Advice on Conquering Shyness with the Opposite Sex

This week I want to give you some advice on what to do if your shyness blocks you from meeting, dating, and seducing single women.

If emotional blocks to meeting single women are too strong for self-help, don't be afraid to try psychotherapy or tranquilizers! Also, if you are suffering from depression, seek help from your doctor who can prescribe you some really good antidepressant drugs to help you fight and overcome feelings of depression.

Some of you single men who read our dating tips archive may be so shy, inhibited, and psychologically blocked that you will be unable to truly profit from the advice contained in our archive or our books, cassettes, and videos on meeting, attracting, dating, and seducing single women. I beseech you not to come to any such conclusion until you until you have first made a strong, persistent effort to practice the methods and techniques in our dating tips and advice in our products. Remember that the overwhelming majority of single men who read our tips, books, listen to our tapes, and watch our videos will be able to use this advice effectively to meet, date, attract, and seduce single women without outside professional help.

But if you have powerful blocks, can not bear to start a conversation with a woman, or face the company of a date, no matter how hard you try, then you probably need psychotherapeutic help.

Get in touch with the nearest mental hygiene clinic, or ask your family physician to recommend a good psychiatrist or psychologist. Your physician may also prescribe one of the many, very effective tranquilizers, not as a cure-all but to help reduce your anxiety, embarrassment and fear sufficiently for you to begin going out, meeting single women, talking to them, and developing promising relationships.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Dating Tips on How to Successfully Attract Single Women

Women are attracted to a man that other women find attractive. To understand this trait, one has only to look at what it says about a man when he is with a woman:

He must have things going for him or she wouldn't be with him.

He must know how to treat a woman. He is going to be hard to get - a catch. After all, there is more than one woman vying for his time.

If a man is with another woman, or has a steady girlfriend, it makes him safe. He is not out on the prowl. Women love to flirt, to express their sensuality and to test their alluring abilities. But women want to be able to do this without being "hit on" or "come on" to. So who better to flirt with, and to feel comfortable with, than a man who is safe.

Though most women will deny it, women are very competitive. They love to prove the superiority of their seductive abilities by being the one to catch the man that all the women want. Women love to show off their date when they know all of their friends are envious. The lure of competing for the popular guy is strong indeed.

Being seen with a woman is probably the single most important thing a man can do to help his image. It says that you have things going for you, that you know how to treat a woman and that you are a catch and it states all of this without uttering a single word. But how does this help you if you don't already have a girlfriend or a date? Throughout the book, we will show you many ways to be seen with women and many ways to suggest that women find you attractive - even when you don't have a girlfriend.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Meet Women with Your Cell Phone

Do you have a cellular phone in your car? Did you know you could use it to meet sexy single women while you're on the road? Here's how you do it:

1.While driving around, look for single women talking on their cellular phone that you are attracted to.

2. Pull up next to them and hold up your cellular phone and wave it at her.

3. When you get her attention hold this sheet of paper (8 1/2 x 11) next to your window (It says in big bold red letters, "Hi, I'm Don - Call Me at 488-6866."

Hopefully, she will call you while she's on the road and you can meet at a restaurant for a cup of coffee.

I know this may seem like a silly way to meet sexy single women on the road, but you never know, you just might get lucky and women will admire you for such a clever way to try and meet them.

In closing, always keep your piece of paper, asking them to call you in your car for highway usage. Also, you can always flash your sign to single women you are attracted to on the road who don't have a cellular phone. They just might write your number down and call you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Office Romances with Single Women

Here are some interesting insights on workplace romance:

More Companies are Now Tolerating and Accepting Office Romances in the Workplace

According to an article in USA TODAY, quoting a survey done by Fortune Magazine; the wall dividing love and the workplace may be falling. Chief executives indicate that they are being forced to be more tolerant of office romances due to the fact that long work hours make it hard for employees to meet members of the opposite sex outside the office, says the survey.

Of the 200 CEOs polled for an October issue:

79% say office affairs aren't a company's concern as long as an unmarried couple is discreet.

21% say office romances inevitably result in problems for the company vs. 75% who disagree.

78% say that when an office romance develops, neither employee should feel obliged to leave the firm.

"More and more companies are trying to promote the idea of the workplace as something that is not opposed to your private life," says Joseph Bacarro of the Society for Human Resources Management. But bosses still are cautious:

39% say couples working together can hurt productivity while 29% say they can improve it.

77% say office romances can increase a company's exposure to sexual-harassment lawsuits.

53% say marriage to a colleague can damage a manager's career while 46% disagree.

Bosses such as Orin Smith, president and CEO of Engelhard, a Fortune 500 chemical manufacturer in Iselin, NJ, say workplace relationships are risky.

A relationship gone astray may hurt a manager's effectiveness, he says.

Some CEOs say a romance between a manager and a subordinate can result in the appearance of favoritism. Others say a corporate courtship between any two employees can link their careers in the boss's mind, affecting decisions about promotions and firings.

"It's really great when they work out, but usually they don't," Smith says.

