How to Cure the Blues When You Get Lonely

Dating and Relationship Advice - Banish Loneliness,Depression and Obsessing Over a Dull Love Life

Many great singles want to date and be in relationships that are fulfilling. If you are single and alone and want to banish the blues, I have some good new for you! If you are moping around feeling lonely, fighting off mild depression (or the blues) or find yourself wondering why you are not dating, here are 5 tips you can use starting today:

Tip #1

Forgive and forget your past. Whatever happened in the past is just where it needs to be - in the past. If it was a relationship that ended badly, look at it, analyze it and let it go. You will feel lonely and depressed for a long time if you are either obsessing over a broken relationship or beating yourself up over what could have been. Evaluate your broken past and let it go. Your future is waiting for you. Embrace it!

Tip #2

Work on yourself. Being the best you is an awesome gift you can give yourself as well as others. Being positive about yourself is critical. Learn to love and accept yourself and know there is no such thing as a perfect person. If there are flaws in your character or personality, get busy working on those flaws. If you are engrossed in making positive changes in your life, you won't have much time left to be singing the blues.

Tip#3

Establish and set your relationship goals. What do you want your future to be? What kind of relationship do you want? What are your life goals? It is critical that your relationship goals include a person that will fit into your life goals. Incompatibility starts when you just allow yourself to get involved with someone who has nothing in common with you other than physical attraction. Attraction alone with not sustain a solid long-term relationship.

Tip #4

Establish strong qualities in yourself. Traits like peace, joy, humor, kindness and calmness will pay off for you in every relationship you have. You will enhance your life and the lives of everyone you come in contact with. A cheerful smile, remaining calm during the storms of life and having joy are qualities of exceptional people. If you add those to the ability to laugh at yourself, you are equipped with most of what it takes to be a happy, well-adjusted adult. Light depression, loneliness and feeling sorry for yourself have no chance against a person with strong and positive character traits. Get to work on it NOW.

Tip #5

Go out on the town. Dig into your overstuffed closet and pull out clothing that makes you feel great. If it is a sharp suit, put it on. If it happens to be a cute flippy skirt, put it on and go out and indulge yourself in a wonderful evening. I mean dress to the nines, get out of your home or apartment and mingle. Don't forget to put on that winning smile. Enjoy!

If you are depressed and can't seem to shake it off, get professional help. For most people, the best way to banish loneliness and feeling bad about your social life is to begin turning it around by taking these positive steps towards the kind of life you want. Want more?

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From Bj Moorer and http://www.RelationshipAdviceHeadquarters.com

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Attracting Single Women by Doing Gymnastics and Tumbling

How to Attract Single Women with Gymnastics and Tumbling

One of the best ways I've found for attracting the admiration of and meeting single women (especially cheerleaders/tumblers/gymnasts/etc.)is:

Go to the gym/park/beach/etc. where there are single women (especially those who are into athletic physiques).

Practice/perform gymnastics/tumbling skills such as flips, splits, etc. as part of your workout/practice/jog/etc. Pretty soon, cute girls (most of who did cheerleading/tumbling/or gymnastics) will come up to you and say, "Wow, were you a gymnast?," etc., etc.

The gymnastics (flips/splits/etc.) is just a universally admired conversation piece that cute girls will use to strike up a conversation with you. Also, wear a tank top to show off your muscles too. You and the girls will already have something in common gymnastics/tumbling/cheerleading).

Gymnastics is easily learned (3-8 weeks is average for learning a flip) so take lessons if you're not already a gymnast (it's about $40 a month or so) -- trust me, it's the best for attracting beautiful single women (most of whom were also cheerleaders/tumblers/dancers, etc.).

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Dirty Bathroom Can Affect Your Love Life and Dating

Why Your Bathroom Can Scare Single Women Away

This week I want to focus on how to make your bathroom attractive to women:

This tip is very important. Make sure that you're bathroom is immaculate. Women will judge you on how your bathroom looks. If your bathroom looks like a gas station public restroom with piss splattered on the floor or toilet seat, rings around the commode, pubic hair stuck to the seat, pungent smell, you're in big trouble. Women are turned off by a dirty toilet and this will make a bad impression on her. It could even cause her not to want to date you.

