit?"
• "Can you help me? How much detergent do I need to put in with these clothes?"
• "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're waiting on our clothes?"
• "Could you show me how to operate this machine?"
• "Do you put in the detergent first or after the washing machine startsfilling up with water?"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Attract Women with Jokes

When on a date women love to laugh and enjoy a man with a good sense of humor. By all means if you know some good jokes, share them with your date. It will make a good impression on them and they will think of you as a guy that's a lot of fun to be around.

I must warn you though, if you don't know the woman very well I would stay away from dirty jokes. She might be offended and could even cause her not to want another date with you. So, in my opinion you are better off telling clean jokes and not too racy.

What if you don't know any good jokes? That's no problem. Go to your local book store or fun shop and they will have some good joke books. Then, you can practice these jokes on your friends before you try them out on your dates.

P.S. Don't tell bad jokes. You need to make her laugh and if you tell crummy jokes you may bore her. Also, Playboy Magazine and Maxim Magazine have a section featuring some good jokes. And if you go to comedy clubs try and remember some good jokes that the comedians tell. If the audience is dying laughing, then it's a good bet that when you tell the same joke to your date, she will think you're funny and admire your sense of humor.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Deal with Failures with Women

Are you disgusted with your love life and so lonesome you could cry? Have you reached the point where you're just not going to take it anymore? Are you telling yourself, "Enough is enough?"

If this describes you, are you aware that when you have reached the deepest point of despair this can be the day that turns your love life around?

Why? Because when you've reached your lowest point, there's no way to go but up. And when you have reached a point of total disgust with your dating and love life and you're not going to take it anymore this will inspire you to make changes to correct the situation and get back on track again.

For example, you will start pursuing more women. You will stop filling sorry for yourself and get off your ass and start going out to meet women again. You will do whatever it takes to find someone special.

So, the next time you get down on yourself because of all your failures with women, count your blessings. This can actually make you more successful with women by motivating you to do better with women.

Just refuse to throw yourself a pity party and make changes with a positive attitude with expectancy for results to turn your love life around.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

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