My personal opinion on this matter is that you should pursue relationships with single women in your workplace. Just be discreet about it and don't try to seduce every single woman in your workplace. Be selective because word gets around among the women that you're just using women for sex.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Art of Meeting Single Women in Restaurants

This week I want to focus on meeting single women in restaurants. Here are some tips on how to do it:

This is an overlooked place to meet beautiful single women. Using special techniques, you can be successful at meeting women here. Here are the techniques:

If you see a single woman across the way you'd like to meet, just simply use the waiter or waitress as a messenger. Now, instruct him or her to bring this woman a drink and a note saying, "Hi! My name is Don from across the way in the blue shirt and curly hair and I'm irresistibly attracted to you and I'd love to meet you. Will you come over and join me?" If she is with a friend, just invite them too.

If you see a single woman you'd like to meet at a counter or table with an empty chair, just make it a point to sit next to her. Then you ask her, "Excuse me, I've never eaten here before and I was wondering if you could recommend something good to eat?" This breaks the ice and then you follow up with your conversational skills.

As a variation to technique number one, ask your waiter or waitress to ask the woman if she'd mind if the man in the blue shirt and curly hair across the way joined her.

In conclusion, I realize it takes some balls to pull this off. But, you have got to aggressive to be successful in meeting single women. You've got to take "action" and you certainly can't depend on women to approach you first. You've got to make the first move and these techniques are effective ways to do it in a restaurant.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Meet Single Women by Volunteering

This week I want to focus on doing volunteer work to meet and date single women. Here are some tips on how to do it:

Educational radio and television stations hold telethons during the year to raise money to cover their operating expenses. Volunteer your time to man the telephones, make follow-up calls, send out mailings, etc. A lot of single women volunteer also for these causes. This is a perfect opportunity for you to meet and mingle with your fellow volunteer honeys. And who knows, by being involved in a common cause, it just may lead to seduction and romance. Just call the station manager and find out when and how you can help.

Hospitals and nursing homes are always very busy and welcome volunteers to help out with simple tasks. Working as a volunteer in hospitals and nursing homes you will be exposed to lots of pretty and sexy single nurses to meet and seduce and there's plenty of pretty single patients too. You never know that patient you meet while delivering flowers or magazines might develop into a love affair. There can be golden opportunities to meet and attract single women by volunteering your time in hospitals and nursing homes. Just contact your local medical facilities and ask about their volunteer programs.

If you believe in and support causes such as environmental protection, civil rights, historical preservation, or whatever - join these groups to support causes. You will be exposed to single women who share your interest and this can blossom into a romance. People thrown together supporting causes can develop close friendships that can lead to serious relationships. Check your local newspaper for dates and times of meetings in your area.

Do you have a political candidate that you believe in and support? Call your local party headquarters and ask how you can help on a local, county, or national level. This is a great way to meet potential mates and perform a civic duty at the same time.

If you're a single parent, look into joining one of the clubs oriented toward others in your situation. This will give you the opportunity to perhaps meet some single attractive mothers. You must love kids though. Check your local paper or telephone directory for groups such as Parents without Partners. It will be a lot of fun to share experiences and problems with other female single parents.

Volunteer to become a "Big Brother" to a disadvantaged child. You will really bring a lot of joy and happiness into a child's life and perhaps you may be attracted to the mother of the child. You just never know what fate may bring you. You can meet your future mate, just out of the blue by doing a great service such as this.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice About Dating Services and What to Expect

If any of you have been to my website, you know that I have a free book online for you to read about getting ripped off by dating services (especially video dating services). Well, I was contacted by a sweet young lady who works for a prominent dating service who offered this rebuttal to my book:

I've worked for a large dating service for over two years. I have seen that most men that come in (especially if they are age 45 and up) have incredibly high standards and that they will never ever meet someone that fits their criteria. They do not understand that we cannot create someone for them. They are their own worst enemy.

The situations I see happen most are these:

1) A man will come in and be very open on who he is hoping to meet. Prior to speaking with his first introduction he will change his criteria dramatically, to the point that we cannot match him. He is notified that this will make introductions go painfully slow, but since "this is what he paid for" he will not flex. He fails to realize that the women also have criteria and it has to match both ways. Now that he receives no introductions he claims it is our fault and we scammed him.

2) A man will receive an introduction and when he calls the woman she is not available. This he claims is also our fault. Yet when he forgets to tell us that he is not available and receives an introduction its not a big deal.

3) After speaking with the woman she does not want to meet him. This he claims are also our fault.

We have some excellent clients both male and female, that are realistic in whom they are looking to meet and enjoy their membership. Let me explain what I mean by realistic. If you are a 57 year old man that weighs over 300 pounds and is 5'7 and expect to meet a 34 year old woman that is 5'3 and weighs 110, then you can keep dreaming. Really the key to see if your being scammed is to ask for a girl like this and if they tell you that they can match you, then you know their gonna take your money and run. Another way to tell if you are being scammed is if they guarantee you will start a relationship with someone. No one can guarantee this, this is common sense.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there that will take advantage of people that are lonely. I know that the company I work for is not like this, still people with unrealistic expectations will complain. You cannot make everyone happy and people should not expect to meet the woman of their dreams regardless of what they pay. If someone is going to join a service they should look at it as meeting new people and having fun.

Just thought I'd pass my inside info along, let me know if you have any questions. Thanks for your time,