Here's some tips on bathroom decorating that will really make a good impression on her. Always have good brands on display of colognes, salon purchased shampoo, Clinique men's products, hair sprays, etc. Single women really relate to this stuff. Also, keep on hand big fluffy terry-towels, two robes, extra new toothbrush (still in the package), etc.

A final word on your bathtub and shower. Make damn sure they are spotless. Women will check it out while they're using your restroom to see if you have clean habits. Rings around the tub, algae on the sides of the shower, dirty shower curtain, pubic hairs, are going to turn her off and make you look like a slob.

Guys, I just can't express how important it is to have a clean bathroom when you're dating single women. A dirty bathroom may not be a big deal to you, but single women are different and they will judge you on if you keep a clean bathroom. So, why not just keep it clean and well stocked so you will make a favorable impression on her and make her attracted to you because you have clean habits.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Warning About Dishonest Single Women in Personal Ads

Personal Ad Dating Scams

This week I need to alert all single men to a scam that goes on in some singles publications, swingers magazines, etc. that feature photo personals of beautiful single women that look like a Playboy Centerfold and the ad describes the woman of your dreams you have been looking for.

Here's how the scam works to rob you of your hard-earned money: Men buy sexy and beautiful models photos and place these pictures in publications and magazines with a personal ad. The personal ad describing herself will really capture your attention. It goes something like this: Sexy, beautiful single long-haired, blue-eyed blonde, buxom, 5' 5", 110 lbs., beautiful figure, long legs, 38-24-36, looking for serious relationship with older man, willing to travel or locate. Please write, I'd love to hear from you.

Then, unsuspecting men will answer these ads thinking this ad is for real and the beautiful and sexy photo of the single woman in the ad and the description is really her. NOT! This is really a guy that will write you back when you answer the ad.

So, what's the purpose of all this? I'm glad you asked. What he will do is pretend to be the woman in the personal ad and write you back coming on all hot & heavy to you in the letter and without even knowing you they will want to fly down to meet you. All you have to do is send them airfare and travel money. Do you smell a rat yet?

Some lonely desperate suckers fall for this scam and send the money. Guess what? The woman of your dreams never shows up and you've just thrown away several hundred dollars right down the toilet.

There are men out there pulling this scam and making a lot of money. It's not rampant, but I wanted to warn you that this type of scam does exist.

Don't be discouraged though because most personals with photos are legitimate. I just want you to use good judgement when answering personals of single women, especially the ones that look like beautiful models.

A real good dead giveaway that a personal is not for real in a lot of cases is that they will not give you their phone number and their address is a post office box. But, the main alert is if they come-on very strong in the beginning and ask you for money.

In closing, use common sense when playing the personals and take every ad and photos of sexy beautiful centerfold-type single women with a grain of salt.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great Way to Meet Single Women Using Billboard Ads

Meeting Single Women Running Billboard Ads

I want to tell you about a very unique way to attract single women for dating, romance, relationships, marriage, love, and sex using billboard ads.

Four single men here in Houston pooled their money together and leased a billboard (14x18 feet) for one month to run a billboard personal ad. The billboard ad cost $2500 and they split the cost four ways.

The billboard ad read something like this: 4 single white businessmen 27-32 SEEK WIVES. Write, Box 422, Houston, TX 77242

So, how did this ad do? Well in the first 10 days they got over 300 responses from single and attractive women. Also, they got a lot of local media coverage. The spokesman for the group even went on national talk shows to talk about their success with using this method to meet and attract single women.

If you've got the money to burn and some willing buddies, why not try this yourself and send a press release to your local media and national media telling them about what you did and your success stories.

Also, for a different twist to this method you could list a voicemail phone number for them to call instead of writing to you. For your voicemail script for your recorded message, you could use this example: "I love you darling. How long have you longed to hear these words? How often have longed to be held in a man's arms, to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows? My name is David and I am a one-woman man, writer, author, publisher, 35, 6" 2", 195 lbs., and desire to meet a attractive, loving, affectionate, slender woman 20-40 who is interested in a meaningful relationship. So, if you're tired of what you've had up until now and ready for a 1st class man to come into your life and treat you like a Princess, please leave your phone number at the sound of the beep and I will return your call as soon as possible. Thank you and I look forward to talking to you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on How to Pick Up Women at Swimming Pools

How to Meet Single Women at Swimming Pools

I know summer is almost over, but I wanted to pass along to you some tips on how to meet and pick up women at summer pools.

Swimming pools are one of the greatest places to meet all those hot & sexy single women in those skimpy bikinis you've been dreaming about. I'm going to be talking mainly about swimming pools at apartments, condos, country clubs, resorts, hotels and motels.

Here are the techniques I used successfully to meet and pick up hot & sexy beautiful single women at the pool:

You're going to need some very important equipment. Your appearance is also very important and you want to make a good impression upon entering the pool area. I would suggest wearing a pair of stylish swimming trunks. GQ, Playboy, and Penthouse magazines offer some good examples. Undergear Catalog offers a real good selection (call 1-800-854-2795 and request a catalog). Also, I would suggest wearing some nice thongs, sunglasses, an unusual hat, and a Hawaiian or surfer shirt. The idea is to create a refined look and not to look like a bum.

Your most important item to bring with you is your ice chest. Stock it with an assortment of liquor. I'd suggest some beer, wine, coke, and pre-made mixed drinks that come in cans you can purchase at your local liquor store. Don't forget the plastic bar glasses! Also, bring your inflatable air mattress and an extra one if possible, and a good sounding radio.

OK, now you're looking the part and you've got all your attraction ammunition with you. Let's take it step-by-step using these proven techniques:

You've entered the pool area. Make a complete circle around the pool to check out the available women. While you're walking and you catch the eye of a female you're attracted to, instantly remark, "Hi" or "Hello" or "It sure is a pretty day isn't it?" If you get a response, keep walking and make a circle and come back to her.

When you return ask her, "Can I join you?" Most likely she won't mind. Introduce yourself and offer her a drink. Turn on your radio and ask her if there's any particular station she would like to listen to. To establish some physical contact, ask her to rub some suntan oil on your back. If you've played your cards right and turned on your charm and conversational skills; you should be on your way to some romance and fun in the sun.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

10 Top Places to Take Single Women on Date.

10 Surefire Places to Take a Date to Impress Single Women

This week I would like to tell you in my opinion the top 10 places to take a date.

If you really want to impress single women on a first date and make her fall for you, take her on a unique date she will never forget. By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again and again.

Just keep taking a single woman you're attracted to on one fun and creative date after another and she's bound to fall for you and want to make mad passionate love to you. Try it. It works! Here's a gold mine of creative dating ideas for taking women on a first date that will make a lasting impression make them crave to be with you:

1. Amusement Parks - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. Dinner at Your Place - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a date over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

3. Dinner Theatre - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

4. Kite Flying - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

5. Moonlight Strolls - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

6. Romantic Restaurants - If you really want to make a good impression on your date, take her to a cozy and romantic restaurant. It's even better if they have a piano bar or live entertainment or soft music, dim lighting, roaring fireplaces, scenic views while you're eating, etc. So, spice up your love life or impress a date by going to a romantic restaurant.

7. Theatre (Live) - Most larger towns offer live theatre performances that can be just as good as a Broadway play in New York City. Attending live theatre on a date ranks at the top of the list for things to do on a date in my opinion.

8. Zoo - A popular and enjoyable way to spend the day on a date.

9. Picnics - This is tops on my list for first dates. Just bring a bottle of wine, cheese and crackers, or even better just pick up some fried chicken and potato salad. Don't forget the blanket and radio!

10. Cruises - If there are any cruises in your area (riverboat, dinner cruises, yacht cruises, gambling cruises, sunset cruises, or just any kind of cruise) don't pass up this opportunity for one of the best ways to impress single women on a first date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com